Women.

[PaulMacC]

Alright, I broke up from a year long relationship towards the end of April and that was it, over and done with. We said we'd still be friends which was cool and all, we still talk daily and then texts me yesterday saying that I'm being very negative and sour about life and everything else and it's as if I'm shunning her from my life. I'm really not though, she said she wants to meet and talk about it. What the hell do I say to that? I'm not doing anything wrong.

[Chippiewill]

Women eh, can't live with them, don't make sense neither.

[PaulMacC]

I haven't changed. I'm literally forcing myself to be positive with her and yet still deemed as negative and not caring?

[Chippiewill]

I haven't changed. I'm literally forcing myself to be positive with her and yet still deemed as negative and not caring?

Time of the month?

[PaulMacC]

Time of the month?

No idea. She's been really short in her texts for the past few weeks.

[Nemo]

Ignore it
or
Block her from your life which you should have done in the first place.

God dammit paul

[ben]

cut contact

[Chippiewill]

cut contact

I have to agree, it seems unfair on you.

[Narnat,]

Quite a random thing to say! Maybe meet up with her and hear what she has to say. maybe she will apologies or something? Anyways good luck!

[Metric1]

******* come, and ******* go.

block and delete her from facebook

delete her from your phone

[Shar]

Don't let her mess with your head Paul, cut contact if necessary :(

[Richie]

A wise man once said there are only 3 f's in a relationship:
Find her, **** her, forget her.

And saying stuff like this is why I'm still single ha


I'd say have a chat with her, if it turns into an argument just tell her that if she's going to be how she is you'd rather not be friends any more.

[PaulMacC]

Her friend messaged me telling me to leave her alone as if she was the victim. I told her we needed a break and so I aint talked to her in 3 days now. Not even going to bother initiating contact anytime soon.

[Shar]

That sounds sensible tbh.
Hope you're ok Paul :(

[PaulMacC]

Stuff like that doesn't bother me. I'm only 18. Women come and go.

[Catzsy]

Her friend messaged me telling me to leave her alone as if she was the victim. I told her we needed a break and so I aint talked to her in 3 days now. Not even going to bother initiating contact anytime soon.


Stuff like that doesn't bother me. I'm only 18. Women come and go.

This and this. Paul you have given her every opportunity and tbh it's her loss. :)

[Stephen]

Now if we see a 5th thread about this girl, we're gonna get YouTube to delete your account

[wixard]

hahah stephen
yeah just leave her be, honestly don't contact her at all just move on
and if you're one of those people that wanna stay friends, it's possible you just have to wait awhile

i've had 3 proper boyfriends and i didn't speak to any of them for about 2 months after the breakups, it gives you both time to get over it and then you can start talking again just as friends
not all the time but it's much better than that awkward feeling when you see them around and act like they don't exist

[Meanies]

i cba to read the whole thread, but to prove that you aren't being negative or whatever, you'll have to meet up with her
&i just read that she was being short in her texts, maybe its her who's being off and she just doesn't notice it

[Camy]

I wouldn't say you have to fully break off all contact, but maybe calm it down a bit. Limit speaking to her, like once a week or something, and just see how it goes.
You're going to uni in september, right? If you still care about her, just try and make the most of it while you still can, you'll meet a whole new group of people at uni anyway.

[J0SH]

Hit and run one last time. Plus you're still young you don't need to worry about a relationship. Single life is better, just go clubbing every night, after 1 year you would've pulled loads of girls then when you explore the girls a bit then you'll find the right one. You need to browse before choosing son.