Don't know if I should actually go or not? Need help quick, +rep!

[-Adam]

Heyy :P

Basically, my older brother started seeing somebody a while ago (2 months I would say), they lasted about a week or so before he finished her. About two weeks ago, her younger sister, who is my age, started speaking to me on fb. We get on really well together, and she asked me to meet her today, but then she told me her mate would be there also. I said 'Sorry, but I have never met girls for the first time if they are with their mates' so we arranged to meet up tomorrow without her mates instead.

I told my brother and his words were 'Dont get involved with that family mate, if you two have an argument, you will have the whole family on your back', to which my reply was 'Just because the older sister was like that, doesnt mean the younger sister is' Obviously I used names lol, just thought it would be easier than explaining who is who. Anyway, he said, 'Ok buddy, do whatever you want because I know you will anyway, but dont say I didnt warn you' Now im doubting if I should actually go to meet her or not.

Another thing is, atm I am stopping in the midlands with her aunty and her bf for two weeks, and I actually live 100 odd miles away, which complicates everything.

Im also worried because im not very good looking at all, but she is very pretty, obvo she has seen pics of me, but they have been pics taken from a distance?

Should I go meet her, and are my worries nothing? +rep, thanks in advance

[Hollie]

I think you should go for it, what have you got to lose, and like you said, just because her sister was like that, doesnt mean to say she will be, me and my sister are nothing like each other! You'll never know unless you try! :)

[-Adam]

Thanks! :) +rep

[Lamz]

I say you do it! Like the above said... you have nothing to lose.

If it works, it works. if it doesn't, it doesn't. I'm sure u was fine without here right???

[Misawa]

100 miles? Don't bother yourself.

[cocaine]

^ 100 miles... i'd barely say 10 miles let alone 100. don't waste your time. and people are a hell of a lot different in person than they are on facebook.

[Oleh]

^ 100 miles... i'd barely say 10 miles let alone 100. don't waste your time. and people are a hell of a lot different in person than they are on facebook.

Exactly! I can talk to anyone on Facebook and be whoever I wan't, speak to them on the street and I'm the most reserved person ever.

I'd recommend not going through with it. You will find others who are in a more practical location.