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Shar
20-06-2011, 08:47 PM
At what age do you think you'll be ready to get married and start a family?

I know someone who got married aged 18, not because she was pregnant or anything (LOL) but she genuinely loved the guy and then they had a baby girl the same year (she got pregnant after they got married :P). I find that so weird because I'd rather live my life rather than get settled down so quick. The earliest age I'd be happy to get settled down at is about 25 :)

lawrawrrr
20-06-2011, 08:49 PM
When I'm ready. Probably early/mid twenties. :)

Nemo
20-06-2011, 08:50 PM
late twenties fo sure

buttons
20-06-2011, 08:55 PM
it's not really the age it's more the amount of time we've been together. something like 5 year or more so probably never. late twenties/early thirties, i'm not in a rush.
ive never dreamt of my wedding before but it happened the other day, it was so weird. i hope it never happens again....
i really do not see me standing in a wedding dress ever, i'm scaaared

Judas
20-06-2011, 09:00 PM
i don't really mind, whenever the time is right tbh. but probably late twenties as well, like 28. i wanna live first lol

,elaboratedolls
20-06-2011, 09:08 PM
Aww, that's cute. I imagined late twenties, 27 maybe. But whenever I find the right person really to settle down with.

,Lexiilu
20-06-2011, 09:47 PM
probably between 23 and 30. i decided i won't really have kids (if i even do) much after 30/31 because i think it's good to still be kinda young with your kids and not be like 60 when they're like 15 yaknow.

CrazyLemurs
20-06-2011, 09:51 PM
Well, my sister married at 27 in August last year, and they're having a baby a couple of days before Xmas, and that seems the perfect time for me. I even have a schedule. Marry at 27-8, have baby 1 at 30, baby 2 at 32 and baby 3 at 33. Then all the babies wont be like my family, each split 7-8 years apart xD

HarrySX
20-06-2011, 09:56 PM
I like the idea of being engaged when I finish university and staying in that status for a few years. So I guess around 25 or so. :)

Ms.Aquamarine
20-06-2011, 10:19 PM
Possibly 24/25. :D

HotelUser
20-06-2011, 10:22 PM
I'm not sure I could give a specific age. Sometimes certain things make me feel like its not right to get married at all. Other times when I'm talking to one person in particular, I feel like I want to run out and get married tomorrow.

So I'm not sure when is right to. When it is what she wants too and when it will make her happy would be the right time to, I think. Naturally if it got to that point, I'd want to spend my life with her too.

Samantha
20-06-2011, 10:25 PM
If I was with my current boyfriend now, we suggested marrying when we are 23 as it seems to fit in with everything as mine and his birthdays are on the 23rd and we got together on the 23rd. :)!

Aaron
20-06-2011, 10:28 PM
Ehm, not to young I'd like to get myself on my feet with a job, nice house and then re-think the whole marriage thing :)

Absently
20-06-2011, 10:49 PM
err well me and my boyfriend discussed that we want to have kids before we get married (if we stay together ofc) and we said we'd like to start having children when we're 26 so probably get married when I'm like 30. Probably really sad that we've dicussed all this ha :)

Martin
20-06-2011, 11:22 PM
I'll probably be like 90 before I find anyone, but late 20's ideally :D

Jurv
20-06-2011, 11:25 PM
probably late twenties, early thirties. I'm in no rush to get married at all and you need to find that right person first. :P

Neversoft
20-06-2011, 11:26 PM
I don't understand why anyone would ponder over such a thing. Just let life run its course.

Wig44.
20-06-2011, 11:32 PM
I don't understand why anyone would ponder over such a thing. Just let life run its course.

I agree with you, I don't think it's good to plan what age you will get married at, I get the feeling there are a lot of people out there who settle down with someone they don't really care about just to be married before a certain age, whereas I'd rather be alone than married to someone I'm not attracted to. I can't understand the former viewpoint, I guess some people are so scared of dying alone that they are willing to drastically reduce their quality of life.

Eric
21-06-2011, 09:48 AM
23 to 25. Only If i met someone i love. After that age, nahh not gonna think of having a relationship anymore lol.

Chris
21-06-2011, 10:57 AM
Not really planned it out and I dont expect it to happen at any specific time. It will happen if it happens. :P

Vinnie:Safety
21-06-2011, 11:03 AM
Who knows, If all goes well with this girl i been talking to lately, might be getting married at 18, if not then who knows. I can't imagine my self being with another girl for awhile after that.

Rozi
21-06-2011, 11:14 AM
To be honest I'd probably only get married if it was very very very important to my partner.

dbgtz
21-06-2011, 11:44 AM
Whenever I find someone I guess... Although sometimes I question the importance of marriage

Sharon
22-06-2011, 10:52 PM
23-29 no later.

FlyingJesus
22-06-2011, 10:55 PM
idk might go for it next week for the tax benefits

dbgtz
23-06-2011, 12:05 AM
idk might go for it next week for the tax benefits

you dont seem like the sort of person to pay tax, or work at all.

FlyingJesus
23-06-2011, 12:06 AM
You are correct I've never paid tax

Oh actually road tax I pay and VAT obv I'm not exempt from that except at my stepdad's garage

David
23-06-2011, 12:18 AM
Not sure, sometime in my twenties though :P

toribbz
23-06-2011, 12:19 AM
23 i hopeee<33

Pawf
25-06-2011, 01:11 AM
I'm getting married next August (the 25th). So, my fiancee and I will both be 22.

PaulMacC
25-06-2011, 08:17 AM
25iiiiish

wiktoria
25-06-2011, 10:34 AM
I don't know. Probably late 20s

Bevvie
25-06-2011, 02:41 PM
Hmm probably around 25-30!

AgnesIO
25-06-2011, 05:00 PM
probably between 23 and 30. i decided i won't really have kids (if i even do) much after 30/31 because i think it's good to still be kinda young with your kids and not be like 60 when they're like 15 yaknow.

It all depends on financial circumstances.

Why have kids early if you are not easily able to look after them? My friend is sixteen and her dad is 71 now. And a multi-millionaire.

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