Forgiveness.

[chantellehugs]

Would you say you are a forgiving person? I think I'm pretty forgiving when it comes to things like arguments with my friends and situations similar. But when it comes to trust and breaking it I just can't forgive, not fully anyway. I recently fell out with one of my best friends because she did something that really hurt me. I forgive her physically (as in I'll still speak with her) but emotionally the connection between us as best friends has gone.
What sort of situations are the ones you find hardest to forgive?

[Jordan]

Yeah I'm a forgiving person :D It's annoying because sometimes I don't want to forgive them but then I just do

[dirrty]

i'll always forget, but never forgive. i'm a stubborn ******* who'll hold grudges for a long time.

[myke]

i'm a forgiving person and sometimes i forgive too much and feel like a mug lmao

[lawrawrrr]

To quote Mr Darcy...

My good opinion once lost is lost forever.

It takes a LONG time for people to earn my forgiveness, even if it seems like I may have forgiven them... it's not the same, takes longtingz. Although, there are some people who I'd still forgive if they asked or wanted, because of the circumstances and who they are and stuff :rolleyes:

[Chris]

I would say I am, maybe even too forgiving.

[Red]

I generally try to forgive and forget. Although last year my friend really hurt me. We were meant to be living with each other and she pulled out really late because she said she couldn't afford it and missed her family at home. By this stage most of my friends were already sorted but I found some other friends to live with and when we were signing the contracts, I found out she had already signed hers with some other people. She has a ton of excuses and I broke of the friendship cause personally if anyone is willing to do that then they ain't much of a friend. I forgive her and don't really hold anything against her but I won't be speaking to her again.

[Accipiter]

I forgive, but half the time they think I don't even know about things.

[buttons]

i still don't forgive my friend for breaking my buffy dvd. it's been 8 years and i still bring it up :@


i used to get even and it ALWAYS worked in my favour. i just forgive and forget now because i don't want to wait until it's too late plus being happy is the best revenge init. i'm less likely to forgive if you intentionally hurt my friends/family but for me personally i don't mind, i sorta expect it to happen. i just trust less instead! though i'll neverrrr forgive my brother and don't think it's appropriate to do so anyway.
i'm not sure how i'd react if someone murdered my friend/family even if it was a ~mistake~. i don't understand how people do that.

[@K]

I can be and I can't be. Suppose it just depends on how pissed off I am. I don't normally forgive though, well girlfriends I always do, can't help it.

[Stephen]

Depends really like if it's just an argument with someone or they said something accidentally or whatever then I'll always want to forgive them and sort it out but if it's like a continuous thing then I wouldn't want to live forgiving someone 24/7 cos that's stoopid

But things that have a negative effect on you or/and people you love's life are the things I'd find hard to forgive x20000. Like my dad hasn't been like a dad to me at all and if he just randomly started then I wouldn't forgive him cos it's 18 years too late

[Aidenn]

I'm the forgiving type, sometime i forgive abit to much though i my opinion, Hardest one must by lies though.

[Sharon]

I don't forgive and forget if in my opinion it is a big thing. If it's something small and they apologise, why not?

[Narnat,]

Well people say that I can be a bit too forgiving which I think I can agree with but when it comes to breaking trust and loyalty then I can be a bit more stubborn, but the way I look at it is like they could have done something a lot worse.

[Conservative,]

I forgive but I don't forget. And sometimes I do things irrationally when I'm annoyed/irritated/upset and don't forgive until after. But in general I do try to forgive.

[Shar]

I've always forgiven and forgotten. I don't believe in holding a grudge and even if the person doesn't deserve my forgiveness, I end up forgiving them anyway. That's probably one of my biggest weaknesses and doesn't do me any favours.

[:.:kaytay:.:]

When it comes to Forgiveness, It take me a while to warm up that person again, after they ruined my trust, i will never be able to trust them like i once did before. It's just me, i have trust issues.

[Waaaak]

Yeh, Im usually forgiving. Just depends, I guess.