WHAT SHOULD I DO? +rep

[GirlNextDoor15]

I have a friend who I've known since about five years ago. She's very nice and sweet. But, lately, she changed a lot and at first, started liking JPop and KPop songs. We've had a lot of arguments about it because basically, I told her how annoyed I always am when she ONLY talk to me if they are about JPop and KPop. Seriously, she will only talk to me if they are about Jpop and Kpop. And when I wanted to talk to her, she'll start talking about ***** like Kat Tun or ****! I was very well irritated. We've known each other for so long and now, she's ignoring me. So, I indirectly said that she is obsessed with JPop and KPop stuff. Then, she's stopped that for a while. And now, she started the whole ******* thing back but with a whole new ****** subject which are One Direction and Olly Murs. She keeps on posting on my facebook wall about 1d and Olly. I'm really really really annoyed and disturbed but at the same time, I don't want to lose a friend like her. Like I said, she's nice and sweet except this bunch of **** that she can't get over.




WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!!!

[Empired]

It sounds to me like you're proper friends because only real friends get annoyed at each other in situations like that. You're lucky to have her!

I suggest you give her some space, let her obsess about things by herself until she gets bored with them or I guess you could change the subject whenever she talks about them too. When changing subjects, it's easier to ask her questions.
Something like: do you want to go to the cinema tomorrow? and then the film would give you something to talk about.

And, about the Facebook thing, either ignore it or pretend to be interested. She'll get back to normal eventually.

It's up to you where you go, though. But good friends always have countless differences ;)

[geo]

Woah. You're getting annoyed because of her music taste?
Well, you do realise people find it an easy way to communicate if they talk about TV shows, music etc.

Why don't you try starting a conversation about something that may interest the both of you or watch something you both like so you can both talk about it. If you're so bothered about it, why don't you just tell her that you want to talk about different things rather than music. If she can't take that, then that's a little sad.

[Narnat,]

I'm sure her obsession will slowly die down and when it does I'd talk to her about it because maybe there is something more going on that what you can see? You also said that she has changed quite a bit, some of my friends have done that but I like to see it as They aren't Changing but they are just growing. No one will ever be the same it just doesn't happen like that.