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Neversoft
05-07-2011, 08:44 PM
Most of us have probably had those days where we've woken up and there's no one in the house. Everyone has left and gone about their business without leaving a note or anything and you're home alone. My question is how long would your parents, brothers, sisters, whoever lives with you, have to be gone before you would start to worry?

I live with just my dad and brother and if both of them were gone when I woke up I don't think I would start worrying until a couple of days later. Although if either one of them disappeared alone I would probably give it a day before I try checking up on them.

If you live alone, in university accommodation or whatever, then just imagine you were living at home to answer the question.

Stephen
05-07-2011, 08:49 PM
well tbh my sister could **** off for a month and I'd most likely forget she exists so never for her

but my mum always comes home everyday so if she didnt phone or something saying she wasnt gonna be home then I'd worry
or if she goes out with the dog for too long then i start to think SHE NEVER GOES OUT THIS LONG but i worry more about the dog when that happens like WHAT IF MY DOG GOT RUNOVER

mannnnnnn im well horrible

Jordan
05-07-2011, 08:50 PM
If they were late from work about like 1 hour and they hadn't contacted me

Chris
05-07-2011, 08:56 PM
They all come home at a specific time, so if it was a lot later than usual and I hadn't been contacted, then I would start to worry.

Shar
05-07-2011, 09:08 PM
Well if no one was home I'd call my mum first thing and ask her where she is, not because I'm worried or anything but because its rare for her to go out without her telling me, she always goes out while I'm at college and if she's not home when I get home I always call her and ask her where she is even if my dad and brothers are there. I'm just a mummy's girl like that though :P
If my dads not around I don't feel any different really, I know it sounds bad but it doesn't affect me although I love them both very much, naturally.

dbgtz
05-07-2011, 09:37 PM
My brothers probably a couple of days but if my parents aren't home at their "usual time" I get a bit like where are they and if they weren't home by around midday the next day then I'd be a bit like "where are they..." and probably get worried by the night.

Casanova
05-07-2011, 09:41 PM
My dad, a day.
my stepmum, six hours (she's always around somewhere)
my twin, never as I'll always know if he's okay. It's weird to describe but I always know when something isn't quite right.


I guess my dad worries more for my twin brother than me. I've went a week out of the house and he called on the sixth day to say "locking the door and we have your keys..." i guess i'm spontaneous whereas my brother always keeps in check and lets my parents know what's the info.

Robi
05-07-2011, 09:52 PM
Probably till it came to lunch i'd be like "oh no wheres my lunch :(" meh..

@K
05-07-2011, 09:53 PM
I think it'd take me 48 hours or so to worry, I revel in waking up home alone! Now, if I was living with my girlfriend, I'd simply be pissed she didn't say goodbye lol.

Rozi
05-07-2011, 09:55 PM
Well it's normal for my mum to go out early in the morning but if she isn't back by 8pm-ish then I normally ring her

wiktoria
05-07-2011, 09:55 PM
my mum about 6
my dad about 3
my brothers come home at different times everyday so idk

Sharon
05-07-2011, 10:15 PM
erm if my fam wasn't home as soon as i woke up (3 y/o sis, 9 y/o bro plus mum and dad) i would be in INSTANT worry. mum/dad work from home so really they have NO reason to just take off id first try my mums phone them my uncles/auntie/gran/great gran THEN straight away cry.

GirlNextDoor15
06-07-2011, 10:58 AM
No. I wouldn't be worried about it. Maybe it takes a few days for me to worry about them. They always come back late and they are NEVER punctual. Atm, I only see my dad for like once a day. So, **** it!

Red
06-07-2011, 10:59 AM
if they tell me where they are then im ok. If they just disappear and wern't answering their phone then by the end of the nite id be deffo panicking

buttons
06-07-2011, 01:45 PM
lol i get worried if my mum is out later than 11pm on a normal day or after 3 am when she's on a night out!! my mum is never away for a whole day without telling us

I wouldn't be worried about my brother at all :)

toribbz
06-07-2011, 03:12 PM
my mom always tells me when she'll be back... but if she didn't, probably an hour coz wot if she went to the mall without me ! :'(

my dad... oh, he always is out to play golf & hockey so it depends.

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