Problem.

[Delimed]

Right,

Theres this girl who goes iceskating with me and my mate, I never realized I actually liked her until last night, We come out of iceskating and her and my mate stayed behind for a few mins, I went to him when he come out and said Whats happened and he said 'I got into *the girl*' and then I felt like a feeling inside of me about her like I didnt really think before that happened, do you guys mind giving me advice, do I really like her or is it just me being jealous or my hormones being off the walls like any other teen.

[dbgtz]

Well if I am guessing what you mean by "got into" the girl, then he is probably lieing. You're 14 yes? I'd say it isn't you liking the girl, rather you wanting to "get into" a girl, assuming what I am thinking is correct. So you were jealous to an extent, if what I am interpreting is what you were thinking.

[jackass]

Well if I am guessing what you mean by "got into" the girl, then he is probably lieing. You're 14 yes? I'd say it isn't you liking the girl, rather you wanting to "get into" a girl, assuming what I am thinking is correct. So you were jealous to an extent, if what I am interpreting is what you were thinking.

This. ^

You always want what you can't have. When she wasn't with any other guy, you didn't realise anything. Then, as soon as something happens between her and another guy she's somewhat "off limits".

[beth]

yet another girl you 'like' ben hahaha. but he didn't 'get into her' and yeah, yr jealous.

[Delimed]

What do you guys think I mean by 'got into her' then?

[Catzsy]

Could just mean he found that he really liked her. Quite common to say this in the states.

[dbgtz]

What do you guys think I mean by 'got into her' then?

I assume you meant it quite literally.

[Casanova]

Warning - contains mildly inappropriate content
maybe he stuck his finger inside her vagina, maybe he meant he kissed her, maybe he accidentally slipped and fell - bringing her down to the ground!
god knows, no one cares?
You're just jealous because someone else is 'IN TO HERRRRRRRRRRR' and you're not. I'm under no doubt if you had a chance, you've had it. Move on.

Edited by Catzsy (Forum Super Moderator): Could you please remember to put a warning and spoiler on mildly inappropriate content.

[wiktoria]

getting into her = wanting/trying to date her

WOW GUYS!!!


if he 'got into her' then she likes him back yh? move on ben. + yes you are jealous and you like her.

[dbgtz]

getting into her = wanting/trying to date her

WOW GUYS!!!


if he 'got into her' then she likes him back yh? move on ben. + yes you are jealous and you like her.

No but he said he got into her which in my mind wouldn't make sense in the past tense of what you said as if he wanted her but doesn't anymore (which "got" suggests) then wheres the reason to be jealous and if he tried to date her then again no reason to be jealous and finally if he dated her then why would he not just say they went out?

[Mark]

Ben, personally I think you need to know the difference between love, relationships and liking someone. Not being funny but I think in the past year you've posted a lot of these threads! Be independent and think for yourself. If I'm honest, it looks to me as if you're just liking any old girl and hoping they'll like you back. Get to know her first, become friends and see where it goes, don't just go straight into a relationship.

[Delimed]

Ben, personally I think you need to know the difference between love, relationships and liking someone. Not being funny but I think in the past year you've posted a lot of these threads! Be independent and think for yourself. If I'm honest, it looks to me as if you're just liking any old girl and hoping they'll like you back. Get to know her first, become friends and see where it goes, don't just go straight into a relationship.

Thanks a bunch Mark!

[Vinnie:Safety]

"got into her"
Lol, like litteral meaning?
And just forget it man, you never know,,,
your mate could be the wrong one for her or he could hurt her somehow then shes upset and needs somebody to talk to , then you can go in for the "rebound"

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Ben, personally I think you need to know the difference between love, relationships and liking someone.

Don't forget infatuation, most powerful, strongest 'emotion'.