would you tell your bf/gf you cheated on them

[sex]

IF you cheated, would you tell them???????


i dunno i didnt before but it was just a kiss and i didnt feel bad, i only told them when they broke up with me to make them upset/mad cause they cheated on me to :l

but i dont think i'd tell unless i wanted to get rid of them

[wixard]

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[Cerys]

I don't think I'd cheat anyway haha, it's an awful feeling

Umm depends on the risk I guess. I mean, sounds bad but, if there was definitely no risk of my bf finding out about it then no I wouldn't tell him. But if there was a risk I'd prefer me to be the person he hears it from and hopefully he'll understand

[MKR&*42]

If I did for some reason, yes definitely.

[lawrawrrr]

yeah i'd always tell them, the only exception is when it's already over just not official or if you're on a break or something

i hate lying so yeah i could never

[Onirela]

it would depend ahaha

[Empired]

I wouldn't tell them if I had stopped and wanted to stay with them. Well, I would. But it would be like a year later.

If I decided I just couldn't stay with them then I would tell them straight away.

[Yawn]

"get rid of them" lol ur funny

if it was minor like just a quick kiss then no cos it wouldnt rly matter and i think it cause more drama than it worth. but if its a situation where u keep going out and kissing diff peeps or u SLEEP with some1 else then yh u should tell them and i hope i would tell them. but tbh ur relationship is screwed at that point anyway and i probs wouldnt cos i dont have the guts and i'd probs just end it and never admit to my wrong doing.

[Kardan]

If I did (which I wouldn't for the record) then definitely.

Me and my fiancée pretty much tell each other when we have someone talking to us that we feel uncomfortable about, so it's all very open and transparent, so no worries :)

[Phil]

I 100% would I love my girlfriend too much and would just feel so guilty for the rest of our relationship, I'd have to tell her. Although, of course I never would but yeah, defo, without a doubt. I had to kiss a girl in a musical before and she wasn't too pleased :( If I cheated and told her it'd defo be the end of the relationship

[Shar]

Yes I would

[Samantha]

Yes I would, I've never cheated, but there have been occurrences when the trust has been tested to the point of breaking and it has broke. However, you can work through it in some cases, although I have never cheated physically, verbally etc. I honestly couldn't even bring myself to cheat, I'd feel bad way before it occurred and tell my partner regardless of the consequences. I will always feel bad if I feel so close to them and love them and hopefully they'd do the same for me.

[Jazz]

Probably, it all depends. I wouldn't put myself in a situation where I would cheat, I have too much respect for the others

[Aaron]

I wouldn't/couldn't cheat, not that type of person. Wouldn't like it done to me so wouldn't do it to them.

[geo]

i don't think i'd ever cheat but if i did i'd tell them

[Chug!]

If I did, i'd tell them yeah.

I haven't before. I'd like to think I wont also. sooo.

[e5]

I don't think I'd cheat anyway haha, it's an awful feeling

Umm depends on the risk I guess. I mean, sounds bad but, if there was definitely no risk of my bf finding out about it then no I wouldn't tell him. But if there was a risk I'd prefer me to be the person he hears it from and hopefully he'll understand
There's always a risk that the person you cheated on them with would say :p.

I've never cheated and won't. But if I did I'd tell them. Maybe not straight away though.

If I wanted to get with someone I'd talk to them first, if I liked them, I'd finish my girlfriend and then do it. But I'd only do that if I didn't wanna be with the girlfriend. And tbh if I had a gf, I'd avoid getting into anything like that with another girl. If I went as far as the get chatty to another girl, I clearly wouldn't like my gf enough and it's unfair. Happened to me and it hurt a lot so

[RyRy]

I'd tell them no matter the circumstances, making excuses would only make me feel more dishonest.

[Cerys]

There's always a risk that the person you cheated on them with would say :p.

I've never cheated and won't. But if I did I'd tell them. Maybe not straight away though.

If I wanted to get with someone I'd talk to them first, if I liked them, I'd finish my girlfriend and then do it. But I'd only do that if I didn't wanna be with the girlfriend. And tbh if I had a gf, I'd avoid getting into anything like that with another girl. If I went as far as the get chatty to another girl, I clearly wouldn't like my gf enough and it's unfair. Happened to me and it hurt a lot so

Yeahh but what if this person doesn't know my bf etc? There'd be no way for him to say what happened stuff haha

Thought about it, and if I did something 'major' with the other lad, yeah I'd tell my bf, no matter how much I like him