Tom Daley boyfriend 20yrs older

[cornbix]

Tom Daley's boyfriend is a screen writer... 20 years older than him. His boyfriends nudes and him being bottomed was exposed by Perez Hilton a while ago lmfao.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BamKbWCCYAEobZw.jpg

[GommeInc]

... so? Age means nothing. Again, why is this news? He's in a gay relationship - it really shouldn't mean anything unless homosexuality is still something to segregate over with salacious rubbish in equally rubbish news papers.

So now the news seems to be ageist as well as whatever you call this sudden interest in the sexuality of individuals (it's not homophobic).

[MKR&*42]

Oh my people loving who they want without considering pointless things as being X years older what an absolute abomination :P

*Oh ofc I understand if children are involved but hey not this case.

[Inseriousity.]

Is it confirmed it's true, it seems a bit bizarre and it's the sun so it's hard to take seriously. that said, he does not look 20 years older, he looks very young!

[zombies]

none of anyones business really

[cornbix]

Is it confirmed it's true, it seems a bit bizarre and it's the sun so it's hard to take seriously. that said, he does not look 20 years older, he looks very young!
well, thye was also spotted going for coffee together in october. you be the judge.

this news makes me feel sick, not only how old he is but because tom is so innocent and looks (sometimes acts) even younger than he is (just 19!!) and he could do so much better.

[GommeInc]

well, thye was also spotted going for coffee together in october. you be the judge.

this news makes me feel sick, not only how old he is but because tom is so innocent and looks (sometimes acts) even younger than he is (just 19!!) and he could do so much better.
How stupid. He's a consenting adult. 20 years, 30, 40, 50, 100 years wouldn't mean anything. Why you feel you can judge two individuals over a consenting relationship is beyond me.

[cornbix]

How stupid. He's a consenting adult. 20 years, 30, 40, 50, 100 years wouldn't mean anything. Why you feel you can judge two individuals over a consenting relationship is beyond me.

That is it. I'm sick of you coming for me. I THINK he is not mature enough to be dating an almost 40 yr old when he's just turned an adult. I was brought up better than that. Got a problem with my opinion? Deal with it, sweetie. Xo

[GommeInc]

Well firstly opinions can be stupid. Secondly, your jealousy over someone popular in the media is hilarious (as it's out of jealousy you're "sick"). What's slightly worrying is you have an infatuation with someone's private life between his partner and himself, which ought not to be news, especially when they both consent to it and are supposedly happy.

[cornbix]

Well firstly opinions can be stupid. Secondly, your jealousy over someone popular in the media is hilarious (as it's out of jealousy you're "sick"). What's slightly worrying is you have an infatuation with someone's private life between his partner and himself, which ought not to be news, especially when they both consent to it and are supposedly happy.

I know you're mad at the fact I don't agree with this and you have some strange unbeknownst hatred towards me considering I haven't a clue who you are but I am going to keep my opinion that I don't agree with this. Now, remain mad because there's nothing you can do. http://exhalecdn.breatheheavy.com/public/style_emoticons/default/4music.gif

[Catchy]

Don't get why this is even news... Certainly not the first person to be in a relationship with a big age gap. Wont be the last either.

[-:Undertaker:-]

Wow, what?

So not only has his mother had to deal with him being gay (along with rest of his family 24 hours prior to his video) but now this. Ouch.

Hey it's a free world but people aren't obliged to approve.

[Reality]

What should anyone care not like anyone would make this much of a deal of someone in the feral public!! Just because they have some sort of fame means it goes global which to me is ridiculous... .-.!!!

[-Moniquee.]

Nothing better to talk about. Stupid media, age doesn't mean anything either does him being gay. It's no one else's business.

[Vodafone]

It's not exactly uncommon in the gay community for a younger-male to date an older-male.

Please, heterosexuals, do your homework.

Also a more important question: Why are you reading the Sun?

[karter]

he's an adult is this really a headline news seriously whats wrong with this newspaper

[sex]

EWWWW I rember that guy preaching about safe sex and giving out to people for not having it then getting sex tape leaked with him having unprotected sex with some random guy from online

[ihatehash]

Um why is everyone acting holier than thou. I think it's pretty weird and I can completely understand why it's news worthy. The newspaper made this their front page to get the attention of customers just like how the title of this thread made you click on.

[Yawn]

ewww he is only 4 years younger than toms dad

he does have an oscar tho :)

p.s. the sun stole their "EXCLUSIVE" from another more reliable source

[sex]

tbh corn you stole this threadfrm me
IT SHOULD BE MERGE WITH MY TOM DALEYTHREADD
ON TOPIC I BELIEVE THIS TO BE TRUE
doubt it will last

[Andii]

well, thye was also spotted going for coffee together in october. you be the judge.

this news makes me feel sick, not only how old he is but because tom is so innocent and looks (sometimes acts) even younger than he is (just 19!!) and he could do so much better.

well this makes you a very small minded person then. So if you went for coffee with your granny do you think people would say aww hes dating that old woman???? you be the judge. No one has a right to judge anyone else no matter who they are. and small minded people like yourself make this world a pretty pathetic place.

who cares who hes dating. as long as hes happy thats the main thing. It would be different if he was actually like 15 but hes not hes an adult his decisions no one elses.

[Special]

lost all my (already little) respect for the sun, what tom does in his personal life is his nothing to do with anyone else, same for everyone giving it large on this thread aswell

[Grig]

Wow, people becoming activists in this thread.

Yes, I will very much judge and say this is utterly stupid. And please do not quote me and say "oh who are you to judge," because I am free to judge, just as he is free to do what he wants in his personal life.

[karter]

Wow, people becoming activists in this thread.

Yes, I will very much judge and say this is utterly stupid. And please do not quote me and say "oh who are you to judge," because I am free to judge, just as he is free to do what he wants in his personal life.

From that logic it also gives people the right to criticize your opinion so I don't know where you're going with this but it certainly doesn't make sense

[Grig]

From that logic it also gives people the right to criticize your opinion so I don't know where you're going with this but it certainly doesn't make sense

By all accounts, feel free to criticize it. I made it clear enough, wasn't going anywhere with it, was merely pointing out the whole attack on people who thought this wasn't right thing is silly.

[karter]

By all accounts, feel free to criticize it. I made it clear enough, wasn't going anywhere with it, was merely pointing out the whole attack on people who thought this wasn't right thing is silly.

Well also you never even gave the reason why you found this 'stupid' and why there was a need to call everyone a social activist because they found no problems with this :S

[cornbix]

tbh corn you stole this threadfrm me
IT SHOULD BE MERGE WITH MY TOM DALEYTHREADD
ON TOPIC I BELIEVE THIS TO BE TRUE
doubt it will last

This is a completely different subject, don't be jealous..

And yeah, on topic I think it's pretty bad. Not only more than twice his age (a year or so older than his dad who he adored) but also sleazy and promiscuous. Totally wrong for his first gay relationship, or any relationship. Tom doesn't seem mature as it is. He'll definitely go after girls after it turns out he's just one of Dustin's regular youngens he's spotted dating. He'll be back to girls soon! I see so many vulnerable young gays manipulated by older gay men is a horrible chiche. I also get the impression that he was outed/forced to come out by whom he is dating, Dustin loves attention.

Don't call me judemental guys, each to their own. Although I do think 20 is a big age gap considering Tom only looks about 12.

[Yawn]

his bf is creepy looking i think he should try a more suitable gay man for his 1st experience

[-:Undertaker:-]

This is a completely different subject, don't be jealous..

And yeah, on topic I think it's pretty bad. Not only more than twice his age (a year or so older than his dad who he adored) but also sleazy and promiscuous. Totally wrong for his first gay relationship, or any relationship. Tom doesn't seem mature as it is. He'll definitely go after girls after it turns out he's just one of Dustin's regular youngens he's spotted dating. He'll be back to girls soon! I see so many vulnerable young gays manipulated by older gay men is a horrible chiche. I also get the impression that he was outed/forced to come out by whom he is dating, Dustin loves attention.

Don't call me judemental guys, each to their own. Although I do think 20 is a big age gap considering Tom only looks about 12.

Not so sure he's into girls y'know...

Afterall, as comments in the newspapers have pointed out, they need to sell those calendars.

[cornbix]

Not so sure he's into girls y'know...

Afterall, as comments in the newspapers have pointed out, they need to sell those calendars.
Lol, true. He seems fully gay to me. Idk why he said he was bi..

[Shar]

A lot of celeb women date men 20 years younger or older and it doesn't make the news??? So what leave Tom alone fgs

[xxMATTGxx]

well, thye was also spotted going for coffee together in october. you be the judge.

this news makes me feel sick, not only how old he is but because tom is so innocent and looks (sometimes acts) even younger than he is (just 19!!) and he could do so much better.

I can go and have a coffee with someone, doesn't mean I'm dating them lmao. Even if it's true, least it's not like he's with someone underaged is it? Leave them to it.

[Aiden]

dustins a right **** lol

it didnt makes me feel gross about tom having sex with dustin

i dont know why

[Yawn]

dustins a right **** lol

it didnt makes me feel gross about tom having sex with dustin

i dont know why
y not can u imagine them doing it ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[Aiden]

y not can u imagine them doing it ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

because i seen the pictures of dustin...

[AgnesIO]

... so? Age means nothing. Again, why is this news? He's in a gay relationship - it really shouldn't mean anything unless homosexuality is still something to segregate over with salacious rubbish in equally rubbish news papers.

So now the news seems to be ageist as well as whatever you call this sudden interest in the sexuality of individuals (it's not homophobic).

Welcome... to Uganda.

http://images.smh.com.au/2011/01/28/2157241/uganda%20newspaper-420x0.jpg

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A lot of celeb women date men 20 years younger or older and it doesn't make the news??? So what leave Tom alone fgs

Take note of the newspaper trash reporting on this..

[Shar]

Welcome... to Uganda.

http://images.smh.com.au/2011/01/28/2157241/uganda%20newspaper-420x0.jpg

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Take note of the newspaper trash reporting on this..
I know I know but still it pisses me off

[AgnesIO]

I know I know but still it pisses me off

Unfortunately, the paper itself posts crap like this daily, instead of "real" news. This is because of what the readership wants :(

[Tidan]

"Age means nothing", and a Jail cell is just a room.

[cornbix]

"Age means nothing", and a Jail cell is just a room.
preach sis. this isn't right imo, considering tom has only just hit adulthood a yr ago.

[Yawn]

obv this situation is different to ur average celeb dating some1 older :rolleyes:

tom daley is a big news story around the world right now because he just came out 2 days ago and every1 is talking about it. regardless of who he was dating it probs wouldve been front page news. the fact this guy is nearly twice his age and also famous makes it even more juicy

[cornbix]

tom is going to get his heartbroken http://exhalecdn.breatheheavy.com/public/style_emoticons/default/4music.gif but atleast he's into boys officially now, and we all know u r fully gay tom. try keep ur fangirls for ur calender gurl http://exhalecdn.breatheheavy.com/public/style_emoticons/default/thumbsup.gif

[-:Undertaker:-]

Apparently for his birthday (and I remember this picture from back then) he had cocktails on a rooftop with his boyfriend (the guy on the far left) ... can't believe he is 39.


http://i4.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article2899319.ece/ALTERNATES/s615/Tom-Daley-with-Dustin-Lance-Black-2899319.png

I need help.

[AgnesIO]

Apparently for his birthday (and I remember this picture from back then) he had cocktails on a rooftop with his boyfriend (the guy on the far left) ... can't believe he is 39.


http://i4.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article2899319.ece/ALTERNATES/s615/Tom-Daley-with-Dustin-Lance-Black-2899319.png

I need help.

What's wrong with him having cocktails on a rooftop?


Sent from my HTC One X

[cornbix]

Apparently for his birthday (and I remember this picture from back then) he had cocktails on a rooftop with his boyfriend (the guy on the far left) ... can't believe he is 39.


http://i4.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article2899319.ece/ALTERNATES/s615/Tom-Daley-with-Dustin-Lance-Black-2899319.png

I need help.

They're actually cute together. Ngl.

[-:Undertaker:-]

What's wrong with him having cocktails on a rooftop?

Sent from my HTC One X

Nothing...? Infact, it sounds like my ideal birthday. :P

[wixard]

WHAT?!! that guy cannot be 39 he looks about 22!!!

[Yawn]

his bf looks v nice there but its an illusion

[dana1099]

Who cares, they're grown and over 18.

[GommeInc]

Who cares, they're grown and over 18.
Finally, someone with common sense! ;)

According to rumours, the person who is apparently his partner is renowned for targeting younger men and was caught having unprotected sex with another man, despite publicising the importance of safe sex at the time, though whether or not this is true depends on how much you trust Perez Hilton (who's nothing short of an idiot anyway).

[AgnesIO]

Nothing...? Infact, it sounds like my ideal birthday. :P

Oh, I thought you were implying it made it obvious he was gay or something (cocktails and all) - thought it was a bit odd :L

Was going to say, as someone who is perfectly straight, I love a good cocktail :L

[karter]

"Age means nothing", and a Jail cell is just a room.

that phrase is applicable where the person is under 18 and here it's not
stop being a douche

[Daltron]

that phrase is applicable where the person is under 18 and here it's not
stop being a douche

Amen

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I can't tell if his boyfriend is good looking or not. On that newspaper photo he looks horrid then in that cocktail photo he looks fab!!! What is his name so I can Google?

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As for the overall issue who cares they are consenting adults he can do what he wants

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Finally, someone with common sense! ;)

According to rumours, the person who is apparently his partner is renowned for targeting younger men and was caught having unprotected sex with another man, despite publicising the importance of safe sex at the time, though whether or not this is true depends on how much you trust Perez Hilton (who's nothing short of an idiot anyway).

You can still have unprotected sex and be extremely safe if you know your partners sexual habits, been tested several times etc.

Perez is an idiot who will say anything for readers and traffic lol. But on his part I can see the need for him to make up BS on a regular basis. Imagine if he had the headline 'Tom Daley steady in good relationship, all is well.'

[-:Undertaker:-]

You can still have unprotected sex and be extremely safe if you know your partners sexual habits, been tested several times etc.

Perez is an idiot who will say anything for readers and traffic lol. But on his part I can see the need for him to make up BS on a regular basis. Imagine if he had the headline 'Tom Daley steady in good relationship, all is well.'

That's true for married straight couples who have been together for years perhaps, but gay couples - and the fact many are so err flaunty - face an even higher risk. And that's without even going into the fact that gay sex carries a much higher risk for carrying the disease on.

And the bf is Dustin Lance Black.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2520308/Tom-Daley-jets-US-just-days-announcing-new-boyfriend.html

He's in Texas atm the Daily Mail is reporting.


http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/12/08/article-2520308-19F59E9E00000578-378_634x890.jpg

What a Christmas present. :P

[Daltron]

That's true for married straight couples who have been together for years perhaps, but gay couples - and the fact many are so err flaunty - face an even higher risk. And that's without even going into the fact that gay sex carries a much higher risk for carrying the disease on.



My post did not say that straight partners and gay partners carry the same risk. I just commented that it can be safe if you know the habits of your partner and have been tested several times which would indicate a long relationship that's all. I won't even bother responding to what is underlined.

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And the bf is Dustin Lance Black.


And oh god. He looks like a female version of Sarah Jessica Parker...........

[GommeInc]

You can still have unprotected sex and be extremely safe if you know your partners sexual habits, been tested several times etc.
This was apparently a random one night stand, although why people feel the need to video their activities is beyond me. No one wants too look back at what they did, or see what faces they make :P

Also, rumour has it this man is a bit of a sexual predator regarding young adults. He seems to get around a lot. I'm suddenly showing too much of an interest :/ It may be because I'm studying sexual assault and deviants a bit so it's just an academic interest :P

[Daltron]

This was apparently a random one night stand, although why people feel the need to video their activities is beyond me. No one wants too look back at what they did, or see what faces they make :P

Also, rumour has it this man is a bit of a sexual predator regarding young adults. He seems to get around a lot. I'm suddenly showing too much of an interest :/ It may be because I'm studying sexual assault and deviants a bit so it's just an academic interest :P

Then safe to say that is very unsafe :P

[Yawn]

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Dustin actually looks cute tbh. u'd never know he was 39
also tom got **** massive thighs and ass those tight jeans r not working for him

[cornbix]

aw soo cute tbh http://exhalecdn.breatheheavy.com/public/style_emoticons/default/orlynow.gif

[-paul.]

As long as they are consenting adults then it doesn't matter how old they are!

[eet]

So essentially what you saying is that it is socially acceptable even for an 18 year old to date an 87 year old as long as they are
consenting adults?

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... so? Age means nothing. Again, why is this news? He's in a gay relationship - it really shouldn't mean anything unless homosexuality is still something to segregate over with salacious rubbish in equally rubbish news papers.

So now the news seems to be ageist as well as whatever you call this sudden interest in the sexuality of individuals (it's not homophobic).
The age gap between the two individuals is strange regardless of whether it is a heterosexual or homosexual relationship.

[karter]

So essentially what you saying is that it is socially acceptable even for an 18 year old to date an 87 year old as long as they are
consenting adults?

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The age gap between the two individuals is strange regardless of whether it is a heterosexual or homosexual relationship.

nothing is socially acceptable really
people always have problems with something coz they cant mind their own ******* business

[Yawn]

over 109 viewers :Heart:

[-:Undertaker:-]

Tom is just PERFECT. The pic when they are sharing a drink, ahhhhhh.

I can't get over how young that guy looks, it's insane. What's his secret? :P

PS tom is back in the pool. here..

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2523102/TOWIE-hunk-Dan-Osborne-shows-rippling-muscles-dives-Splash-practice-sessions.html

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/12/13/article-2523102-1A13D4EE00000578-151_634x1127.jpg

[Yawn]

tom looks better in his trunks tbh

[cornbix]

tom looks better in his trunks tbh

this thread bigger than his actual coming out one. 1K views sex;

[Daltron]

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Dustin actually looks cute tbh. u'd never know he was 39
also tom got **** massive thighs and ass those tight jeans r not working for him

holy crap they are both hot, he does not look 40 there. must be wearin makeup or something

[GommeInc]

So essentially what you saying is that it is socially acceptable even for an 18 year old to date an 87 year old as long as they are
consenting adults?

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The age gap between the two individuals is strange regardless of whether it is a heterosexual or homosexual relationship.
Yes. It is fine, because they are consenting adults. The only people who do not understand that are incredibly dense, it seems. Age gaps ought not to mean anything. People who question the legal, private actions of others are a) incredibly nosey and/or b) incredibly boring that they have nothing else to live for other than the lives of others which they feel compelled to judge because their own minuscule lives have nothing interesting going on in them.

[AgnesIO]

So essentially what you saying is that it is socially acceptable even for an 18 year old to date an 87 year old as long as they are
consenting adults?

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The age gap between the two individuals is strange regardless of whether it is a heterosexual or homosexual relationship.

Might not be seen as socially acceptable, but certainly in terms of the law it is perfectly acceptable, and no-one is doing wrong.