I'm a shy guy

[SorryDude]

Alright, first off, reason for this post is because of some stupid decisions i made 2 years back which got my teenage life ruined. Got in trouble, moved in with dad, life like prison basically.
I havn't really dated or had "real" conversation with any girls for like 2 years. This girl i go to school with randomly sits next to me on the bus (public trans) on the way home. Casual greeting conversation. It was friday.
I decided to add her on facebook saturday night,(sunday AM) since she honestly is beautiful and i would love to get to know her more and such. She sent me a message tuesday, didnt read it until last night (thursday night) she gave me her number told me to text her, we texted for like 4 hours, great flowing conversation. She wanted me to come sit with her on her step today (sometime friday) Didnt get any sleep thursday night, worked from 7am - 3pm, went to sleep at 4pm just woke up now.
I want to go sit with her on her step either now, or tomorrow (today & saturday) {in 30 minutes it'll be saturday}
But i am nervous, i dont want it to be awkward or anything.
I need REAL advice not the cheesy stuff you pull off google,.
Its just that its been so long and i have so much less peer social experience. (idk what im saying :( )
And this is taking 'guts' for me to post this on here :( -sigh

[wixard]

GO SIT WITH HER ON THE STEP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Metric1]

Bring ciggys n booze and sit with her on the step!!!

[The Don]

If she's inviting you over she obviously wants you to be there (unless she's some weirdo who invites anyone to come sit on her step) so she will probably make an effort to make sure it isn't awkward. Go get in there my son!

[Inseriousity.]

lol what does 'get on her step' mean? I got images of a naughty step and Supernanny :P

She's clearly interested in you by her giving you her number straight away so use that fact as a confidence builder and pluck up the courage to talk to her and sit with her on her naughty step

[lawrawrrr]

Just be natural, this girl seems to like you, so if you just be yourself then things will be fine. You're stressing too much - I'm sure you'll be fine, just have some confidence. She already likes you!

[mrwoooooooo]

tell her to come sit on your step, be the dominant person in this relationship.

[Samantha]

Well, consider this, if you don't do it you will always think 'what if' and may live with the regret of not knowing. You may only have this one chance with her if you think about it, why not tell her you're shy? You've text her and you've spoke to her on the bus so the only difference is you will be more alone on 'her step.'

Take a risk, I'm sure it will pay off, you get some time with a girl and she might think you're great to hang around with, don't say no, don't just not go, go and find out what happens!

[SorryDude]

Thanks everyone.. honestly, Most of you helped.

[Catchetat]

Thanks everyone.. honestly, Most of you helped.

care to explain what a step is?

[Rozi]

DID YOU SIT ON THE STEP!!?!?!??!

[SorryDude]

A step. ;/

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DID YOU SIT ON THE STEP!!?!?!??!

no but she was hungry at like 3am and texted me telling me to come over and make her food and so i did.

[Stephen]

Should have told her to gtf back in the kitchen and make you food

Edited by Lee (Forum Moderator): Please don't post pointlessly.

[mrwoooooooo]

A step. ;/

---------- Post added 10-06-2012 at 10:56 PM ----------



no but she was hungry at like 3am and texted me telling me to come over and make her food and so i did.

what did you make her?

[SorryDude]

Should have told her to gtf back in the kitchen and make you food
ahaha, no way, im like **** my kitchen.


what did you make her?
steak pizzaiola

[dirrty]

what u give her for dessert?

[mrwoooooooo]

ahaha, no way, im like **** my kitchen.


steak pizzaiola
at 3am? wont do any good for her wasit