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sex
15-09-2013, 04:29 PM
like if all your friends hated your gf/bf would you second guess them and wonder what makes them so dislike able? would you continue the relationship do you think it would last or would you be happy with no one showing you to your wedding

karter
15-09-2013, 04:32 PM
ya considering i dont have friends :S

ok seriously, I would as long as I like them

Jurv
15-09-2013, 04:33 PM
yes

i'd listen to why they hate them but i wouldn't completely change my opinion of them especially if they were nice to me

at the end of the day its ur relationship and if ur happy together no one should complain or bother getting involved

karter
15-09-2013, 04:33 PM
and if my friends are so inconsiderate not to show up to my wedding then i'll be done with them immature *****

sex
15-09-2013, 04:38 PM
yeah i don't think id change my opinion on them or stop dating them, unless it was like something really serious like they hated them for something i didn't know about the person i was dating etc LIKE THEY MURDERED SOMEONE

wixard
15-09-2013, 04:40 PM
erm well i'm stubborn so i'd just think my friends were being stupid

i'd still date a guy even if my friends dated him but i'd be more aware

Kardan
15-09-2013, 04:41 PM
Yes, since love is more important than friendship :) Plus the majority of people that you are friends with when you're a teenager won't be friends with you no more when you're getting married :)

Cerys
15-09-2013, 04:42 PM
Yep that's exactly what I'm doing now

They don't like him but screw it, if I love him then that's all that counts.

My friends obviously aren't gonna be supportive so why should I care what they think

Rozi
15-09-2013, 04:44 PM
Yeah I could, but not for long. I'd get bored of my friends giving me that annoying 'I'm concerned' look/talk and just end up getting all the things they were saying in my head and it'd put me off the guy.

buttons
15-09-2013, 05:21 PM
yes deffo idc what my friends n family think lol

wixard
15-09-2013, 05:31 PM
Yes, since love is more important than friendship :) Plus the majority of people that you are friends with when you're a teenager won't be friends with you no more when you're getting married :)


what.... i'm still best friends with my friends from school
and i know loads of people in their 30s that are still friends with their school friends

so that's silly!!!!!!!

Red
15-09-2013, 07:11 PM
Yea I would listen to my friends/family's opinions and would want my partner to get on with them. Especially when you are a teen, I don't even think relationships are healthy that ditch all their friends and are just in each others pockets 24/7

MKR&*42
15-09-2013, 07:23 PM
Yes, its my relationship not theirs.

Kardan
15-09-2013, 08:32 PM
what.... i'm still best friends with my friends from school
and i know loads of people in their 30s that are still friends with their school friends

so that's silly!!!!!!!

Well everyone I know pretty much went their seperate ways after Uni except for the closest few... And I'd say that most of my friends had the same thing happen to them... :P

Personally, I lost contact with the kids I knew before I was 10 because I moved, lost contact with most of the people from 10-11 since we moved into different classes. Same for most of the people from 11-14. The people from 14-16 decided to move into alcohol/drugs etc. so lost contact with them :P 16-18 was fine until everyone went to Uni and live all over the country so now people meet up about once during the holidays, and now 18-20 there is the Uni friends, but half of them have placements abroad :P But you do keep in contact with the closest people, just not most people in my case :P

Samantha
15-09-2013, 08:37 PM
Yes I could, although I would always listen to what my friends have to say about my partner though.

e5
15-09-2013, 08:44 PM
Been through it and I stuck by my gf lol.

I listened to what my friends said, but I have my own mind and I can learn from my own mistakes :)

Phil
15-09-2013, 08:48 PM
Yeah I'd stay with em

Shar
16-09-2013, 01:31 PM
I don't know...it would depend on why they don't like them.

Yawn
16-09-2013, 03:36 PM
yes but it would be frustrating. i would want my friends and bf to be on gd terms and get along and be able to hang out with them all together at the same time :(

-:Undertaker:-
16-09-2013, 05:06 PM
Wouldn't exactly bother me.

If your friends don't like the girl your with then it's likely you won't either as friends generally seem to be similar.

Sharon
17-09-2013, 07:50 PM
if I liked them I wouldn't be bothered what anyone else says or thinks

parents is a whole other story

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