do you want kids?

[Sharon]

no this doesn't count as a desperate attempt to get the post count because im not doing it, just pure curious. i defo want kids because it seems like a 'good' idea in the future.

[kitten]

i haven't thought about it that much, but yea i think i'd like one or two in the future

[scottish]

dunno

alot of effort

[JerseySafety]

Haven't thought about it and as Scottish said they are alot of effort and money. Would be cool to have 1 maybe 2 kids in the future tho

[wiktoria]

Yeah i defo want kids but only like 1 or 2

[:odey:]

If I was in a comfortable, secure relationship, I'd think about it.. :)

[beth]

dunno if it's a definitely yet, but i'd like one or two. maybe.

[Amberr]

I definitely want kids when I'm older, at least 2

[buttons]

i would like children. i think i'd feel like a failure if i didn't have any. i don't have a plan for how many or when. let nature take its course. otherwise i'll just have cats.

[GirlNextDoor15]

I want children now because menopause is getting me.. maybe a boy and a girl

[Samantha.]

I would like to have 1 or 2 when i'm older when i've been in a relationship for a while!

[Cerys]

Atm, I'm thinking I wouldnt. I just don't think I'd be able to handle all the screaming etc, that they do as a baby.
I think I'd probably adopt 1.

But knowing me, I'll change my mind in two years and be desperate for kids. xD

[AlexJRiley]

I want one of each, boy frist :P But yano we dont always get what we want unfortunately :[

[=Lizzy]

TWO CHILDREN woo one boy and one girl haha

[geo]

Yeah I do, haha. I'd love a little boy okay aww. I think I'd be quite strict. (H)

[Jurv]

yeah i do want kids but it would have to be when i'm a lot older. i'd say i want around two, a boy and a girl.

[dirrty]

yes, i want kids. preferably two (maybe more). having kids would also be a deal breaker for a relationship. if my partner said she never wants children, then i think i'd end the relationship regardless of how i feel about her because the fact of the matter is that i want to have children (and carry on my legacyyyyyyyyyyy).

[Samantha]

Yeah I'd love kids but I also find it scary like what if I died in childbirh or something. After a few months with my boyfriend we even discussednames but we don't obviously want to rush things and hopefully were still together when.were older to ensure that we have kids. Even tho we'd both.like kids I also have to consider he has 8/9 siblings and has made it clear he doesn't want a massive family.

[Seikou]

i'd love 1 or 2 children in the future, the whole giving birth process scares the **** out of me though haha

[FlyingJesus]

Definitely want kids, would be a crime not to let these genes spread

[Inseriousity.]

I'd love to have kids one day but I'm terrible with them atm. especially babies. I'll either have to adopt older children or leave for 5 years and come back when they can communicate properly. :P

so yes maybe not right now haha.

[Eric]

maybe one kid.

[Empired]

Yes, but whether they'd be adopted or biologically my own, I don't know. Even now, a part of me shudders at the idea of having to give birth, haha, but the outcome of giving birth would be so fabulous I don't think I'd truly remember having to give birth..

[Kasabian]

Why, are you available?

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[scottish]

Why, are you available?

she's like 10.

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[Kasabian]

she's like 10.

i heard you fancied a 12 year old named geena, is this true? discuss.

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[scottish]

that is wrong, jenni likes to make things up

unlike her love for @xp / corey.

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[Charlie]

There was a point where I didn't but if I was at a point in my life where I was in a good relationship, I knew I had the money and everything to be able to have kids then I'd go for it.

[Sloths]

I do, preferably a boy and a girl like others have said but I doubt it will go that way :P

[SackRace]

i want 1 cause if u have more they fight to much and 1 for the less money :-)

[SaintsDead]

I don't like the thought of pushing someone out of me.. but I would love to adopt :3 .. or a foster carer :3 Althou It would be hard saying goodbye D;

[Walks06]

My ex gf had a child & i loved helping bring him up so hard to say bye when it ended after 2 nhalf years.. It's made me really want kids

[lawrawrrr]

i dont know.

not right now

i maybe see myself adopting in the future, depends how my career goes :P

[dbgtz]

Do I want to? Probably, but ultimately it would rely on the girl. I'm happy not to, but if she wants them then I would make clear that any goals I have a chance of achieving will not be pushed aside. That sounds quite cold hearted now I read it again.

[Neversoft]

I think I'm probably too sensitive and fragile to bring up kids. Children seem to love me and I'm fun and patient enough to play with them, and caring and delicate enough to know how to treat a baby, and I'm a good teacher and children seem to want to talk to me a whole lot. But no way could I do all that all the time. People probably think I'd make a good father, and maybe one day I will, but with my current state of mind I would just get so emotionally drained I'd probably have a breakdown. I need a good wife to build me up strong and confident for a couple of years before I'm ready to have kids.

[-Amyy]

Id like 1 or 2 in the future, but only if I was sure I could give it everything it needed :P

[Tom]

I know some people are totally against this - but I'm not sure. I'd love to adopt but it's just the pressure of it all and the constant worries. Also, as someone mentioned earlier, I'd have to be in a secure relationship to even consider this really.

[Paige.]

I'm really not sure but it's probably more no than yes but I'm not defiantly ruling it out

[Conspiracy.]

Yep :) I love children, I want at least 2 :)

[Knewitall]

Sometime in the future I'll definitely want kids. Two, or maybe three, but not more.
I really hope I'll have a good relationship to make this possible.

[toribbz]

i've been saying i want 4 kids all my life as i've always admired having a large family. love to have 2 boys & 2 girls :)

[A4R0N]

why would i want someone like me ew lol i cost to much money

[Richie]

Not really atm probably when I'm older although it'd be hard