How old is too old?

[FluroPurple]

I was just wondering what your opinions were on the ages of players of habbo?
What age is too old to be playing habbo?

Personally,
I used to think 18 was old to be playing habbo. But now it's regular that 20 year olds are playing it.
I think when you get to about 22/23 you should definantly stop playing habbo.
Anyone else share my opinion?

[Empired]

We have plenty of users on HxF in their early twenties, although some don't actually use Habbo anymore.

I don't think there is a specific "age" to stop playing Habbo. I hope I will quit at some point though :(

[Rainbow]

i only really see people 20+ who are dealers and in arcades, i wish i could quit now but i probably will do when i'm 18-19 hopefully!!

[Zak]

40 odd

[Kyle]

between 30 and 60

[FluroPurple]

i only really see people 20+ who are dealers and in arcades, i wish i could quit now but i probably will do when i'm 18-19 hopefully!!

How old are you now?

[cameron354]

I hate people who are 20+ on habbo.

[Narnat,]

I would say late 20's is pushing it a bit

[Martin]

I think in some ways it depends in what kind of ways people use it really

You say 'play' in your original post, but I guess a lot of the more mature users use it to keep in contact with people they have spoken too through Habbo and as more of a social media kind of thing, like a chat site really.

I myself am 22 and I guess the only way I 'play' Habbo these days would be in events (bingo etc LOL), I don't think I would be interested in any of the roleplay/hospitals/schools/police stations etc that a lot of the younger users play etc, but then again some might! :)

I personally don't see anything wrong with it xD

[Narnat,]

I hate people who are 20+ on habbo.

Just out curiosity what makes you hate them? :S You don't even know them

[FlyingJesus]

Once a Habbo always a Habbo

[A]

I think 20+ is too old to be honest.

[marlon6667]

The question is, when does it become wrong in the eyes of the media/law?

Would people thing that it's just plain wrong for a 30+ person to be on a social network designed for 13-18 year olds?

[MKR&*42]

There is no age limit. If you want to play Habbo whilst you're 40+ then so be it.

A social networking platform is open for anyone, there should be no age you are forced to stop using it. I imagine most older users only go on there to chat with people.

Nor does someone being older = pedo lol. That's as invalid as a guy in a preschool = pedo.

[Rainbow]

How old are you now?

16 nearly 17, most people think i'm older for some reason though...

[Chrisbud1]

I personally thing it's gone too far when you are 20+ and in college / university and playing habbo. It has gone to the point where you should leave habbo for good and do something better in your life. If you really try and quit habbo, you will be able to do it.

[Sieglinde]

30 or 60 I think is too old :l

[Okeanos]

the question you should be asking is how young is too young? anyone under 20 can **** off as far as im concerned

[Lewis]

If you enjoy playing a game, there is no such thing as being 'too old'. As long as you're not making friends with people 40 odd years younger lolz x


I can see myself playing habbo in my 40s if it still existed -- except I won't, because it's becoming less enjoyable.

[orientalframe?]

i don't think there should be a limit on how old you have to be to 'play' as some just use it as a form of communication, rather than role-playing or whatever. i don't see a problem with older players going on it :P

[Yawn]

umm much more than 20 u should probs think about quitting. having said that since coming to habbox forum regularly i now realise there r a lot of 'older' ppl on this forum and as long as ur with ppl in ur age bracket then i dont see why u would or should immediately want to quit. tbh 20 sounds a heck of a lot older than it actually is, its weird.

[Catchy]

I think in some ways it depends in what kind of ways people use it really

You say 'play' in your original post, but I guess a lot of the more mature users use it to keep in contact with people they have spoken too through Habbo and as more of a social media kind of thing, like a chat site really.

I myself am 22 and I guess the only way I 'play' Habbo these days would be in events (bingo etc LOL), I don't think I would be interested in any of the roleplay/hospitals/schools/police stations etc that a lot of the younger users play etc, but then again some might! :)

I personally don't see anything wrong with it xD

This hits the nail right in the head tbh. I'm 20 and still use Habbo, the majority of people I speak to on Habbo are a similar age to me and we certainly don't 'play' Habbo lol. I purely go on to speak to my friends, I don't see what's wrong with that in anyway at all. Surely it's just the same as using an online forum or being involved with other communities on the internet. So no I wouldn't say no age is too old, I remember someone called Dibblez (something similar to that) she was a gold Hobba back in 04/05 and in her 40s I think and I'm quite certain her daughter played too !

@subo (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=112144); yeah the jump from 19 to 20 is so depressing, feel ancient :(

Also I've known people on Habbo/Habbox for years, I think my oldest Habbo friend is 7 years now. She doesn't play anymore but we still keep in contact and the point being I've made some really strong friendships this past year @Red (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=81989); @Comity (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=101389); @Kyle (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=30795);) and if I'd just quit because I was getting 'old' I'd of never made them so no am not gna quit anytime soon.

omg kyle swear i didn't mean to wink at u lmao!

[wixard]

This hits the nail right in the head tbh. I'm 20 and still use Habbo, the majority of people I speak to on Habbo are a similar age to me and we certainly don't 'play' Habbo lol. I purely go on to speak to my friends, I don't see what's wrong with that in anyway at all. Surely it's just the same as using an online forum or being involved with other communities on the internet. So no I wouldn't say no age is too old, I remember someone called Dibblez (something similar to that) she was a gold Hobba back in 04/05 and in her 40s I think and I'm quite certain her daughter played too !

@subo (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=112144); yeah the jump from 19 to 20 is so depressing, feel ancient :(

Also I've known people on Habbo/Habbox for years, I think my oldest Habbo friend is 7 years now. She doesn't play anymore but we still keep in contact and the point being I've made some really strong friendships this past year @Red (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=81989); @Comity (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=101389); @Kyle (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=30795);) and if I'd just quit because I was getting 'old' I'd of never made them so no am not gna quit anytime soon.

omg kyle swear i didn't mean to wink at u lmao!


CHEERS FOR THE MENTION

[Catchy]

CHEERS FOR THE MENTION

OMG LMFAO
@wixard (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=64175);

I FEEL TERRIBLE

IN MY DEFENCE I SAID IN THIS PAST YEAR ITS FINE WE'VE KNOWN EACHOTHER YEARS!!

[Damos]

me, i'm 21, been using habbo since I was 11. Tbh i don't have any friends on there where I see them all the time (most people get to know me, have great convo and thats it never see them again) I use the laptop during the night and habbo helps me pass time, its good for chats with people with simular interests and beliefs, i try to join in with the rest of the fun but get bored very easily

[Daltron]

I don't there is a too old age, but I think there is a too old age for certain activities on Habbo for example if you're 25 and hanging out in casinos, chatting to friends, playing games then I don't see the issue. If you are 25 and hanging out in smexy singles hookup club then there is an issue lol

[!x!dude!x!2]

23+ . is too old

[cameron354]

Just out curiosity what makes you hate them? :S You don't even know them
Well, I'm now 16 but when I started Habbo around the age of 13 I just found it dirty that that people that age were playing. Also at that age people should really stop playing a teens game and focus on more important things. Another think I hate is when these 20+ sit in 18+ rooms talking and acting like thugs.

[Yawn]

ur 19 u should be out clubbing and have a job not playing habbo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111

[Failing]

I'm 17 & get *REMOVED* off people for playing (some anyway); even a couple years ago some guy I talked to was ~23ish & played.

Edited by Bolt660 (Acting Forum Super Moderator): Please don't avoid the filter!

[Narnat,]

Well, I'm now 16 but when I started Habbo around the age of 13 I just found it dirty that that people that age were playing. Also at that age people should really stop playing a teens game and focus on more important things. Another think I hate is when these 20+ sit in 18+ rooms talking and acting like thugs.

Not all 20 year olds are in RP themed rooms. A lot of people use habbo as a way of contacting and keeping in contact with friends. I think it's quite rude and overall a shame that you found/find it "dirty". When you say about focusing on more important things people can still be 20+ play habbo and still focus on important things just like you can go to school and still play habbo if you see where I'm coming from.

[Kyle]

OMG LMFAO
@wixard (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=64175);

I FEEL TERRIBLE

IN MY DEFENCE I SAID IN THIS PAST YEAR ITS FINE WE'VE KNOWN EACHOTHER YEARS!!
wow yea not like we have known eachother 2-3 yrs :/
and i know you winked at me intentionally ;)


Well, I'm now 16 but when I started Habbo around the age of 13 I just found it dirty that that people that age were playing. Also at that age people should really stop playing a teens game and focus on more important things. Another think I hate is when these 20+ sit in 18+ rooms talking and acting like thugs.
yes because being old means you aren't allowed to talk to people online anymore. :S What do you mean "focus on more important things"? you act like as soon as people leave school they no longer have personal time outside of a social life/work!

I only use habbo to talk to like 5 people max all of whom I can contact in other ways, but it just doesn't feel the same without their little habbo talking back :( about 90% of my time is spent in one room and the rest getting my hair cut in the habbo salon.

[Kieran]

Love the people saying they hate 20+ users... you're forgetting some of us have been using it since the beginning and use it now to keep in contact with those people we've known for a long time. It's no different to using Facebook, it's a social media site for us. It just happens to have a more childish avatar approach.

[Aiden]

I don't think theres an age... but I will probs stop at like 18 but still use the forums until I die :)

[Minutes]

I have a feeling a lot of you who may say 20 is too old to play Habbo will be on here when you're 20 as well. It just becomes less of a priority at that age obviously. Like another user posted, a lot of the older people you see on Habbo aren't really "playing" they're more likely to be keeping in communication with people they've talked to over the past years.

[Meanies]

Well I'm 21 and although I don't exactly 'play', I still use habbo for probably like 10 minutes a day just to see whats going on or if i need to do something for content work. I have a job, a social life and habbo/habbox is just something extra to do when i have spare time. Admittedly I don't really talk to anyone on there anymore as most people I would have been friends with left a long time ago and any that did stay would know me on my banned account and not the one I use now. I don't really see anything wrong with this tbh. Like someone else said it is essentially a social network for older users who have been around for a long time.

[Bext]

I am in my twenties and I still play habbo from time to time. I only come i
on to update my extensive collection of rooms and raise funds collect the furni I like, then I go off again. Ive been
on since the beginning and thats all I have ever done. Ive never been into the games, the cinos, the dating, the cliques etc.

And guess what, I still have time to socialise and hold down a job, relationship, and a mortgage!

[Mark]

I'd prob say when you hit 25 is about a good limit to stop actively playing.

[karter]

I'll feel sad about myself if I turn 25 and still be playing habbo, I don't mind anyone of the 20+ age bracket in fact I'd prefer to have friends which are mature

[e5]

You stop playing when you want.

I was just wondering what your opinions were on the ages of players of habbo?
What age is too old to be playing habbo?

Personally,
I used to think 18 was old to be playing habbo. But now it's regular that 20 year olds are playing it.
I think when you get to about 22/23 you should definantly stop playing habbo.
Anyone else share my opinion?

[beth]

i really don't know, but i felt uncomfortable playing at 21. i felt desperate and sad about playing the game.

[Cerys]

I felt silly about playing habbo when I reached 13... xD

But I think it's slightly weird if you're still playing when you're in you're late 20s. *unless you're only playing to keep in touch with friends*

[MONEYMAGIC]

I have been playing for 8 years this year, I am going to turn 21 in the same month my Habbo turns 8 lol. I have decided that I will leave during this month too. I think 21 is a good time for me personally to go, I have other ways of contacting those who I want to keep in contact with out of Habbo now too so I don't really have any reason to stay as over the past year or two all I do is just use it for chatting with friends and not trading. Although sadly most of those have now left as well.

I find it really hard to make friends with people now, and like somebody else has said after chatting to someone who you think is great and you get on well, you come on again and they never speak to you again or they've removed you :P I give up lol!

I'd say you should stop when you think it's time, not when anyone else thinks it's time for you to go. People have different reasons for playing that other people sometimes don't understand.

[Jurv]

you should stop playing it properly at like 18 imo.. dunno how older people can play it so much

[Catchy]

you should stop playing it properly at like 18 imo.. dunno how older people can play it so much

I'm sure most of us oldies planned to leave before we were 18 but it's just not how it works out... is anyone with me? @Red (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=81989); @wixard (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=64175); @Kyle (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=30795); @scottish (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=53890); @Comity (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=101389); @xxMATTGxx (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=1020); @Absently (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=50287); @Ms.Aquamarine (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=79773); THTS ALL THE OLD PPL I CAN THINK OF ATM

[Kyle]

please never refer to me as old again

im young :(

[AgnesIO]

Seems sort of weird thinking even at 18, I am often talking to egotistical 12 year olds who are pathetic in real life. Of course,not all are pathetic in real life, just a lot...

[Catchy]

please never refer to me as old again

im young :(

omg ur sig LMFAO! and no old

[Absently]

please never refer to me as old again

im young :(
yeah don't put me into the old category!! i'm extremely young excuse you :'(

[wixard]

erm well i don't play properly i go on every few weeks but that's literally just to chat to you guys
or stalk the love of my life

but i have no problem with people playing it, i don't think anyone should? it's hardly playing it's just a place to talk to your friends
i don't see how it's any different than being apart of this forum.

[Kardan]

Whilst it's not wrong to play it at any age (ignoring little children here), I do think people should have better priorities than Habbo probably from 18+... Because I'm sure there was a point in our lives when we would spend all day on Habbo, but doing that as an adult would probably scare me personally :P But each to their own :P

[Spiffy]

Wow, there's a whole lot of ageists in this forum. I know people who hold down a job (part/full time) or have kids in their early 20s who still play Habbo, be it for the game (if you can even call it that) or keeping in touch with friends. They know their priorities, they don't need people in their teens to "remind" them. :rolleyes: Lighten up.

[.DnB]

SPiffyy, if someone has kids it is COMPLETELY WRONG for them to be playing habbo, especially if they have a baby! Unless the children are older and the parent is playing when the kids are in bed...I have seen mothers with BABIES playing habbo and it is not right at all, they should be devoted to their baby, not giving their attention to habbo

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As for how old is too old, of course it varies, it is a personal choice... I mean how old is too old for farmville or something? There isn't an age, although I don't use habbo for social reasons so my opinion is different

[steamyxo]

aparrantly Rono is 57.. idk if hes joking or..? but i heard before frm a close friend, whos friends were close-ish to him and she told me hes like 50-60.... see thats just disturbing. when ur atleast 22/23+ its time to quit. and isnt habbo aimed at teens??? cos their old hmepage was like a hangout for teens..????

and someone also said that they go on to like socialise and theyre like 20+ i think? but i remmeber seeing a 22 yr old playing cc.. shes like brb my babys crying... wot

[karter]

SPiffyy, if someone has kids it is COMPLETELY WRONG for them to be playing habbo, especially if they have a baby! Unless the children are older and the parent is playing when the kids are in bed...I have seen mothers with BABIES playing habbo and it is not right at all, they should be devoted to their baby, not giving their attention to habbo

---------- Post added 29-04-2013 at 03:54 PM ----------

As for how old is too old, of course it varies, it is a personal choice... I mean how old is too old for farmville or something? There isn't an age, although I don't use habbo for social reasons so my opinion is different

...and who are you to tell them what they should and what they should not do, everyone deserves some leisure time be it playing a virtual game, a young mother's life does not revolve around only the baby fgs, what are you in the 19th century?

[.DnB]

Ask any mum, looking after their little one is a full time job, especially if youre breastfeeding, the precious first moments of a babys life are so short and the majority of mums wouldnt be sitting playing an online game instead of looking after their little one....

---------- Post added 29-04-2013 at 05:37 PM ----------

Trust me, a mummy to a little baby wont want to be playing on habbo and if they have a toddler, its pretty bloody dangerous to have your eyes on a screen for god knows how long... these are precious little babies we're talking about!!!

---------- Post added 29-04-2013 at 05:37 PM ----------

Also, forgot to add, ask any mother, they will tell you their life does revolve around their baby.

[Spiffy]

SPiffyy, if someone has kids it is COMPLETELY WRONG for them to be playing habbo, especially if they have a baby! Unless the children are older and the parent is playing when the kids are in bed...I have seen mothers with BABIES playing habbo and it is not right at all, they should be devoted to their baby, not giving their attention to habbo

---------- Post added 29-04-2013 at 03:54 PM ----------

As for how old is too old, of course it varies, it is a personal choice... I mean how old is too old for farmville or something? There isn't an age, although I don't use habbo for social reasons so my opinion is different


Ummm, this is the 21st century mate.. you can still be a good 20-something year old mother and still play Habbo, PS3 games, WOW, and so on - in your leasure. Get a grip LOL

[.DnB]

Honestly, what world do you live in? Looking after a little one is a FULL TIME JOB, do you understand? I didnt say they cannot be a good mother, you, it would be very hard for someone with a little baby to go on habbo for however long and almost all mothers would not want to. You obviously have no idea what mothers do all day for gods sake, its a full time job

[karter]

Honestly, what world do you live in? Looking after a little one is a FULL TIME JOB, do you understand? I didnt say they cannot be a good mother, you, it would be very hard for someone with a little baby to go on habbo for however long and almost all mothers would not want to. You obviously have no idea what mothers do all day for gods sake, its a full time job


Pretty sure a mother does not need to know her responsibilities from you

[Spiffy]

Honestly, what world do you live in? Looking after a little one is a FULL TIME JOB, do you understand? I didnt say they cannot be a good mother, you, it would be very hard for someone with a little baby to go on habbo for however long and almost all mothers would not want to. You obviously have no idea what mothers do all day for gods sake, its a full time job


if someone has kids it is COMPLETELY WRONG for them to be playing habbo


they should be devoted to their baby, not giving their attention to habbo

I know a girl who recently gave birth and her newborn is her #1 priority, she lessened her online time of course but she still logs on to say hi so your argument is irrelevant. Just because it's something you personally find atrocious does not mean every other mum out there can't find time to be a mother and do other stuff in their downtime.

[steamyxo]

well someone -rep me and wrote 'very sick attitude. please dont every marry' ... wtf how the **** was my attitude sick?

[Yawn]

dnb shut up who are u to tell ppl how to how to raise their child. wat the frick do u know??? :S

[.DnB]

Im not telling anyone how to raise their child, in fact the majority of the ******* world agrees with me, being a mummy to a precious little one is a full time job xx

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I dont know any mums that would sit on the computer for a long time ignoring their baby :S
I must live in a different world than you lot

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Especially if youre breastfeeding, a newborn doesnt only feed for food but also suckles for comfort, sometimes they are almost constantly suckling actually! I understand a mummy of an older child playing on games but as everyone knows, when babies start crawling and also toddlers get into EVERYTHING, its dangerous to ignore them...

[Yawn]

listen u little witch im sat here with my baby on my lap playing habbo and have been all day

am i a bad mother??? NO

[.DnB]

How old is your little one? And I have not said that theyre bad mothers, and never ******* would! Im sure youre a devoted mummy to your little one but when he or she gets a lil bit older things will change

[Yawn]

1 and half and 12

[.DnB]

As a mummy of a 1 and a half year old you'd understand my previous comment, I just personally cant see how a mum can be entertaining her 1 and a hlf year old if the child is just on your lap in front of a screen to be honest, I am sure youre a good mum to your DCs, I have never met anyone who does this or would ever do this...and I know A LOT of mums

[wixard]

Pretty sure a mother does not need to know her responsibilities from you

what so when the baby is sleeping for 16 hours a day the mothers meant to just sit there and watch

oops sorry for quoting you karter
it was meant for .DnB;

[.DnB]

Wixard... do you really think babies sleep for 16 hours non stop uninterrupted sleep a day...?

[geo]

Im not telling anyone how to raise their child, in fact the majority of the ******* world agrees with me, being a mummy to a precious little one is a full time job xx

---------- Post added 29-04-2013 at 05:56 PM ----------

I dont know any mums that would sit on the computer for a long time ignoring their baby :S
I must live in a different world than you lot

---------- Post added 29-04-2013 at 05:58 PM ----------

Especially if youre breastfeeding, a newborn doesnt only feed for food but also suckles for comfort, sometimes they are almost constantly suckling actually! I understand a mummy of an older child playing on games but as everyone knows, when babies start crawling and also toddlers get into EVERYTHING, its dangerous to ignore them...

well you come across as a moron, lol. of course you need to prioritize your baby and i'm sure mothers would know that, but they still have time for leisure activities. you seem to think if you're a mother and playing habbo, you'd be neglecting the baby? babies do sleep, dunno if you're aware of that. it's not as if they'd be playing habbo when they were ******* breastfeeding. i don't know why you're bringing up ignoring either, like who said they'd be playing habbo when the babies awake?! you're talking about priorities but you're missing it, the baby is obviously going to be #1 priority but that wouldn't stop the mum going on habbo from time to time. like tara said, they could play habbo whilst the babies sleeping, that's fine.

you just seem ignorant

[.DnB]

'A moron' for stating my opinion, I literally don't know ANY mum that goes on games for ages on the computer when they have a very young DC... I mean please tell me what world ya living in? You obviously have not read me posts properly as half of what you said makes no sense as a reply to what I've said..

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You're also ignoring that there aren't only newborns, what about older DCs, toddlers... you can't just turn your back while they entertain themselves, everyone knows this!

[Yawn]

dnb why do u keep saying "ages". who said any parent is coming on habbo for a long period of time to neglect their child zzzZZzzzZzzz

[.DnB]

subo you said yourself you've been on all day

[Yawn]

yes so?

wat about any parent who isn't on for ages. u said urself


if someone has kids it is COMPLETELY WRONG for them to be playing habbo

this is a fairly large generalisation to make

[Spiffy]

Um, you're the only one here telling mothers how they should raise their child based on your personal opinion and you're acting as if they're neglecting their kids, etc. Tone down the hyperbole and take a deep breath, thanks.

[.DnB]

There's so so much a mum needs to do in a day you know, sitting on a game all day means those things aint getting done, simple. And what world do ya live in seriously... no mother I know sits playing a game instead of looking after their little ones, same goes for the mums that just stare at the telly instead of you know,cooking, cleaning, feeding their kids, taking them out, playing with them, activities, reading to them, cuddles, talking etc. I have never met a mum who would just sit doing their own thing while DC has to entertain themselves. I live in england by the way

[Yawn]

again u have said SITTING ON A GAME ALL DAY. no1 ever said that it was acceptable for a parent to spend their entire day online....has the possible thought that there is a responsible adult doing caring duties allowing the parent time to themselves to not slave away non-stop (which u seem to think is the only acceptable thing a parent should be doing). but of course u dont know any parent that does that so it cannot be acceptable!!!11

how old r u dnB

[Spiffy]

My mum was a young mum, and a gamer, she taught me how to play Doom (yes the 1993 DOS version LOL) and she still took me out to parks and went to my school plays AND the cinema AND piano lessons AND AND etc not gonna bore you but you get the idea. My mum is awesome and still had hobbies and time to herself while I was with my school mates. I think I turned out just fine (H)

[.DnB]

again u have said SITTING ON A GAME ALL DAY. no1 ever said that it was acceptable for a parent to spend their entire day online....has the possible thought that there is a responsible adult doing caring duties allowing the parent time to themselves to not slave away non-stop (which u seem to think is the only acceptable thing a parent should be doing). but of course u dont know any parent that does that so it cannot be acceptable!!!11

how old r u dnB

I turn 20 in a few days, probably most my mates have babies/kids, and i dont know anyone, family included who think being a mummy is 'slaving away'
lifes all about the little things, seeing your precious little loved ones laughing and smiling when you play with them, cluddling up and reading a story, doing activities etc. its so sad when you miss the precious moments, so so sad it really is... :( really heartbreaking. and you did say you have sat on habbo ALL DAY when you have 2 DCs! As a woman and a mum you surely understand this...
I suppose there could be another adult in the house doing these things but thats not usually the case, usually the dad is at

[Kardan]

again u have said SITTING ON A GAME ALL DAY. no1 ever said that it was acceptable for a parent to spend their entire day online....has the possible thought that there is a responsible adult doing caring duties allowing the parent time to themselves to not slave away non-stop (which u seem to think is the only acceptable thing a parent should be doing). but of course u dont know any parent that does that so it cannot be acceptable!!!11

how old r u dnB

There's not many times I agree with your posts, but hell are you right here. +Rep.

I know plenty of people on online games that are new mums. Babies and children take up a lot of your time, but not 24/7.

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I turn 20 in a few days, probably most my mates have babies/kids, and i dont know anyone, family included who think being a mummy is 'slaving away'
lifes all about the little things, seeing your precious little loved ones laughing and smiling when you play with them, cluddling up and reading a story, doing activities etc. its so sad when you miss the precious moments, so so sad it really is... :( really heartbreaking. and you did say you have sat on habbo ALL DAY when you have 2 DCs! As a woman and a mum you surely understand this...
I suppose there could be another adult in the house doing these things but thats not usually the case, usually the dad is at

Babies sleep.

[.DnB]

Having strong family values and a close family with amazing mothers is truely a blessing

[Samantha]

I'm sure most of us oldies planned to leave before we were 18 but it's just not how it works out... is anyone with me? @Red (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=81989); @wixard (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=64175); @Kyle (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=30795); @scottish (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=53890); @Comity (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=101389); @xxMATTGxx (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=1020); @Absently (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=50287); @Ms.Aquamarine (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=79773); THTS ALL THE OLD PPL I CAN THINK OF ATM

Forget me then, I see, really though I'm only older than Kelly :P.

I really don't go on Habbo as much now, only to trade and sometimes mazes and events. It's when you feel ready, but I don't think anyone should really care about when others leave and just go when you'ew ready :P.

[Yawn]

at this point dnb i think u r entirely delusional and ignorant. do u have no understanding of balancing ur time, sharing ur responsibilities or anything in a normal lifestyle. u cannot believe that a parent has to devote 100% of their time to housework and childcare. people no matter how busy their lives are get time to actually stop and relax. parents get support from each other and other friends and family. and yes devoting 100% of ur time to raising a child is slave work. from time to time ppl want to unwind and get the chance to (this also applies to this thread in general before it was completely derailed and the 15 year olds saying that when u reach 18+ u have different priorities in life such as work, uni and social life meaning u no longer have the time or desire to play habbo) (this also does not just apply to a parent choosing to play habbo which u said was "completely wrong" and could apply to any free leisure time they may have)

[.DnB]

at this point dnb i think u r entirely delusional and ignorant. do u have no understanding of balancing ur time, sharing ur responsibilities or anything in a normal lifestyle. u cannot believe that a parent has to devote 100% of their time to housework and childcare. people no matter how busy their lives are get time to actually stop and relax. parents get support from each other and other friends and family. and yes devoting 100% of ur time to raising a child is slave work. from time to time ppl want to unwind and get the chance to (this also applies to this thread in general before it was completely derailed and the 15 year olds saying that when u reach 18+ u have different priorities in life such as work, uni and social life meaning u no longer have the time or desire to play habbo) (this also does not just apply to a parent choosing to play habbo which u said was "completely wrong" and could apply to any free leisure time they may have)

Darling please tell me what world you live in? you.have.been.on.habbo.all.day subo all...day...

[Yawn]

Darling please tell me what world you live in? you.have.been.on.habbo.all.day subo all...day...

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[.DnB]

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[wixard]

dnb is trollin or just borderline ******ed

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[buttons]

I personally thing it's gone too far when you are 20+ and in college / university and playing habbo. It has gone to the point where you should leave habbo for good and do something better in your life. If you really try and quit habbo, you will be able to do it.
see thing is even if i wasn't playing habbo (which i don't really, only ever used it to socialise) id have replaced it with something else like a new forum or so. i use live journal and tumblr where there are 20/30 year olds with kids on there.
also .DnB; ive seen mothers here who go out every weekend getting drunk, starting from the first weekend their babies are born... that's the 'bad' mothers, not one who logs onto habbo every so often to say hi. people who do do that prob spend the same amount of time on habbo as a new mother does uploading pics of their kid on Facebook..


im 20 at uni and sometimes feel im too old to be on this forum but tbh if i wasn't id be in a different forum of all ages so idrc, ive made good friends so if i log on habbo it will just to be to say hi to everyone.




when i get engaged and have babies i will be on hxf as soon as ive given birth to share wid u all n as soon as im proposed to to invite u all :S :S

[sex]

When I have a child I fully intend to sell them rights in my jungle run

[Yawn]

dnb this is ur fault

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[Kyle]

dnb just because you don't personally know any new mothers who play online games it doesn't mean that they don't exist or don't have a strong commitment to their child. Everybody needs a break from reality every now and then. Of course not all babies sleep for long periods at a time every day but where is the harm in taking the time off if they are sleeping... Or even if you're sitting with them, it's still entirely possible to interact with a child and be logged on to habbo chatting to people, it's not like the conversation you get from a baby is all that riveting anyway.

btw wtf is a DC

[Superwoman]

Justice prevails!

[Yawn]

dependent child = DC

i think.


^______^ love u dnb no hard feelings