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sex
07-09-2013, 02:23 PM
how do you peeps handle it? good, bad, what?

i think i handle it bad and fear it a lot so much that i would probably try end something if i thought it was coming to an end and they where gonna break up with me lol

wixard
07-09-2013, 02:32 PM
yeah i handle it quite bad so i'd never put myself out there if i wasn't 100% sure that i wouldn't be rejected

i got really badly rejected in like november and i still cringe just thinking about it
never again

buttons
07-09-2013, 02:34 PM
from experience, pretend i don't care and have loads of other opportunities and things to do whilst secretly hoping they'll change their mind lmfaoo

Martin
07-09-2013, 03:20 PM
not very well, kind of let it destroy me haha. Try to be brave and pretend everything is okay, but deep down you feel like a failure, it ruins your confidence, its all you can think about and its just really horrible to shake off those kind of feelings once you start getting them.

Cerys
07-09-2013, 03:32 PM
Umm

I don't fear it etc so much really. I used to, but it has happened to much I've just got used to it.

I worry about rejecting other people though... that's why if pretty much anyone asked me out I'd say yes so they don't feel rejected. Then I'm like oh crap I dont like him, lets ignore him till he breaks up with me.

idek im messed up

Eoin247
07-09-2013, 05:08 PM
I fear it a lot, it's why I don't try to get with people unless I'm near sure that they are into me.

Shar
08-09-2013, 12:38 AM
Bad. Rejection sucks.

Samantha
08-09-2013, 01:50 AM
I think it depends, my ex rejected me, dumped me via text message and I thought I deserved more than that. I handled that pretty bad, I couldn't eat for it and I felt unloved, pathetic and unneeded.

However, with recent talks with my current boyfriend about our relationship, we both know it will end, we don't know when, but we do know that our friendship means everything afterwards even if it's hurtful to keep those memories there. I will take it bad when we do break up, but I also know I'll have him there for me when I need that shoulder to cry on.

Basically, I'd take rejection bad depending on the sitation.

Jazz
08-09-2013, 08:39 AM
I'm quite good considering, I just mope a bit then get on with life. I don't put myself in many rejection situations.

HE-Joshua
13-09-2013, 10:24 PM
Well I mean its hard especially when its your fellow habbox co-worker .:Wahu:.; we don't talk anymore! But seriously rejection is rejection unless it punches you in the face I don't worry to much.

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