I need a new hair style. Which one?

[makemehot]

Okay.. little background info

I used to be an insecure guy, always chosing for clothes that don't make an impression so I wouldn't be noticed.
I have enough of it and I'm working at it.

Clothing and hair style have a big impact on the way people perceive you when you meet em.
Therefore I decided to dump my wardrobe and I have trendy clothes and leather coats now.

I find my hair pretty lame and want to make a change.
I don't want to try a different colour, but a different style.

Maybe I should let it grow so there are more options.

Here's a picture:

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Any tips? lookin' forward

[Misawa]

Stick with short hair unless you want to look like an idiot/clone. Go with a grade 2 and spike it up a bit.

[Alexx..]

Ignore the idiot up there. You won't look like an idiot/clone if you let your hair grow a bit longer. But you should shave it at the sides and let it grow longer at the top and then style it like this

http://www.lookbookfashion.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/adam5.jpg

[myke]

Ignore the idiot up there. You won't look like an idiot/clone if you let your hair grow a bit longer. But you should shave it at the sides and let it grow longer at the top and then style it like this

http://www.lookbookfashion.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/adam5.jpg
not so sure on that, it makes faces look long

[Alexx..]

not so sure on that, it makes faces look long

I think he just has a long head.

http://0.tqn.com/d/menshair/1/0/P/0/-/-/beckham.jpg

[makemehot]

Stick with short hair unless you want to look like an idiot/clone. Go with a grade 2 and spike it up a bit.

So what's your point?
Long hair is for idiots or long hair would make me look like an idiot?
Maybe you think I look like an idiot anyway? lol

@ Alex:
Yea that looks good but in my opinion that's because of the combination with facial hair.
I barely have any. Genetical thing

[FlyingJesus]

Growing it out doesn't necessarily mean more options - often with shorter hair (say between 2 and 4 back/sides with longer top) you can achieve a variety of styles, but it depends if you want to pick a style and keep it or change what you do with it day by day. The best advice is just to experiment and see what you like - if you get it cut and hate it then it's usually not too much of a problem to fix it in some way and try again when it's grown out again. I would advise you to stay away from those "helmet" styles though with the droopy sideburns and birdtail thing at the back, I haven't seen it suit anyone and it certainly wouldn't go with your face shape.

On a side note, not really sure what Adam's on about saying that growing your hair will make you look like a clone and then suggesting the most common young men's haircut in the world...

[makemehot]

I have this image of the guy that never does anything wrong and I hate it. It may be ballsy but not ******ed and attention seeking. No excessive hair gel and no birdtails. Don't wanna look immature and attention seeking
Showing up with piercings and tattoos would be idiotic but I want to gradually change my image.
I like the "just got out of bed - look" but you have to grow some beard for it and I barely do.

I could go to the hair dresser and let her copy one of those hair cuts. I like the first one the most. But I wonder if my hair would give a similar effect if I cut it like his. Maybe there's wax or other stuff in it.

[Alexx..]

If you mean the one I posted, then yes there's wax in it to style it, but the good thing about that hairstyle is 90% of the time you won't need to style it unless you want to cause the messier the better.