How can I tell her I don't like her?

[Sharon]

Basically there's a girl in my year (Call her MEDUSA) my other friend (We'll call her Chelsea?) is friends with her so she hangs around with us. I actually HATE her she's a total tramp, never can afford a drink and asks me for mine and takes it when I literally just say no. I DON'T WANT HER ****** UP GERMS ON MY STUFF... She is always ******* rude and chavvy and it REALLY annoys me. I was like combing my hair and she's like "Cam I borrow your comb?" no. "I'm only going to comb my fringe" no **** off... also Kirsty (other friend) had like some major problem with her arm and stuff and had this pressure thing on it and a guy in the year below who knows Kirsty was proper worried and asked her what's up and she wanted to keep it on the d/l so she didn't answer so Medusa goes "She's had her first period and just stuck a tampon up her fanny" and obviously the guy in the year below is young so he didn't get it so Kirsty was just like she'll tell him on Facebook because she was proper embarassed...

My other friend (Kirsty) who is always with us too hates her just as much or even more and when Chelsea isn't in school it's just me and Kirsty who both hate Medusa so we always avoid her to the point where we're hiding and stuff trying our BEST to avoid her and she keeps finding us and following us. We only put up with her in the first place because Chelsea likes her so if Chelsea isn't in why the HELL is she even coming near us :@

Medusa is just HORRIBLE (hence the name...) and I wouldn't mind if she disappeared for life, however I don't know how I'm meant to act and if i'm meant to ignore her but like it's just so hard to and she always singles me out and is rude to me because I'm not a ******* chav 24/7 also if I'm offending her she'll set all the 14-16 y/o chavs on me, no thanks. :rolleyes: Not sure how I'm supposed to tell her to move and **** off, she has other friends too she just uses until she finds Chelsea :S

HELP +REP :@

[dbgtz]

full on avoiding wont work, you should just be really stern and short in your answers and really blank in emotion when talking to her. Eventually, she'll get the message and it's probs a bit nicer than just saying **** off I don't like you.
Well that technique worked for me and some people.

[Nemo]

Stop all dis kiddy **** yo. Literally just tell her you dont really want to associate with her because you dont like her and you dont get on with her. Stop being so passive aggressive. What are those 14 year olds gonna do? Be threatening.... big woop. They'll never hit you and if they do they'll get in more trouble than it's worth for them AND she'll be leaving you alone. Win win.

If she's friends with chelsea then you just kind of have to put up with her if you want to stay friends with chelsea, unless chelsea doesnt like her too. If she really does, then just put up with her as best you can

[RyRy]

Should just tell her that she's being annoying and inconsiderate and she should really think about what shes doing.

I mean it's all about the wording really.

[Jordan:A]

Yeah, just tell her how it is.

[!!BeWise!!]

If I were you, I'd tell her straighforwardly. Since you would be telling her eventually, I think its better to tell her now.
And if you stuff all these feelings inside, I think you might end up shouting at her. So, I think its better to tell her in a calmer situation, and before its too late!

[Catzsy]

I feel if she actually knew how you felt about her which is pretty uncomplimentary to say the least then she probably wouldn't want to be your friend either so best to just tell her that you don't see her as a friend and you don't want to spend time with her. Kirsty should do the same as well if she feels that way. No need to be nasty about it just firm.

[Lamz]

everything u have type above... tell her to her face...

"I don't like you because..."

not difficult, you don't like her so your not really gonna give two ***** about what she has to say after you be honest & speak your mind.

[Inseriousity.]

I feel if she actually knew how you felt about her which is pretty uncomplimentary to say the least then she probably wouldn't want to be your friend either so best to just tell her that you don't see her as a friend and you don't want to spend time with her. Kirsty should do the same as well if she feels that way. No need to be nasty about it just firm.

pretty uncomplimentary? understatement of the year so far :P

All the "I'll get ma brother/cousin/sister/friend/boyfriend of a friend/friend of a friend of a friend's cousin (delete as appropriate)" talk is just that: talk. You don't like her so tell her. Judging by your passive-agressive actions, she probably knows you don't like her anyway. Unfortunately, I personally think that when you're in a group, there has to be some sort of compromise because if you try to break up that group, it can backfire on you and they'll shut you out rather than shutting her out. I think you need to grit your teeth and get through it as much as you can. There'll eventually be a moment that'll break the camel's back and you can then use this to your advantage and turn the group against her. Until then, I wouldn't take the risk tbh.

[Glen Coco]

you just seem like a very angry person. tell her straight or just ask her not to hang around with you. or get this chelsea girl to talk to her about the way that she acts and hopes she changes.

[Gemma]

similar thing happened to me, but after a while my friend realised how annoying this other girl was. so yeah, if she's as annoying and horrible as you say, "chelsea" will soon realise it too, and then she'll wonder how she didn't see it sooner. so try push through it for a while longer, and then i'm sure things will be fine.

[Narnat,]

I think it is important for you not to be seen as ganging up on her when you say something so maybe make it straight to the point and walk away if she follows well be a bit harsher. If she still doesn't get the message get Chelsea to do something because she is her friend. Good luck!