View Full Version : Would you find out the gender?
Samantha
28-12-2012, 02:49 AM
Don't think there's a thread on this but basically if you or your partner was pregnant would you want to know if you were having a boy or a girl?
I'm a bit unsure really, I'd probably like to know but be a bit sad that it wouldn't be a surprise, however, sometimes you could prepare a little bit if you knew. I wouldn't want to be one of those who finds out and picks a name straight away though.
David
28-12-2012, 02:55 AM
I'd want to know tbh otherwise it'd eat away at me
dirrty
28-12-2012, 03:01 AM
i'm impatient so yes.
FlyingJesus
28-12-2012, 03:02 AM
Sex not gender, but nah I wouldn't mind if the mother wanted to know but I wouldn't be that anxious to know unless there was a medical condition that was gonna cause problems one way or the other - only other thing would be to work out the name lol but that can be done after the birth
Ms.Aquamarine
28-12-2012, 03:06 AM
I would want it to be a surprise, so yeah I would wait. :)
zombies
28-12-2012, 03:21 AM
I would love to know in advance, so yes.
Luke367
28-12-2012, 03:54 AM
Nah I would wait
GoldenMerc
28-12-2012, 08:22 AM
Defiantly have to know
i'd wanna know before so yeah i would find out
wixard
28-12-2012, 11:48 AM
UGH I DUNNO
if I weren't to know I'd definitely want my family/friends to know so I could be like TELL MEEEE and they'd be like NOOOO
MKR&*42
28-12-2012, 11:57 AM
I'm very impatient so I would probably want to find out. Unless my partner was desperate to not have it revealed :P
Sharon
28-12-2012, 12:00 PM
Yeah of course, probably so it's easier to buy clothes and stuff. I hate surprises and stuff, prefer to know asap
buttons
28-12-2012, 02:22 PM
yeah same as Shaz it would be easier to know so you and others can buy clothes n advance plus if its a boy and i get told early i can over my disappointment before he's born :/ JOKING
-Amyy
28-12-2012, 03:00 PM
I'm not sure, I'd really want to know but I think I would leave it as a surprise :)
Kardan
28-12-2012, 03:16 PM
We've already talked about this, and we both would want to find out :)
orientalframe?
28-12-2012, 04:24 PM
yeah i'm too impatient but also it'd be good to know in advance for clothes and stuff :P
i'd probably want to know as soon as possible so i can think of a fab name
FlyingJesus
28-12-2012, 05:19 PM
Don't all babies wear the same clothes
Catchy
28-12-2012, 05:22 PM
Nah IMO it's always more special when it's a surprise
Charz777
28-12-2012, 05:43 PM
Yes, definitely want to find out. We made this decision so we wouldn't have to do it in the future and at the time :P
Teabags
29-12-2012, 08:59 PM
I don't think I'd want kids. So the gender wouldn't matter all that much.
Empired
29-12-2012, 09:04 PM
I wouldn't care lol
I'd love the child whatever sex it was
I wouldn't care lol
I'd love the child whatever sex it was
i'm not sure that's really the point, people don't really find out to see if they're going to love their kid or not? :P
Zelda
29-12-2012, 11:54 PM
I wouldn't wanna know before tbh, always a nice suprise and rather not take the risk of any adverse effects to the baby from the scan as knowing my luck id be the person whos baby itd happen too.
I'd want to know because I'm impatient
Empired
30-12-2012, 10:47 AM
i'm not sure that's really the point, people don't really find out to see if they're going to love their kid or not? :P
most people out there are happy whatever it is, i agree. but i mean there are those people who tell themselves "it has to be a girl or i'm aborting"
Ekelektra
30-12-2012, 11:07 AM
I guess I would find out but keep it a secret, and pretend I don't actually know or refuse to tell people and have both male and female names ready in case people ask what names I was thinking of. Although I hate keeping secrets and it would be killing me inside not telling people.
Inseriousity.
30-12-2012, 11:40 AM
Yeah I'd want to know. Don't think I could wait the whole 9 months! Plus Ms.Aquamarine; is terrible with names so we've got to start early.
:Markster:
30-12-2012, 11:41 AM
Yeah probably would want to find out, then i'd know what color the child's room is to be painted and it also would shorten the names list :D
Aiden
30-12-2012, 01:17 PM
I wouldn't mind, depends what the family thinks..
I don't think I could bare it. I would have to know. Plus, how would you know what to buy in preparation, girls clothes, boys clothes etc etc.
Cerys
30-12-2012, 04:03 PM
Id want to know cos its still a surprise even if you wait.
I would defo wanna know so I could get clothes and decorate the nursery :) I think Zak would want to know too if it was me an him obv!
Jessica
01-01-2013, 05:36 PM
I'd want to know I'm so impaitent.
Alex3213
01-01-2013, 05:59 PM
Yes I would like to know, I think it just means that your preparation can be so much better but I wouldn't mind waiting having said that.
Hollie
01-01-2013, 06:39 PM
I'd like it to be a surprise but I think I'd be too impatient to wait so I'd probably end up finding out haha
SackRace
01-01-2013, 07:23 PM
Yeah so you can prepare and tell people that it'll be boy/girl
Plumpeh
17-02-2013, 02:52 AM
No let it be a surprise :D
Paige.
17-02-2013, 12:54 PM
i'd want to know
velvet
17-02-2013, 01:37 PM
i'd wanna know so i could go splash money on toys and stuff
For the first time, I'd want to know so I could actually prepare and **** so I know the vital things what I need and I can get it all ready. Then, if there comes a second time I'd be more experienced in all this so I'd want it to be a surprise.
-:Undertaker:-
20-02-2013, 03:41 PM
Unsure really, suppose for practical reasons i'd want to find out ... still a surprise either way.
Then again, they can never be 100% sure anyway.
Samantha
20-02-2013, 04:34 PM
Since I posted this thread I'm more inclined to find out the gender, it wouldn't change the love I'd have for the child and it would really save on buying unisex clothes as opposed to those suited to one gender. It's mainly the planning I'd want to know for :P.
esrevnoc
20-02-2013, 05:26 PM
I wouldn't want to know, would want to wait and let it be a surprise!
Chris
20-02-2013, 05:32 PM
I would want to know as soon as possible, I'm impatient and would want to prepare.
I think about this quite a lot and I'm undecided really.
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