Included in everything

[zombies]

surprisingly i hate this. my friends are constantly asking me to do stuff when i simply cant be bothered or anything. but i think my friends are getting a bit peed off now. how do i say no without saying "no"?

[scottish]

don't

do it or you'll regret it in a few years when they stop asking you and you're on habbo(x) all the time lol

[zombies]

im not on all the time :)

[buttons]

eh this happened to me when i was still in school. wanted to stay at home and relax as i got older so started avoiding my friends. i had a friend who would get really upset if i didn't go to her house (i got homesick lol but didnt want to admit it) as she felt it was something personal to her and i ended up losing her cause she thought i had no time for her. kinda sucked at the time but then made me realize i had nothing in common with her. i guess make sure they know it's nothing personal and it's how you want to be but i know of a lot of people who have closed themselves off and ended up with no-one including myself. AND THAT'S WHY WE'RE ON HABBOXFORUM.

[zombies]

i think i'm just gonna be more open minded and say yes while i still can.

[Samantha]

Well do you ask them to do things in return? If you do, what do they say? If they agree to help you is it fair if you say no as they could be in the same boat as you. I'd attempt to help them when you feel in a less of a cba mood as if you really want them to stay your friend and vice versa then help them. I know what you mean thought as I've been in the same situation.

[zombies]

Well do you ask them to do things in return? If you do, what do they say? If they agree to help you is it fair if you say no as they could be in the same boat as you. I'd attempt to help them when you feel in a less of a cba mood as if you really want them to stay your friend and vice versa then help them. I know what you mean thought as I've been in the same situation.

well they never make the effort to come here. its effort for me to go there because it would be a one hour walk :( i dont have a job otherwise id rely on a bus.

[dirrty]

they'll stop inviting you to things after a while. what we've done to people who constantly say no; give up on em.

[Zak]

they'll stop inviting you to things after a while. what we've done to people who constantly say no; give up on em.

this

I used to get invited out all the time. I played games and lost a lot of my friends. Tbh though no big deal I didn't like many of them anyway :P Got some new mates, or steal my gfs mates :P

[JoeyK.]

You can't spend your entire life trying to make your friends happy. Remember that most friends aren't forever, and as time goes on they'll be replaced. If they're asking you to do things that you don't necessarily want to or have time for, maybe you're starting to grow apart already.

My advice would be to do what makes you happy, whether or not it includes them - there will always be new people to meet wherever you decide to go with your life.