Relationship issues...

[Hopeless]

Recently I split up with my girlfriend. I did not expect it to happen. Out of the blue. We have been seeing one another for about 9 months. I don't want to use the word lightly but I think I'm in love. We haven't been properly together since around August but have carried on spending time/sleeping together. Last week she made the decision that we should stop this and forget about one another. This, for me, is impossible. I go to sleep thinking about her. I wake up thinking about her. Knowing that she could be happy with someone else is soul destroying. I know that makes me sound annoying and clingy but I would not say that. Now I know we will not ever reconcile it makes me want her more.

Do you think this is me just wanting something I can't have to use a cliche or not?

I know I will look back at this in a few months and cringe but when I woke up at 6AM and couldn't stop thinking about her I realised I needed to talk things through with someone. I'm known as a rugby lad among friends so I can't really go to them without being ripped apart.

Thanks.

[Narnat,]

I think it was a bit harsh for her to say that use are to forget about one another. If you haven't already I would try and find out why she decided to end it with you but your clearly not taking it well at all and it's completely understandable. I would suggest keeping yourself busy in the mean time because getting all emotional about her isn't going to help at all. Good luck!

[Blinger]

I think you are obsessed, sorry to say it. Only time will fix it. But a temporary patch can involve sleeping with other girls, going to strippers, chilling wwith mates etc.
Time to move on!

[Sharon]

Firstly, football is the way forward. Secondly, I think you need to ask her why she's been leading you on then to kind of just crush you like that. If anything I don't think she's worth it and you need to genuinely try your best to forget about her.

[Catzsy]

I think you do not need to be too hard on yourself. You cannot help how you are feeling. The only good thing is you will never feel any worse than today. Every day will make it easier to cope if you let it. As others have said it is just goind to take time. If you feel that you do not want to socialise at the moment then don't, Wait until you are ready. There is nothing wrong with feeling emotional it is a natural reaction and the best thing is just to let it out. Maybe confide in friends who you know will be there for you. I am sure everybody goes through this at one time or another. It's a part of life that is not pleasent.

[GirlNextDoor15]

Let [@]@Narnat[/@], said, you gotta keep yourself busy and you'll forget her eventually. Give yourself some time. Don't worry.