Does anyone else kinda hate their friends?

[Isaac]

I've always been one of those guys whose had a close-knit group of friends as opposed to a large mass of acquaintances that I'll sporadically hang out with. But lately, I've been questioning if I really have any true friends at all. I have about two or three friends who will do or say things that piss me off to an extent where I don't enjoy hanging with them at all anymore, and I kind of think they're catching onto that. A majority of this Summer I've ignored texts and calls and opted to just stay home and be alone. I've come to find I prefer that as to being with people that I feel don't even really like me, or if I feel like I'm kind of the third-wheel etc,.

I know, I know, "get more friends." But I've known a lot of these guys for 1-2 years, some more. I can't just stop being their friends, and there aren't a lot of kids in this town I can see being any different. I feel stuck and now I'm beginning to feel increasingly alone. I can't be the only one this messed up.

[Hollie.]

I think exactly the same thing with my "best friend" I just dont like her anymore so I avoid seeing her. Theres nothing wrong with that if you want to be alone then be alone, but you do need to see friends sometimes so maybe you see too much of them and thats why they piss you off?

[Rozi]

I have this, moreso in the past, but I'd grow just to thoroughly dislike my friends. I always found spending time apart is a good idea. I'm someone who needs a lot of my own space and maybe you're like that too? You may just be being a bit over-sensitive to their taunts because you've realised they're being annoying and so you notice bad things more. Maybe, as your doing, just spend a bit of time apart and you'll begin to realise what you actually like about them and then see them again and love them.

[DPS]

If i spend more than 2 days with my mates i get "pissed" off ;/ i end up wanting to knock them out because there so anoyying, Always getting into trouble and expecting me to get them out of it.

[wixard]

i don't hate them, but each of them will have a fault or a problem that really pisses me off and i'll compare them to other people
or i'll be like 'why cant they just be normal like _____'
i've always had a huge problem of comparing things in my life to things i see on tv or in movies and getting frustrated that i have problems or live a life that certain people don't, which is not exactly healthy.....

you just have to push past that, these are your friends and you obviously became friends with them for a reason
like rosie said, just take a break and then when you feel ready meet up with them, nobodies perfect, everybody has flaws.
somethings always gonna annoy you but you gotta look past that and appreciate them for their good qualities and just have some fun

[Liam]

Silly question (IN MY OPINION, SO DNT START FLAMEING ME PPL!! K?!), why would I hate my friends? They're friends for a reason. Mind you, my 2 best friends have been in prision for coming up to 4 months so I'm missing them more than anything.

[GirlNextDoor15]

Oh my god dam goodness!
I hate a lot of my friends. They are very demanding and impolite. Sometimes, I couldn't stand them and I hit the door. :)

[N-Dubz]

do i hate my friends ... gonna have to think about that one.

[Shar]

I love my close friends and they can never annoy me but in one of my group of friends there are certain people who really get on my nerves so I try not to hang out with them a lot..

[Defocus]

I didn't know how lucky I was. I actually love all my bros, there's 8 of us in total and we're all dead close.

[AgnesIO]

A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations.

Going by that, is it even possible to hate your friends? :L

[Isaac]

do i hate my friends ... gonna have to think about that one.

I suppose hate is a little strong... insanely annoyed might be the more appropriate term.

[dbgtz]

I know what you mean but that was a couple of years ago and a lot of them just became really annoying, they probably already were but just didn't notice. Then after an easter/summer break where we didn't see each other on a daily basis we were back to norm. This must have been year 9 (so 2 years ago) and these people I have been friends with for 3 years and seen them probably around 75% of the year at one point. Maybe just take a period of not seeing them?

[Absently]

sometimes my friends bug me, since now there's only two of them... we started with like 6 (including me) then 5, then we became friends with like 5 more. Then we stopped being friends with another person (due to the fact they were in a different year to us and didn't have the same hobbies at us) Then this summer, we stopped being friends with the other 5 (one was a liar, one guy tried to hit my friend, ones too quiet, then the other two because one didn't want to see my friend 'cos they split up) But that's the reason why I've so little friends, we started to dislike them, see their true colours.

I'm sure they don't all annoy you, it's probably just one or two and it seems like all the rest because they all laugh along. I'm sure if you were with them individually they wouldn't annoy you tbh.

[Richie]

No i love them, I remember we would just disagree with one another just because we could, we have grown up a bit now so everything is just pretty laid back and cool and I couldn't ask for better mates.

[Oleh]

Theres a good 6-7 of us who are close, talk to each other all time, go out all time. Good stuff.


Should just think really how lucky you are to have friends.

[Andeeh]

I annoy my mates and they annoy me it's just the way it is but at the end of the day we are still close and got each others backs

[sophiethenerd]

I only have two. One annoys me by talking about the same things all the time. The other one does not often want to talk to me.

I get annoyed easily so yeah,

[AlexOC]

I have a couple mates that kinda really annoy me. But meh, I don't make a fuss about it, I just get on with them!

[-:Undertaker:-]

I think my friends have sort of outgrown my interests if you get me, I mean we're still mates and all but yeah. I guess it happens with everyone, eventually in University doing one subject etc you'll find people more alike you and many lose contact with old mates.

[chantellehugs]

I've known my four best friends for five years and we've pretty much argued about everything there is to argue about so we understand each other really well. I don't think I could ever hate them but there are definitely days where I'll be more irritable so they might do something to annoy me so I just go off by myself for a few minutes. But they know I do this to avoid saying something without thinking first.

[Jordan:A]

Got the same problem, always letting you down for example, one of my friends new we were going ice skating but then she decides to go spend the last of her money on some shoes :/

[Narnat,]

I have more of the problem were I spend to much time with them that I get bored because we haven't been away from each other and we can't kind of talk about anything different.

[Kaseythegreat]

I always thought I was the only one who kind of hated my friends. My best friend since kindergarden and I have been fighting all summer. She thinks we are fine and back to normal now, but honestly I don't want anything to do with her. I feel like a horrible friend. Maybe we just need a small break from each other.

[Camy]

Put simply, yes.

Most of the outer circle of friends, people I hang about with regularly, I can't stand being around alot of the time, but meh, it's better than just staying in the house all the time.
Even people I'm closer to I get sick of really easily, tend to see them maybe once a week/fortnight just so I don't get annoyed at them.

[wiktoria]

I have 2 best friends and I only have things in common with like 4 or 5 friends. I don't go out with anyone else because I don't enjoy their company lol. Probably because they act as if they are 17/18 or because they ***** about everyone and i really cba with it all. Sometimes my friends piss me off but I don't dislike them.

[Eric]

I hate some of my friends. They're dumb.

really really .. dumb

[Accipiter]

I know I wouldn't trust a fair percentage of mine, and I now really don't get on with a person who was basically my bestfriend through secondary.

But I've got a handful of friends I couldn't live without too, I tend too find you don't gain friends at school, because all you want at school is too feel accepted so you become "friends" with anyone.

Once I left and went too college I made two great friends just via college projects etc