are you in a relationship?

[Sharon]

dunno why i'm asking... my answer is no.

[FlyingJesus]

Yes with Stas Fedyanin and James Smith and Kate Moss and Winona Ryder and Leighton Meester and Marcel Castenmiller and Benoni Loos and Cole Mohr and Allison Harvard and Taylor Momsen and Taylor Hanson and Andrej Pejic.

Also no

[MKR&*42]

No, I think relationships in school are pointless (from experience :rolleyes).

I don't plan on ever looking for love - if it finds me, so be it. If not, I'm not fussed.

[dbgtz]

Nopeee

[Samantha]

Yeah I am, 23 days until our year anniversary :D.

[Jurv]

Nope. :)

[buttons]

no i am ******* not. i must have one night stand written on my 4head. it's fine i prefer to get to know a guy before i go in to a RELATIONSHIP obvs

[Rozi]

nop I'm not

hoping maybe for something in the summer though

[Nemo]

nop I'm not

hoping maybe for something in the summer though
ave u still not made a move yet?!


n nope not at da mo.

[Empired]

Nope. Am bored with the whole "relationship" thing.

[Catchy]

Nope haven't been since last year now and I'm quite content with being single

[Chris]

Nope I'm not!

[Lee]

Not in one nope.

[JennaDoll]

Nope, never have been.

[Ekelektra]

No I am not :)

[Matt]

Erm i have been but i like being single at the moment :) So no im not

[GirlNextDoor15]

Single 4 lyfe and why is everyone saying NO except for Samanfa? Is everyone single?

[Neversoft]

No, although I wish I was. I need someone to cradle my insecurities.

[Eric]

Nope. Maybe when i'm older :)

[Jazz]

Yesh, been in a relationship since December :-)

[Shar]

No I am not!

[Damoz]

Yeah and having a baby with her hehe

[GoldenMerc]

yeh been in a relationship since like may hate my life

[beth]

Nope. Am bored with the whole "relationship" thing.

not being funny, but aren't you like 14. how can you be "bored" with the whole relationship thing. lemme tell you, there is no reason to be in any hurry to grow up because **** sucks once you are old.


yeh been in a relationship since like may hate my life

just bloody end it then.

and no am not :} got too much going on with my own life to handle another person/let another person get involved at the moment.

[Samantha]

[@]@Girlnextdoor15[/@] I was thinking that then people started posting yes, woo!

[@]@Shar[/@] I could say something to that but I wont cos im cool ;).

It's nice to know who is/isn't in a relationship though, I thought there were more in than out but this thread begs to differ at the moment :P.

[Vause]

I've been with my girlfriend for 14 months.. we've been arguing alot atm so we're on & off. things will get sorted though... i hope :( we more or less live together and stuff, i see her 4/5 times a week but it's gone down to hardly ever cos of the arguing. boo hoo

[JerseySafety]

yeah sophie <3

[Ajthedragon]

Nope. :P

[wixard]

kind of

if that answer isn't allowed i'd probably steer more towards
n o

[Inseriousity.]

Not in a relationship, I just kinda gave up caring after the last one so I concentrate on other things now.Ithink there's a horrible idea in society (especially amongst girls) that being single is a bad thing and that the only way you can be happy is to havesomeone else in your life.:P

ps bethie you sound like a pensioner, you're not that old... yet!

[Martin]

noopeee. hopefully one day, would be nice haha. Getting old :(

[geo]

Nope, I'm not. I guess it is a good thing I'm not, as it would probably end up in my heart getting torn and being in a bad state. Although, I'd love to be in one. Knowing that someone really does care about me and knowing that they could help me, and I could help them would be lovely.

[Cerys]

I kinda am. But it's complicated soo... might not be for much longer :3

I'm 'scared' of relationships tbh. I'm just like 'wtf why are you kissing me, get off my face pls.' xD

[Shar]

[@]@Girlnextdoor15[/@] I was thinking that then people started posting yes, woo!

[@]@Shar[/@] I could say something to that but I wont cos im cool ;).

It's nice to know who is/isn't in a relationship though, I thought there were more in than out but this thread begs to differ at the moment :P.
LOL omg
I'd rather stick to being friends and hang out with guys as just friends cos I don't want more than that atm.
I hate girls who think that if they're not in a relationship they're life is over. no it isn't get over yourself.

[Hollie]

I'm not :P

[e5]

Yeah I am :) 3 years!

[LetsBeFreaks]

nope and I dont feel the need to be in one anytime soon :)

[Zak]

I'm in an open relationship. I do however love my girl, she's my best friend.

[Sharon]

I'm in an open relationship. I do however love my girl, she's my best friend.

So you both see each other people and you're both find with that?...

[FlyingJesus]

Whyever not? Monogamy makes very little sense in reality - do you have a limited amount of love to give or something?

[Emmz]

Nopee :/ Im kinda giving up haha

[Nemo]

Whyever not? Monogamy makes very little sense in reality - do you have a limited amount of love to give or something?

init. And speaking from a survival sense, it makes sense to 'spread the seed'. However saying that, I think i'll stick with monogamy.

[jasey]

I am not in one and I want one very badly! I need a good man, though, to take care of me.

[Zak]

So you both see each other people and you're both find with that?...

I chose not to get tied down in another relationship after being in them for five years straight.

and yes we do and I'm fine with that! We both obviously find it hard at times, but that just shows we care about each other. Most people don't think this type of relationship works understandably but we've been like this for a year now and our love is stronger than ever I think. It just makes me appreciate her a lot more, these girls won't do anything for me and well I don't get that connection with them that I do with her.

[buttons]

Whyever not? Monogamy makes very little sense in reality - do you have a limited amount of love to give or something?
i completely understand that but it doesn't make sense from a girls view, a girl wants to have one man all to herself in order to support a baby but how is that possible when a guy (i'm not generalizing i'm taking it from an evolutionary point of view ¬.¬) wants to have sex with multiple girls?


& @zak if those girls do nothing for you and you don't feel a connection why are you with them :S

[Neversoft]

i completely understand that but it doesn't make sense from a girls view, a girl wants to have one man all to herself in order to support a baby but how is that possible when a guy (i'm not generalizing i'm taking it from an evolutionary point of view ¬.¬) wants to have sex with multiple girls?

You are generalising and are rather sexist to be honest. Just because I'm a man it doesn't mean I can't commit to a relationship. Personally I would say I'm actually more dependant than any girl I've ever met. You're being very shallow.

[buttons]

You are generalising and are rather sexist to be honest. Just because I'm a man it doesn't mean I can't commit to a relationship. Personally I would say I'm actually more dependant than any girl I've ever met. You're being very shallow.
i would say from an unconscious level typical men DO want to spread their seed. it doesn't mean they can't commit or that they'll cheat i haven't said that all.. research points to the fact men are genetically wired to do so? it makes sense but im not saying men are like that forever when evidently they aren't if you look at families and couples who have been together for a long time. i simply don't believe that any man that i will meet will ever be happy in a monogamous relationshipand i am definitely okay if people want to prove me wrong

[Nemo]

i would say from an unconscious level typical men DO want to spread their seed. it doesn't mean they can't commit or that they'll cheat i haven't said that all.. research points to the fact men are genetically wired to do so? it makes sense but im not saying men are like that forever when evidently they aren't if you look at families and couples who have been together for a long time. i simply don't believe that any man that i will meet will ever be happy in a monogamous relationshipand i am definitely okay if people want to prove me wrong

bare stealin ma words.

'n' that's really depressing lol. People can be happy in all types of relationships, and from what i've seen of other countries, culture plays a large role in whether a male is satisfied or not in a monogamous relationship. Obviously our culture has wired us to believe the monogamous relationships are right, and so people are more comfortable and feel happier (and satisfied) in one. That's what I think at least.

As for Zak, I don't think she's looking at him as a life time partner, and if she ever does then i'm sure they'd stop their open relationship dealio. I personally can't see it working in a normal family situation.

[FlyingJesus]

a girl wants to have one man all to herself in order to support a baby but how is that possible when a guy (i'm not generalizing i'm taking it from an evolutionary point of view ¬.¬) wants to have sex with multiple girls?

Well for starters sex =/= expenditure by necessity so it is entirely possible to provide for one person whilst sleeping with another, but regardless of that it's extremely sexist to assume that a man ought to be the main/sole provider for a family in a race (not even society, humans as a complete entity have come far enough now) that no longer faces the danger of extinction should our young and those able to produce more (ie: women and children) be placed in danger. While the view you're putting forth may be true it's massively selfish and perpetuates the idea of the disposable male, again something we should have outgrown

[buttons]

bare stealin ma words.

'n' that's really depressing lol. People can be happy in all types of relationships, and from what i've seen of other countries, culture plays a large role in whether a male is satisfied or not in a monogamous relationship. Obviously our culture has wired us to believe the monogamous relationships are right, and so people are more comfortable and feel happier (and satisfied) in one. That's what I think at least.

As for Zak, I don't think she's looking at him as a life time partner, and if she ever does then i'm sure they'd stop their open relationship dealio. I personally can't see it working in a normal family situation.
what words lol and yes it's depressing, be thankful you don't actually think in the way i do.

Well for starters sex =/= expenditure by necessity so it is entirely possible to provide for one person whilst sleeping with another, but regardless of that it's extremely sexist to assume that a man ought to be the main/sole provider for a family in a race (not even society, humans as a complete entity have come far enough now) that no longer faces the danger of extinction should our young and those able to produce more (ie: women and children) be placed in danger. While the view you're putting forth may be true it's massively selfish and perpetuates the idea of the disposable male, again something we should have outgrown
erm yeah i know its possible to provide for one person whilst sleeping with another but i wouldn't want to be 'the other girl' or the one being cheated on. i didn't mean i want a guy just to be able to be supported, i mean i want a guy to like me and only me so yes i'm selfish, i thought all humans were? & i don't like the thought of getting other girls pregnant. i don't know how to explain. i don't mean to be sexist but i don't see males being SEEN as the main provider changing any time soon... and to me it makes perfect sense, i personally wouldn't want to have a partner that earns less money than me and i was under the impression that males wouldn't be happy with females earning more than them either but again its just what i think. no idea what you're talking about with disposable male so i had a google n sounds like my perfect book lol


at the end of the day you can all enjoy your love and marriages while i'll be a bitter old hag who wont fall in love in order to avoid the inevitable heartbreak. which totally contradicts my first post in here wah wah i guess i want to believe in happy endings but i dont.

[Lamz]

Yeah

known & Spoken to her for a year and a bit.

She's my bestfriends old school friend (known each other all there life), he introduced me & yeah... still early days (only been a month) but we have a great bond & are able to be best friends at the same time etc... she's 15 & a fifth months older than me

[dbgtz]

i would say from an unconscious level typical men DO want to spread their seed. it doesn't mean they can't commit or that they'll cheat i haven't said that all.. research points to the fact men are genetically wired to do so? it makes sense but im not saying men are like that forever when evidently they aren't if you look at families and couples who have been together for a long time. i simply don't believe that any man that i will meet will ever be happy in a monogamous relationshipand i am definitely okay if people want to prove me wrong

Either you hang around the wrong people, or the guys you know just put on a show as they may be like "oh yeah I'm gonna bang all of them... at once" but may not actually mean it.

[David]

almost 13 months. Though, getting bored if that doesn't sound too harsh - It gets very repetitive.

[GirlNextDoor15]

Single 4 lyfe yeahhhh. In short, no.

[Amberr]

Nopeeee im not :) doesn't really bother me as much as it used too if im honest, there's more to life than 'trying' to find the right person.

[velvet]

ya i am, it's nice

[SackRace]

no, single and proud x

[DJC4LLY]

I'm in a long lasting relation ship with my girlfriend who lives in the future

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[Swearwolf]

ya i am

[Special]

noooo single for as long as i can!

[Neaters]

I'm only 15 and I've been with my boyfriend for 17 months. :)
I'm proud of that. :D

[xdinosaurdaniel]

Single but kinda hating it now lol been to long

[Kasabian]

Single.

[Succubus]

Yes, I'm with my Bf =]

[Aiden]

Single. (But still in a relationship with OlgaKay)

[wiktoria]

Singul Gurllll add me on habbo Wikiii if u want to change dat x joke

[Cerys]

Um, kinda complicated :P

[Tom]

Is this thread advertising ourselves or something? :P

Single.

[Jazz]

Is this thread advertising ourselves or something? :P

Single.

start of a perfect habbo dating website+*+*+*+*

[ange-vashes!]

My answer is yes.

[Richie]

No I'm not, I'm forever alone.

[AlexHenry]

Not at the moment. I have a simple motto which is don't date your friends because if you break up then you probably won't remain friends which is a shame. Doesn't apply to all people though... :)

[beth]

kinda sorta maybe. ha.

[Vause]

single but very much smitten.

[kitten]

singleee

[Seikou]

single and my ex and i were good friends, but now we never talk and i just hate it ugh

[Abbie.]

Yes! For the past 3 years

[Samantha.]

Nope, single as a pringle!

[Suspective]

Nope. Living single. :P

[shiver]

no :'(

sum1 love me

[FiftyCal]

Nope, never really had a girlfriend. Didnt want to be in a relationship until i was out of school, less crap to deal with esp if she gets expensive.

[NeverSkem]

NGSB - No Girlfriend Since Birth!

[Ellz]

i'm not atm! i sometimes wish i was though!