one thing you actively seek/actively avoid in a partner?

[beth]

i was gonna put "opposite sex" but EVERYONE IS FREE TO CHOOSE THEIR OWN PARTNER REGARDLESS OF SEX. anyway pretty much like the other thread but in terms of a partner. can be physical or a personality trait.

actively seek: i like thin legs. it sounds REALLY weird, but anyone i ever get with has to have legs that can wear either skinny fit or slim fit trousers and look good. maybe cause i'm short i'm always at eye level with legs. also a good taste in shoes. can't trust a man with dodgy footwear.

actively avoid: someone who thinks he is a #LAD. i'm all fine with banter and most of the time it's hilar, but i cannot deal with boys who tweet or facebook with "JUST ON THE LASH #TOPLAD" or any of that, cause it's just boring.

[Jazz]

seek: a half decent personality
avoid: someone i cant trust

[FlyingJesus]

Seek: being thin
Avoid: body hair

[buttons]

i TRY to actively avoid someone who likes to get drunk every weekend. that's the biggest thing for me. so why do i keep going for them?!
not really sure about what i look for. i don't really have a type. it's more important that they don't have specific traits.

[jasey]

Physically ...
Seek: masculinity
Avoid: girly features

Personally ...
Seek: romance / assertiveness
Avoid: pushovers

[geo]

Seek: Someone that has a great personality.
Avoid: Someone that I can't trust.

Same as Maggots really, those 2 things mean a lot to me. :P

[Samantha]

Seek: Someone who puts me first when they can. If they have a family commitment then of course not then but other times when they can etc.
Avoid: Someone who forces you to do something that will not help anyone in the future, like forcing you to say do something with them etc.

[RyRy]

Seek: HabboxForum VIP member
Avoid: Non-HCs

Edited by Martin (Forum Moderator): Please do not make pointless posts.

[Catchy]

Seek: Someone that understands me and makes me laugh even when I really don't feel like laughing.
Avoid: Someone who is too clingy

[Jurv]

seek: someone with similar music taste, or enjoys a variety of music. someone with a nice sense of styleee.
avoid: someone who enjoys drinking 24/7 or every weekend. someone over-confident and annoying.

[iLogan]

Seek: Over-confidence / authoritativeness
Avoid: timidness

[Inseriousity.]

I seek anyone stupid enough to have me LOL but even I'm not stupid enough to date chavs or people so far up their own arse if they open their eyes they see their intestines. I like someone who's down to earth. :)

[Amberr]

seek: biggest cliché ever but someone who can make me laugh. I hate serious people, I don't think I am ever going to grow up properly and be 'mature' so someone who understands my humour would have to be important I think. Physically I got something with guys with longish hair (I obvs don't mean like past there shoulders or anything) guys who don't use products on there hair (cannot stand spikey over gelled hair yuck) dark blonde also would be my ideal partner. I probably go for that as I never do anything to my hair, i'm all for the 'au naturel'. not overally fat would be a bonus aswell. o and a good fashion sense would be nice, no adidas or 'chaviness' in sight.

avoid: someone who thinks they are 'it'. untrustworthiness especially. cockiness and just way too over confident is a major turn off. I like the odd drink or two but out every night getting smashed it's not my kind of partner. physically, pretty much already stated. spiked hair just no and any sign of adidas i think i will scream.

wow ok just realised how picky i actually am, maybe this is why i'm still single haha

[Neversoft]

For me, I think it's most important to have someone that genuinely wants to be with me, someone who enjoys trying to understand me and loves me for who I am. I'm too stupidly emotional and sensitive, and too hopelessly romantic, that I could never enter a half-arsed relationship and I can't cope with heartbreak. I need someone who is loyal, caring and level-headed. Unfortunately they're in short supply. I'd also like someone who I can joke and be silly with, but also someone I can cry in front of and confide in and who has no gripes with trusting me and believing in me. Basically I just need me but as a woman. I avoid everything the opposite of what I just said. Especially shallow people, self-centered people and liars and those who think trust means very little. Usually those aspects come hand-in-hand, though.

[David]

don't know what i seek.
but i try to avoid people who get jealous & paranoid easily, "love" me and get clingy.

[RyRy]

seek: biggest cliché ever but someone who can make me laugh. I hate serious people, I don't think I am ever going to grow up properly and be 'mature' so someone who understands my humour would have to be important I think. Physically I got something with guys with longish hair (I obvs don't mean like past there shoulders or anything) guys who don't use products on there hair (cannot stand spikey over gelled hair yuck) dark blonde also would be my ideal partner. I probably go for that as I never do anything to my hair, i'm all for the 'au naturel'. not overally fat would be a bonus aswell. o and a good fashion sense would be nice, no adidas or 'chaviness' in sight.

avoid: someone who thinks they are 'it'. untrustworthiness especially. cockiness and just way too over confident is a major turn off. I like the odd drink or two but out every night getting smashed it's not my kind of partner. physically, pretty much already stated. spiked hair just no and any sign of adidas i think i will scream.

wow ok just realised how picky i actually am, maybe this is why i'm still single haha

wow amber you pretty much described me x

[wiktoria]

seek: male, some1 funny

avoid: overprotective ;l

[Eric]

Seek : caring and kind
Avoid : weird and girly

[Amberr]

wow amber you pretty much described me x

yeah as in what to avoid as a partner.

[RyRy]

yeah as in what to avoid as a partner.

LOL If only you knew me irl Amber, you would not be saying that.

[Nemo]

Seek: Someone who can make me laugh. I mean like, properly laugh. Not many girls can make me go past a smile so it'd be lovely to have a girl make me at least giggle (YEAH I GIGGLE).

Avoid: I guess someone who has to constantly be out. Nothing wrong with seeing friends n all that, but someone who starts complaining if they're inside for one day and don't know what to do is a total turn off. Nothin' wrong with staying in sometimes and being relaxed.

[RyRy]

Seek: Someone who can make me laugh. I mean like, properly laugh. Not many girls can make me go past a smile so it'd be lovely to have a girl make me at least giggle (YEAH I GIGGLE).

Avoid: I guess someone who has to constantly be out. Nothing wrong with seeing friends n all that, but someone who starts complaining if they're inside for one day and don't know what to do is a total turn off. Nothin' wrong with staying in sometimes and being relaxed.

Niamh (lol girl) don't lie, this is your real one.

Seek: Girl with an annual World of Warcraft subscription and has to be a MLG at Starcraft

Avoid: n00bs.

[Nemo]

Niamh (lol girl) don't lie, this is your real one.

Seek: Girl with an annual World of Warcraft subscription and has to be a MLG at Starcraft

Avoid: n00bs.
Dont even play WoW SO HA. And omg i would insta-love them if they watched MLG, but i'm tryin to be realistic with the girls i choose :(. Can't have em all online like yours xoxox

[RyRy]

Dont even play WoW SO HA. And omg i would insta-love them if they watched MLG, but i'm tryin to be realistic with the girls i choose :(. Can't have em all online like yours xoxox

yes you can!!! just gotta apply yourself to doing it yano

[Nemo]

yes you can!!! just gotta apply yourself to doing it yano

Well lets just say it severely limits my options. Even liking video games at all is a pretty nice bonus, so I dont wanna push it.

Plus if they like video games, then getting them into SC2 should be np.

[RyRy]

Well lets just say it severely limits my options. Even liking video games at all is a pretty nice bonus, so I dont wanna push it.

Plus if they like video games, then getting them into SC2 should be np.

fair enough, i just aim high.

[Nemo]

fair enough, i just aim high.

Well there's high, then there's ****** space. Plus i'm not as obsessed about SC2 as I seem :P. I think I talk about it to one guy irl for like 15 minutes every week or something.