Judging

[CaptainAce$$]

Don't judge those until you find out for yourself how the person really is. In other words, don't judge a book by it's cover otherwise the world will be a lonely place.
Do you agree, disagree. Had an experience of being judged or were you the one doing the judging, if so, Reply :)

[geo]

I think we all say that but then we've all been guilty of judging someone before we know them.

I'm forever being judged and I don't really judge many people any more, I try giving everyone a chance lol.

[Zahura]

You have to judge people, It's instinct to judge dangers etc.

[kitten]

i'm always judged, i just ignore it because most of the time the person judging me doesn't know a thing about me. :)

[beth]

everyone judges everyone everytime they meet them. it's a subconscious thing. you always make an initial judgement about someone.

[buttons]

yeah first impressions count for a lot. even if that's not who you really are, first impressions often are lasting impressions. even if someone isn't who the seem on the outside, it's still a reflection of the type of person they are. we judge people subconsciously and that's okay. must admit i have a habit of disliking people very quickly but more often than not, i'll grow to like them. better that than to like someone and find out they're someone completely different :(

[Cerys]

I always get judged for the wrong things. Really annoys me because I'm not like what they think I am.. xD

[Samantha]

I get judged I think mainly because I'm small and quiet. So what if I am? I can stand up for what I believe in and although I may not look like 17 I'm sure I act like it most of the time. People judge me because of my looks and the other day I was in Tesco toilets and someone said 'let that little girl go past' I might be little on the outside but inside I have a big heart etc of course that was a bad example as I probably will not see them for a long time. However, many people judged me in high school because of the reasons above, underneath I was a good person mostly, I had friends and everything and I was likeable but some people just had a massive vendetta against me for no reason. They were just idiots and I'm glad I don't have to be with them anymore. College is different but some people are still there and I think they have also realised not to judge as they are more like my friends than enemies now!

I agree fully that you shouldn't judge someone before you know them!

[Paige.]

I judge people sometimes but I agree with the majority of the people in this thread who have said it's like an instinct and almost everyone does it. I don't like being judged so really I shouldn't judge but I always listen to what people say and for example if I judge someone and automatically think they're a loud mouth then I will still speak to them and I will not ignore them or avoid them because it's only fair that I give them a chance :)

[dbgtz]

I judge people, I don't feel bad about it. The world gets by through judgement of everything and any saying which goes against judgement is stupid in my opinion.

[Jurv]

i think everyone has judged someone within their life, which is perfectly fine. however, i dont agree when people start judging others for all the wrong reasons. as some of you may know, i do tend to get quite frustrated when people judge adele because of her being a little overweight and 'common'. that's not that only example tho, it goes for anyone. i don't feel like you should judge someone for their appearance before you get to know them. fair enough, you have first impressions but i don't feel you should make a final judgement over those first impressions.

[Charlie]

I think everyone judges people at some point in their life. I do think it isn't fair when people judge people negatively and don't give them a chance, I feel everyone deserves a chance because you can't know someone completely based on first impressions and they aren't always going to be how they first come off.

[JerseySafety]

partly agree, i judge some others on the outside, its not all about personality but then its not all about looks and appearance I suppose.

[:odey:]

I am a really, REALLY, bad judger. I do it to absolutely everyone, even randomers on the street on face value, it's such a bad habit :(!

I hate that I do it, but I do like when I'm usually pleasantly surprised :)

[JerseySafety]

I am a really, REALLY, bad judger. I do it to absolutely everyone, even randomers on the street on face value, it's such a bad habit :(!

I hate that I do it, but I do like when I'm usually pleasantly surprised :)

i'm a bit like this to :/ and I can be really racist :(

[Shockwave.2CC]

I agree because alot of people judge me before they know me. Especially on Habbo

[Seikou]

i judge people sometimes, we all do i guess, but then i get to know them and i'm like oh oops..

i do get judged alot myself though too and it's not very nice sometimes when people make bad assumptions

[GirlNextDoor15]

I get judged a lot and sometimes, I judge other people as well but I'm working on keeping it to myself now. I'm trying to judge other people less and start improving myself to be better than them or else, I will forever not improve.