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The Don
29-06-2012, 06:40 PM
Do you accept random friend requests on Facebook?

I look at their profile first and see if I have any mutual friends. If they look decent then I'll accept them otherwise I just ignore them. If they have a cartoon dp or picture of say an animal or car then it's an instant ignore as well.

I know a few people who just accept anyone, and I know people who will add anyone they ever meet which is a bit ridiculous.

=Lizzy
29-06-2012, 06:41 PM
definitely not,
i was wondering how many of my friends do and quite a lot do which isnt good
i always get random adds and decline them unless i know them or have met them

Samantha
29-06-2012, 06:49 PM
Nah not really if their profiles fully private without mutual friends and an odd dp I won't accept. If I know thename or think i do then i will.

Fifty-Six
29-06-2012, 06:55 PM
If they have no mutual friends and I've never heard of them/met them then probably not.

Empired
29-06-2012, 07:07 PM
Nope. I don't understand those people who have a gazillion friends on facebook. I wonder just how many of those people they have actually looked in the real-life face.

Cerys
29-06-2012, 07:20 PM
If I have more than 5 mutual friends then I accept even if I have never heard of them. I think if they have sent me a request then surely they've seen me around school/heard of me, otherwise they wouldn't of added me.

(Charlie clearly accepts anybody, as she has 9 fb friends.)

David
29-06-2012, 07:22 PM
dont have facebook but i probably wouldnt

Mikey
29-06-2012, 07:25 PM
If I kinda know who they are or have loads of mutual friends with me then yeah why not. Randoms is definitely not.

wixard
29-06-2012, 07:27 PM
no never, only if i know them

my brothers friends try add me all the time
obv the ones i've met before i accept, but the ones i've never even seen or heard of... no

Absently
29-06-2012, 07:28 PM
When I first joined facebook I accepted everyone, but nowadays not so much. It depends on if I know them very well and they don't live in Ireland, I will accept them, if I don't know them at all and have no mutual friends, it'll be ignored, if they live in Waterford with mutual friends, they'll be accepted. Generally I don't get completely random adds, unless it's like a foreign name, then it'll be ignored. I've only accepted one of those and just had to block them completely afterwards...

Chris
29-06-2012, 07:28 PM
No I never accept randoms. Sometimes I dont even accept people I actually know. :P

lawrawrrr
29-06-2012, 07:47 PM
I used to accept everyone but I got fed up of pervs adding me on facebook so don't accept people any more unless I actually know them/we have a lot of mutual friends!

-Amyy
29-06-2012, 07:50 PM
Nope, they could be anybody! I only accept people that I know personally irl :)

Shar
29-06-2012, 07:53 PM
Nope, only people I actually know irl and talk to

Shockwave.2CC
29-06-2012, 07:54 PM
I don't accept anyone unless I them

Jurv
29-06-2012, 10:12 PM
i don't have facebook anymore but when i did i think i accepted anyone, mainly due to the fact that i like being nosey (H)

Hollie
29-06-2012, 10:19 PM
no, i think i've only got 1 person on my friends list who i hadn't spoken to before i accepted and the only reason i accepted is because we had a few mutual friends and i was curious as to who he was :P don't usually do that though but hey

Munex
29-06-2012, 10:41 PM
If I have more than 5 mutual friends then I accept even if I have never heard of them. I think if they have sent me a request then surely they've seen me around school/heard of me, otherwise they wouldn't of added me.

(Charlie clearly accepts anybody, as she has 9 fb friends.)

I've got a request from a random old Asian guy with 8 mutual friends. I did a bit of stalking and realised he's just a complete stranger adding me and my friends ... so you shouldn't rely just on 5+ mutual friends as a decider.

I get added by random people quite a bit. I only accept if I know them personally, seen them around, or if they have enough mutual friends and I'm familiar with their name.

Rozi
29-06-2012, 11:14 PM
I only accept people I know. even if they have tonnes of mutual friends I'm like... why are you adding me I don't know you. I never accepted people in like younger years at school unless I had actually talked to them.

If I'm on a night out and I drunkenly tell someone to add me on facebook, I usually accept them on my phone and then in the morning delete them unless they've got urm........ prospects.

Perfected
29-06-2012, 11:21 PM
Pretty much never. If I get a FR, I stalk their profile as much as possible before I decide. Even if I do accept a request, I don't keep many people around as I clear my friends list often.

I do have a profile for Perfected that I'll add pretty much anyone to - as long as they're a Habbo player.

SackRace
29-06-2012, 11:22 PM
no no no

RockyHorror
29-06-2012, 11:26 PM
No, hence why I have a small amount compared to others. I've also never accepted friend requests from people online, until I got bullied into it today Glen Coco;

ickles
29-06-2012, 11:32 PM
I never add anyone unless I know them!

Paige.
29-06-2012, 11:42 PM
no and i think it's stupid when people accept and add random people who they've never even met or heard of just to increase their friend amount, pathetic lmao

Zak
30-06-2012, 12:43 AM
I usually send them a fb message first asking "hey do i know you"? :)

Martin
30-06-2012, 01:12 AM
Nope only people I know haha

Eric
30-06-2012, 01:21 AM
no i only add friends that i know or people that i've talked to irl. A few of them are friends that i met online or hxl. i've seen somebody from my school who has like 3k friends on facebook which is ridiculous. the only reason they have so much friends is because they want more likes for their pictures and status.

Glen Coco
30-06-2012, 08:27 AM
No, hence why I have a small amount compared to others. I've also never accepted friend requests from people online, until I got bullied into it today Glen Coco;

oi! i didnt bully you into it!

not if i havent even seen them or talked to them.

Swearwolf
30-06-2012, 08:39 AM
only if they have mutual friends otherwise i stalk them and question whether people have heard of them first >:)

Cerys
30-06-2012, 03:47 PM
I've got a request from a random old Asian guy with 8 mutual friends. I did a bit of stalking and realised he's just a complete stranger adding me and my friends ... so you shouldn't rely just on 5+ mutual friends as a decider.



Obviously I don't accept older people as it's common sense not to.
I meant people my age.

orientalframe?
30-06-2012, 03:49 PM
nope i only add them if i know them :P

geo
30-06-2012, 04:03 PM
I don't have Facebook any more but when I did I got loads of requests from people I didn't know and I never really added them back unless there was a large amount of mutual friends, because then I would just assume that I knew them... then I usually found out I didn't and deleted them soon after. :P

notahabbo
30-06-2012, 04:20 PM
Once I was backpacking and met someone. I asked him for a copy of a photo he took of me, and he refused to let me put his SD card in his computer, saying that he might have gotten a virus. OK fair enough, even though I use linux. He then said to me "add me on facebook, I will send it to you there". So I added him. The next day he left and I found he deleted me on facebook wtf. Why add me if you will just delete me after you leave? I obviously said nothing to annoy him or had anything offensive on my facebook. He just told me to add him onto facebook then he deleted me the second he left. Haha if I wasn't so secure in myself (and I am not arrogant, trust me) I would have thought I was to blame and not that he was just strange. Just why on earth would he have offered to add me in the first place. Oh and I never got to get that picture :(

Jarkie
30-06-2012, 04:23 PM
I only add people who I know on facebook :P but for twitter I follow everyone lmao :P

garriet
02-07-2012, 06:12 PM
nope i don't, i don't add someone unless i know them either.

a load of my friends accept people from different countries and i don't know why they'd want too! :S

rileystringer
03-07-2012, 06:46 PM
I accept anyone on facebook. And I love random f/rs on Habbo because it's lovely to make new friends.

Remus
06-07-2012, 05:19 PM
I don't really use facebook all that often anymore tbh, i only have one because i have friends that don't live where i am so its easier to keep in contact but i wont ever accept anyone I don't know, if i dont know them i usually send a message first asking who they are 'cause knowing me i might've just forgotten the name haha.

I only really accept random adds on tumblr or habbo.

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