What to do?

[ImpliedPillow]

Hey I'm Adam, just signed up to the forum, will post in the introductions section soon :)

Basically, there's this girl who I was with for a while, then we decided to just be friends. We became close friends, we spoke everyday and I trusted her with anything. Although we argued quite a bit, we always sorted stuff out. Most of the arguments came from her lying, which she did quite a bit.5 months ago I found out she had lied again, another argument and we stopped speaking, but now I kinda miss her, I miss the convos we had. Is it too late to try and sort stuff out with her, and what would I say?

[Narnat,]

I think it's really important to tell her how you feel and if use do decide to be friends again explain to her that you don't want anymore lies.

[geo]

If you really do miss her then I'd tell her that. I'd just say how much you miss her and how you'd love talking again, also I'd avoid mentioning the argument. :P

[Hollie]

It's not too late, just tell her that you miss talking to her and stuff. I wouldn't bring up the argument but if it did crop up just explain to her that she doesn't need to lie etc

[Nemo]

I think it's really important to tell her how you feel and if use do decide to be friends again explain to her that you don't want anymore lies.


If you really do miss her then I'd tell her that. I'd just say how much you miss her and how you'd love talking again, also I'd avoid mentioning the argument. :P


It's not too late, just tell her that you miss talking to her and stuff. I wouldn't bring up the argument but if it did crop up just explain to her that she doesn't need to lie etc
You see all these quotes? Yeah, they're all terrible advice.

She's constantly lying to you but you're going back to her? She isn't coming back apologising, you're going to her. She has no reason NOT to lie again because in her mind, you'll probably just come back again. You've done well enough without her for 5 months, i'm pretty sure you're fine. You're probably just missing having someone to talk to, just find another person, plenty more fish in the sea n all that jazz.

On a side note, I wouldn't even try and be friends with her again. You want all that drama and lying again? Go for it, otherwise keep clear.

[ImpliedPillow]

I am kinda sick of the lies, its like in the topic post I said about the last time she lied, she then told a friend of mine that she lied about lying, like wtf? :s.

I know it doesn't make up for lies, but she is a great person with an amazing personality.

I do want to ask her about sorting stuff out etc, I guess I'm just afraid of her saying no.

[twinart]

Ask for an apology. She might go back to you ^_^

[GirlNextDoor15]

I am kinda sick of the lies, its like in the topic post I said about the last time she lied, she then told a friend of mine that she lied about lying, like wtf? :s.

I know it doesn't make up for lies, but she is a great person with an amazing personality.

I do want to ask her about sorting stuff out etc, I guess I'm just afraid of her saying no.

Oh well. She's lying and not apologising for that even though you told her about it. Give her a last chance to let her sort things out and stop lying to you. If she didn't, then leave her alone. She's not worth your time and care. Great person with an amazing personality... How can she be a great person if she keeps on lying to you? The trust is not there and so, you shouldn't even care about her. What makes you think the relationship will work if there's no trust? Well, I bet you definitely had a crush on her but then, got bored with it since she's lying. There are plenty fishes in the sea. Don't worry about it and focus on stuff that really matters in your life (example: your family and your career). Hopefully, it helps.

[pikachu]

Def tell her how u feel

[wixard]

no no no just always think of this

fool me once, shame on you
fool me twice, shame on me

no better advice!!!!!!!!!!

[ImpliedPillow]

Is there one for fool me twenty? Pmsl

Anyway, I spoke to her and we are all sorted and friends again, was a lot easier than expected.

Thanks for all the great advice guys :)