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GoldenMerc
11-01-2013, 06:40 PM
Hi,

Well I normally don't post in here but I more or less want to get this off my mind and if i get peoples opinions on what to do then thats just a bonus, So i met Gemma last year in about May, We quickly moved in together after a few weeks (as she had her own house because she had a kid :rolleyes: ) We spent about 6 months together, where many fights between me and her ex (who she had the kid with happened) I guess in a way I didn't like the way that was "normal" for them, He lived down the road etc and was used to walking into the house? without knocking etc... so yeh after we split up she moved back with her mum (whos such a nice person (yn)(yn)) pretty much all dole seekers who don't wish to progress...

So when she moved back to Nottingham our relationship was never going to go back to where it was meant to be, Tyler her ex was defiantly a lot further apart from her daughter, which was a very narrow minded move that i made. never the less after she found out that I was I guess moving on, In terms of trying to get my previous life (that involved clubbing, etc) back, she soon started up my "friend" I put "friend" as this is no longer, His name was Ian, Although He lived in the same town as me we never really spoke. So yeh at the time we were really good mates, he went behind my back without saying anything after I asked him for like 2-3 weeks, he then got with her or something (not really sure he says ******* but meh i couldnt care less) at the time i defiantly was upset.

So recently I got a girlfriend, who lives pretty close to me, She has twitter, As does Gemma. Gemma seems to have been somewhat stalking my tweets and now seems to be sending me abusive ask.fm messages thinking her somewhat language isnt obvious to see;

http://icap.me/i/ALCX72yren.png
There was some more but I deleted them, or replied to them
http://icap.me/i/mBZYUwY3iG.png
http://icap.me/i/gJZoh4QHqq.png

Its been about 7-8 months since I last saw Gemma, so why can't she seem to move on?
Ross

Stephen
11-01-2013, 07:27 PM
don't flatter yourself

wixard
11-01-2013, 07:43 PM
she seems like a huge idiot

FlyingJesus
11-01-2013, 07:46 PM
Maybe it's because you're a wasteman

scottish
11-01-2013, 08:19 PM
is it only me thiknking it seems like Andii; tbh

Catchy
11-01-2013, 08:45 PM
shes missing your penis

RyRy
11-01-2013, 09:18 PM
She must be deluded.

Mark
11-01-2013, 11:08 PM
Ngl this sounds like a Jeremy Kyle episode... I would just cut contact, forget about them and just move on. I'd like to think you're better than that lol.

http://memecrunch.com/meme/DSOB/hjgfthh/image.png

Andii
12-01-2013, 12:15 PM
is it only me thiknking it seems like @Andii (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=68225); tbh


lol It isn't me, who uses wastebin man or whatever it's called the one that does look like me is **** lool :)

Inseriousity.
12-01-2013, 12:21 PM
Seems more to me that she has moved on, she just doesn't want you to. In short, she's immature. You should just ignore her instead of responding to her jabs. :)

Jurv
12-01-2013, 01:05 PM
yeah, responding to her messages wont get you anywhere. just ignore it and she'll eventually get the message :P

:Markster:
12-01-2013, 02:11 PM
Simple answer: ******* be crazyy.
more elaborate answer: She wants the D
image somewhat relevant
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdy5fpiCaX1r06m1wo1_500.gif

Charz777
14-01-2013, 11:13 AM
She sounds pathetic. She's a grown woman, nearly 30, with a child and talks like a 13-year-old chav. I think she needs to spend more time at work, withher child and getting a life rather than on Twitter being a complete *****.

My advice: Block her in every sense of the word. Ignore her; it seems she gets annoyed if you don't reply, hence the; 'answer you wasteman.'

Did you say you have a girlfriend now? If so I hardly think it's fair on her that you're replying to your crazy ex. You need to cut this person from your life completely as though she doesn't exist.

GoldenMerc
14-01-2013, 12:41 PM
She sounds pathetic. She's a grown woman, nearly 30, with a child and talks like a 13-year-old chav. I think she needs to spend more time at work, withher child and getting a life rather than on Twitter being a complete *****.

She hasn't got a job, I guess thats the problem as she quite obviously has way too much time on her hands


My advice: Block her in every sense of the word. Ignore her; it seems she gets annoyed if you don't reply, hence the; 'answer you wasteman.'

Yeh I tried to block her via ask.fm but it doesnt work :( sometimes its just fun to reply to her, i guess


Did you say you have a girlfriend now? If so I hardly think it's fair on her that you're replying to your crazy ex. You need to cut this person from your life completely as though she doesn't exist.
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Yeh, I guess thats true.

Glen Coco
14-01-2013, 07:44 PM
how old are you? just delete ask.fm. i don't understand it, it's asking for drama.

RyRy
14-01-2013, 11:57 PM
how old are you? just delete ask.fm. i don't understand it, it's asking for drama.

Agreed, that or just change your username on ask.fm. Anonymity is there to be abused most of the time.

le harry
24-01-2013, 05:56 PM
don't flatter yourself


Maybe it's because you're a wasteman


shes missing your penis

kinda miss this forum

Edited by JerseyShore (Forum Moderator): Please don't post pointlessly!

Wig44.
27-01-2013, 02:05 AM
You got into a relationship with a girl that has a kid from a previous relationship? This might not matter if you were both like 40+ but I thought everyone knew that getting with a young single mum is a really stupid idea that will not end well.

Also, just ignore her. Stop responding to her.

scottish
27-01-2013, 02:37 AM
You got into a relationship with a girl that has a kid from a previous relationship? This might not matter if you were both like 40+ but I thought everyone knew that getting with a young single mum is a really stupid idea that will not end well.

Also, just ignore her. Stop responding to her.

You don't know GoldenMerc;

Most his ex's have kids.. ;)

O/T: I agree stop responding

Cassiieee
27-01-2013, 10:00 AM
It doesn't have to mean she is missing you by writing silly little comments.

She could be doing it, because she thinks it's really begining to piss you off.
Or she's doing it for her own entertainment, as you said yourself, she has no job and has to much time on her hands.

I used to do it with my ex all the time. Because I knew how pissed off he got and how frustrated he became.
Not because I missed him or wanted him back.
(I would make up fake Facebook accounts though)

wiktoria
27-01-2013, 12:36 PM
ya gf is fat n butters wasteman

Edited by JerseyShore (Forum Moderator): Please don't post pointlessly! Thanks

Sian
27-01-2013, 01:00 PM
why do you bother replying?

Stephen
27-01-2013, 07:09 PM
he only dates women with children because he's really an undercover paedophile

and can a mod change the thread title to "An ex" instead cos it's really annoying

GoldenMerc
27-01-2013, 07:28 PM
he only dates women with children because he's really an undercover paedophile

and can a mod change the thread title to "An ex" instead cos it's really annoying

Coming from the guy who sits on Habbox and trolls all day, After using the forum for 7 years has posted a picture of his head. Im fairly sure im not the one who looks dodgy, Also to your claim I only date women with children is pretty incorrect also

Zak
27-01-2013, 10:34 PM
You're just too dam sexy Ross x
GoldenMerc;

RyRy
27-01-2013, 11:44 PM
Coming from the guy who sits on Habbox and trolls all day, After using the forum for 7 years has posted a picture of his head. Im fairly sure im not the one who looks dodgy, Also to your claim I only date women with children is pretty incorrect also

Lmao seems like Stephen; might've hit a nerve with his paedo allegations...

On topic, stop replying cuz it's only gonna encourage her once she knows she's got your attention, for even a brief second.

Kardan
27-01-2013, 11:55 PM
Lmao seems like Stephen; might've hit a nerve with his paedo allegations...

On topic, stop replying cuz it's only gonna encourage her once she knows she's got your attention, for even a brief second.

Whenever someone says paedo, you always seem to post in the same thread ;)

RyRy
28-01-2013, 12:02 AM
Whenever someone says paedo, you always seem to post in the same thread ;)

If xxMATTGxx; checked search logs all he'd see is "RyRy searched for posts contains 'paedo'" OBV.

Kardan
28-01-2013, 12:07 AM
If xxMATTGxx; checked search logs all he'd see is "RyRy searched for posts contains 'paedo'" OBV.

I worry that some day, people on this forum will be interviewed by police asking if we have any information on you and your illegal activites...

xxMATTGxx
28-01-2013, 12:10 AM
If xxMATTGxx; checked search logs all he'd see is "RyRy searched for posts contains 'paedo'" OBV.


I worry that some day, people on this forum will be interviewed by police asking if we have any information on you and your illegal activites...

I can't wait to sign the witness statement for this place again then!

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