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Sharon
31-12-2013, 05:01 PM
in a relationship/with the person you like are you clingy?

can't really think of my answer rn but i shall add it soon

geo
31-12-2013, 05:06 PM
um i think there's a spectrum of neediness like??? i don't think you're either needy or you're not..

overall i wouldn't say i'm needy or clingy..

depends what you mean by them BC there's defo a spectrum of them both imo

wixard
31-12-2013, 05:11 PM
sometimes i can be, other times i can be the total opposite

Shar
31-12-2013, 05:15 PM
I can be

Yawn
31-12-2013, 05:22 PM
when i start to like some1 it drives me insane and i do get obsessive, but it doesnt show.
so no im not clingy because im too self concious of it. but omg in my head yes i am rly bad AND I WANT TO KNOW EVERYTHING.

MKR&*42
31-12-2013, 05:47 PM
yeah very, my biggest downfall sighh

Derrener
31-12-2013, 06:13 PM
yah i am

Calum0812
31-12-2013, 06:18 PM
Don't like people ignoring / being slow at replying to my texts and calls but apart from that not too much :P

buttons
31-12-2013, 06:47 PM
errr in a relationship n close friendship yes but if i just like them then not at all

Aiden
31-12-2013, 07:36 PM
yeah very, my biggest downfall sighh

i can think of others :))))))))

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not rlly

MKR&*42
31-12-2013, 07:47 PM
i can think of others :))))))))

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not rlly

SO MEAN :(

Eric
02-01-2014, 06:50 AM
haven't been in a relationship before but i think i would be

FlyingJesus
02-01-2014, 01:29 PM
Errrrr I like being told how great I am and stuff but I'm not like NEVER LEAVE MY SIDE WHAT ARE YOU DOING WHO ARE YOU WITH or w/e

My brother and his gf are always holding hands even when they're just watching TV or something it's sickening it looks like they're constantly about to tell us they're engaged

Zak
02-01-2014, 04:40 PM
I can be yeah. I need my own space sometimes but most of the time I love spending time with that special person. :)

!x!dude!x!2
02-01-2014, 06:47 PM
I have my days

OldLoveSong
02-01-2014, 06:56 PM
nop but my bf is lol

Zelda
02-01-2014, 11:33 PM
never been in a relationship but i think i'd WANT to be clingy but be so self conscious about it that i'd probably be the complete opposite really

Futz
02-01-2014, 11:46 PM
never really clingy or needy

but i can go to extremely loving to extremely distant pretty fast

-:Undertaker:-
02-01-2014, 11:55 PM
Erm well i'm not in a relationship but if I were to be hypothetically then yeah i'd be super clingy.

Martin
03-01-2014, 12:07 AM
im just annoying haha :( worst trait ever

Mark
03-01-2014, 12:41 AM
Can't say I am tbh, probably because I'm not looking for a relationship at all atm

lRhyss
03-01-2014, 01:30 AM
I'm not ashamed to admit that I am a clingy person sometimes :P

But isn't everyone?

Sharon
03-01-2014, 03:45 AM
i am very very clingy. idk love to be speaking almost ALL the time and i do take an interest in what they're up to, who they're with etc. but that's genuinely because i like to take an interest in their life lol not because im a jealous control freak!!! (i still can be a jealous freak tho, working on it:()

thank god I've found someone who is just as needy, the moral of this post is not to speak to me ha

dbgtz
05-01-2014, 12:09 AM
Used to be, wouldn't say so anymore lmao.

Inseriousity.
05-01-2014, 12:15 AM
no, too independent. being on the other extreme is just as bad though, can seem cold and distant so yeah there's that.

sex
05-01-2014, 03:34 AM
In general nope, if I think someone doesn't wanna talk to me or have me around I'll get the picture and just not bother with them until they wanna talk again which is stupid on my part I guess

Charz777
10-01-2014, 05:29 PM
In terms of my relationship I used to be because I felt threatened by one of my boyfriend's (now fiance's) friends who made it his life ambition to try to split us up. Lucky that 'friend' is out of both of our lives now! Yay :) But that used to make me very clingy. Very much 'where are you?' 'Who are you with?' 'What are you doing?' 'You must come and loooooove me now!'

I'm much more relaxed now I'm older, plus there's too much effort involved in checking up on someone 24/7. It's easier to just let things be. It's much easier without the threats of other people though. I am much better now there are only nice people in my life.

Hannah
10-01-2014, 05:37 PM
No. I won't put myself in a position of feeling that way as I will only be with someone I can trust. That or I won't be with anyone and still be as content.

Absently
10-01-2014, 06:06 PM
sadly yeah, i really try not to let it happen tho and try overcome it mostly. i'm pretty sure i'm only like this because of how i was treated before and throughout my life.

crystaldd0
11-01-2014, 12:29 PM
I'd like to say I'm not, but probably am to a certain extent.

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