Love sick...

[Vinnie:Safety]

Me and my girlfriend got broken up by some kid she loved, she loved us both... Yeah iknow, though i could handle it myself, but i was greedy to take her so he wouldnt.

That other kid broke us up after 2 weeks. Now they go out...

Me and this girl have a much better relationship, talk about much more, love each other more.

this kid has hurt her everyday, either by ignoring her and saying ily to everyone but her for most of the day straight. or either by going over his exes house.

then at the end of the day, she has her head stuck up his ass, and saying ily again to him, while me and her talked all day straight.

another thing, i get treated different than her bf, and all her friends, maybe cause she loves me?

also, he broke us up, and its ok, and she still loves him, but if i do it , its not ok. Wtf... Not saying I am, cause im not, just something was said, and said.
Concerning that issue, He got me to ask her out when i wasnt ready by saying she could be with someone else next week,,, which is when i wanted to wait. Then he goes and breaks us up.
I force him to go out with her as the same he did to me...

What i wanna know is it just me? or what?

also i'd like to know how to get over this.... not like i dont want to, but i cant stand being devastated over this, i dont have the patience to wait for there relationship to end so she can fall back on me. i cant stand crying myself to sleep. we both said to each other, we cant see ourselves with anybody else. and it still is this way.

as i said before i am 16, she is 20.
this isn't some sort of teen love, and as wierd as this may be, i found the love of my life, and i know she did too, and thats me.

help with my questions, feedback? :s

[Stephen]

Haha is this girl the paedo u were taking to the zoo to pet lions?

[Nemo]

Me and my girlfriend got broken up by some kid she loved, she loved us both... Yeah iknow, though i could handle it myself, but i was greedy to take her so he wouldnt.

That other kid broke us up after 2 weeks. Now they go out...

Me and this girl have a much better relationship, talk about much more, love each other more.

this kid has hurt her everyday, either by ignoring her and saying ily to everyone but her for most of the day straight. or either by going over his exes house.

then at the end of the day, she has her head stuck up his ass, and saying ily again to him, while me and her talked all day straight.

another thing, i get treated different than her bf, and all her friends, maybe cause she loves me?

also, he broke us up, and its ok, and she still loves him, but if i do it , its not ok. Wtf... Not saying I am, cause im not, just something was said, and said.
Concerning that issue, He got me to ask her out when i wasnt ready by saying she could be with someone else next week,,, which is when i wanted to wait. Then he goes and breaks us up.
I force him to go out with her as the same he did to me...

What i wanna know is it just me? or what?

also i'd like to know how to get over this.... not like i dont want to, but i cant stand being devastated over this, i dont have the patience to wait for there relationship to end so she can fall back on me. i cant stand crying myself to sleep. we both said to each other, we cant see ourselves with anybody else. and it still is this way.

as i said before i am 16, she is 20.
this isn't some sort of teen love, and as wierd as this may be, i found the love of my life, and i know she did too, and thats me.

help with my questions, feedback? :s
lolwhat? this isnt some sort of teen love? Yes it is. And what u said after confirms it.

Anyway, point is she clearly doesnt love you or she'd break up with him, she's just leading you on or thinks of you as a friend. get over it and stop being pathetic

[Mark]

Text the Jeremy Kyle Show Monday morning? As Nemo said, sounds like a teen love lol

[DPS]

Shes 20? your 16? reporting this to obama...

[Aidenn]

Lol gf...

Youll meet someone else at the zoo no doubt, this time feeding penguins.

[Shar]

Lol gf...

Youll meet someone else at the zoo no doubt, this time feeding penguins.
LOL omg

It sounds like she was playing you, if she truly loved you she wouldn't of done what she did. Move on and try and take your mind off her.

[PaulMacC]

Mate, wise up. I was in the same situation about 3-4 months ago. There are plenty more fish in the sea. They call it a 'first' love for a reason! Get over her, you're much better than that and can do so much better. You deserve someone who appreciates YOU! You shouldn't feel pain or pressure in a relationship! Being single gives you a bit of time to clear your heard and to run about and kiss/sexually interact with other people trust me its much better, don't settle for less than your worth. Find someone who has the same hobbies, interests and loves you, be picky! You'll find the one, one day! Walking away from an unhealthy situation is the best thing to do, if she truly loved you, she wouldn't put you through this ****! :-)

[Shoe]

Really ??

I seriously cant read this without laughing, haa

you love her totally ;) defo kiddy love, i think more puppy love rather than teen love!?!

[Meanies]

i found the love of my life, and i know she did too, and thats me.

sorry but she can't have felt the same way if she went off with someone else over you..

[Samantha]

I didn't laugh or anything at your thread, might be because I'm tired, I don't know.

You'll hear this time and time again, you're 16, you will find someone else one day and trust me I've experienced going out with someone older and it didn't work. May I ask how old is the new boy she is with? Again, like others I think she is playing you, there are many threads like this on HabboxForum the boy/girl thinks that they will get what's left when they break up but really, when the time comes and they do break up (no doubt they will) then you will be cast aside and not needed anymore. Either that, or she will be friendly with you and then when you want to started seeing her again she will shoot you down as you were a sort of rebound whilst she got over the other boy.

[Jordan:A]

From what I remember from your old thread, she was from a different country?

I'm sure you'll be able to get over her and find someone who lives in your country and is more your age.
Plus its not like you're going to randomly bump into her on the streets..

[Zak]

I thought I loved Jess after two and a half years of being with her, being school sweet hearts and all. Turns out I was wrong, wayyy wrong.

I'm going with all the others on this one. You got a lot of growing up to do pal! :)

[Vinnie:Safety]

Mate, wise up. I was in the same situation about 3-4 months ago. There are plenty more fish in the sea. They call it a 'first' love for a reason! Get over her, you're much better than that and can do so much better. You deserve someone who appreciates YOU! You shouldn't feel pain or pressure in a relationship! Being single gives you a bit of time to clear your heard and to run about and kiss/sexually interact with other people trust me its much better, don't settle for less than your worth. Find someone who has the same hobbies, interests and loves you, be picky! You'll find the one, one day! Walking away from an unhealthy situation is the best thing to do, if she truly loved you, she wouldn't put you through this ****! :-)

I have already walked away from the situations, we made promises we wouldn't leave each other, as in friends, or even more. We also are soo much alike, like we are totally alike. I believe i said,We talk everyday, me and her still have love filled conversations, its just like, we are legitably together...

this thread has become pointless over today, but thanks for everyones input, most of you dont see it ashow i see it, your not in the relationship i am :) but... i dont blame you, 2 of you got me answers and helped me, +rep ty

if youre really interested in knowing more, pm me, idc.

[Nemo]

I have already walked away from the situations, we made promises we wouldn't leave each other, as in friends, or even more. We also are soo much alike, like we are totally alike. I believe i said,We talk everyday, me and her still have love filled conversations, its just like, we are legitably together...

this thread has become pointless over today, but thanks for everyones input, most of you dont see it ashow i see it, your not in the relationship i am :) but... i dont blame you, 2 of you got me answers and helped me, +rep ty

if youre really interested in knowing more, pm me, idc.
no you're not in the relationship, she dumped you. Move on.

[CMNiall]

He played his cards exactly right. In her eyes you are the beta male while he is the alpha. He achieved this by acting like he could any girl he wanted and you presumably devoted yourself to this one girl.

That's life. Evolution in fact. Move on.

[Samantha]

I have already walked away from the situations, we made promises we wouldn't leave each other, as in friends, or even more. We also are soo much alike, like we are totally alike. I believe i said,We talk everyday, me and her still have love filled conversations, its just like, we are legitably together...

this thread has become pointless over today, but thanks for everyones input, most of you dont see it ashow i see it, your not in the relationship i am :) but... i dont blame you, 2 of you got me answers and helped me, +rep ty

if youre really interested in knowing more, pm me, idc.

From past experience myself, everything in common/so alike is not what is best. For example, this boy nearly a year ago and me were inseperable, we were so alike etc. and then he chose someone he hardly spoke to over me when they have hardly anything in common. However, now I have someone who has different interests to me and it's working great, you need to explore the world and try different females before settling down with just one!

[PaulMacC]

There's plenty of fish in the sea, so don't settle until you find a ******* mermaid. In this case, she is not a mermaid as she obviously isn't treating you right.

[Aaron]

I laughed at most of the replies to this thread.

& I agree Aiden he'll meet someone at the zoo no doubt about it.


Lol gf...

Youll meet someone else at the zoo no doubt, this time feeding penguins.

[@K]

Am I the only one who read the bit about them being together for two weeks? Or am I just misunderstanding because the post was terribly written?

You called this other boy 'some kid', your 16 and she's 20, does she like little boys? This sounds wrong to me, the impression I am getting is that she's preying on vulnerable little boys. You do not know what 'love' is, I love my ex, I haven't seen, nor heard from her in over six months, yet think about her daily. Come back in six months and tell everyone then you still love her. The most recent girlfriend I have had, I love her, but I'm not IN love with her, two different things, and we were together for a little while, more than two weeks for christ sake. Yet, I am not crying myself to sleep at night, and we only broke up last night!

[Matthew]

are you seriously crying yourself to sleep lol

man up is the only advice I believe I can give! :)

[RyRy]

What on earth I can't even understand what you're trying to say. If she's that much effort, leave her. You'll save yourself from a fair bit of pain that way. But I know you won't listen, so good luck.

[@K]

are you seriously crying yourself to sleep lol

man up is the only advice I believe I can give! :)

He wont listen, let him cry himself to sleep, he is looking for attention, it is obvious what he should do, he knows it, yet just wants people's sympathy.

[Absently]

it's okay she was a pedo, you're better off

[Vinnie:Safety]

From past experience myself, everything in common/so alike is not what is best. For example, this boy nearly a year ago and me were inseperable, we were so alike etc. and then he chose someone he hardly spoke to over me when they have hardly anything in common. However, now I have someone who has different interests to me and it's working great, you need to explore the world and try different females before settling down with just one!

I dont wanna?! ;(
that's how i feel... :S :(

[J0SH]

Go to a sauna, seems like you need some female attention to forget about her. There's plenty of fish in the sea - move on.

[Wig44.]

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Your situation is not unique, this 'true love' isn't something no one but you can understand, get over yourself and get over her (it'll have to be in that order too). I'm not surprised she went for the other guy over you, you're the love sick nice guy that gets caught up over one girl and proclaims a 2 week relationship as true love.

It's pretty obvious she doesn't love you, actions speak louder than words. Man up.

[Sharon]

you need counseling :|

get over her already, she clearly doesn't like you!

[N-Dubz]

mate your unrequited love isn't going anywhere, ditch the *** & move on.

[Glen Coco]

you were 'in love' after two weeks?

[Hollie]

How you can be in love with her after 2 weeks? :S
+ she obviously doesn't feel the same or she wouldn't have dumped you.
You've gotta move on, it sounds like she was using you tbh since she was 20 and you're 16...

[Glen Coco]

is this even real....