Do you lead people on?

[Sharon]

Do you think you flirt/lead people on intentionally? Totally truth time but yeah I don't think I do... More the other way around! :)

[GirlNextDoor15]

Yeah but UNINTENTIONALLY. I treat them very nice just like how one should treat their own friends and they always misunderstood it. So, they are more likely to think that I fancy them etc.

[wixard]

when i saw this thread i thought it was gonna be [@]@buttons[/@] that started it hehe

erm yeah i do, if they show interest in me i'll sometimes lead them on because i like the attention
i think many people can say the same

[Sharon]

Hahaha no I was thinking of Jen when I made this, not cos she's a *+player+* but just cos we've spoke about people leading people on a few times:D

[geo]

Meh, I probably do even though I don't mean to.

[dbgtz]

No, I'm very self preserved.

[RyRy]

I flirt with all my friends, whether they be boy or girl, it's just the way I am cuz I'm luvvin life. If they get the wrong idea and start getting interested, it's as much my fault as theirs.

[FlyingJesus]

Yeah if I can get something out of it

[jasey]

I know there was one guy I was seeing for a while. His name was Alexandre. This was when I was a few years younger and less experienced (I didn't start dating until I was sixteen or seventeen when I came out, mind you) so things were different. He seemed really interested in me. The problem was he was actually too good looking. It made me uncomfortable - he looked like he came straight out of the page of a catalogue and I was always comparing myself to him because I felt like I was very ugly compared to him.

Regardless, he was the sweetest guy ever and he used to take me in his car to this lot in the middle of nowhere and we would cuddle in the backseat and watch the stars. No matter what, though, I always felt insecure compared to how good looking he was and that was always on my mind. I really liked him but I felt like I could never date him because of my own problems and insecurities. I guess I did lead him on in the sense that I kept going further with him even though I knew it would have to end very soon because of my faults.

Eventually I did end it or stop agreeing to see him and if I remember correctly I kind of withdrew and dissociated from him which was really cruel on my part. It broke his heart, I believe. About a year later I saw him on a social networking site and I sent a really big apology letter explaining what had happened but he never replied. I still feel bad about it to this day. Having been led on many times myself, I regret ever doing this to someone. I hope he is successful now with whatever he is doing. He really was so kind to me.

[Neversoft]

No, never. I don't see the point. I only offer love and interest to those I genuinely want to be with.

[Rozi]

Not really
I'm flirty and I don't like to be mean so I'll flirt back but I'm not one to go up to a guy and make obvious moves

[Special]

i don't lead people on intentionally i don't think lol

[Jazz]

I do sometimes without meaning to, but I don't do it on purpose

[buttons]

when i saw this thread i thought it was gonna be [@]buttons[/@] that started it hehe

erm yeah i do, if they show interest in me i'll sometimes lead them on because i like the attention
i think many people can say the same

Hahaha no I was thinking of Jen when I made this, not cos she's a *+player+* but just cos we've spoke about people leading people on a few times:D
thanks guys

i dunno actually. i'm incredibly flirty by nature, especially with a drink which is when i meet most people. male, female, single, taken, gay, straight, younger, older - whatever, i'll flirt with them. i can see why people think i lead them on or call me a tease, trashy, tart... blah blah. i call it being friendly and it gets me free drinks. (then i complain about guys treating me like an object and no-one wanting to date me :P) however, if i tell someone "i like you" then i'm not lying. i won't lie to someone to make them 'fall' for me.

[Eric]

Never. Instead people do that to me :S

[beth]

No, never. I don't see the point. I only offer love and interest to those I genuinely want to be with.

super cute.

anyway, yeah i probably do. but it's not because i don't want something with them when i start flirting or whatever, i am always scared that people are bored of me and i probably end up being so introverted they're not interested in me anymore :{

[Vause]

Well I'm in a relationship and have been for like... 16 months nearly so I haven't had to "flirt" with anybody in a while. I'm very over friendly though and maybe people take me the wrong way sometimes...

[velvet]

yeah if they're gunna buy me stuff