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Aiden
18-01-2014, 10:24 PM
Mine aren't really.

Inseriousity.
18-01-2014, 10:31 PM
Not with me, they wouldn't dare but my dad has double standards with my sister. the usual "girls can't.../girls shouldn't...." macho nonsense

OldLoveSong
18-01-2014, 10:54 PM
Yes. they say if i live under their roof i have to live with their rules. Which is understandable to a point, but my parents are extreamly strict.

Futz
18-01-2014, 10:55 PM
nah they're so laid back they're almost horizontal

Jurv
18-01-2014, 11:13 PM
my mum isn't but i think my stepdad is, especially with my sister anyway

Absently
18-01-2014, 11:13 PM
Nope! Always let me be a free little bird

buttons
18-01-2014, 11:23 PM
erm mum had control over me because i learned being a little bobba = punishment. not to the extent of hitting me or starving me or w.e but just disciplining me like I should have been, Internet taken away, not being allowed to go out with friends, made to write an apology letter to the school for graffiti, forced to look in a field for an hour after throwing away her money lol. used to think she was unfair but that's cause my friends had parents who didnt/couldn't discipline them so they weren't punished for doing things they shouldn't have done. so yh she had control through punishment cause stopped me from skiving classes, lying to her, being a bobba to ppl at school or online (like fbook n bebo which i kinda resent as wasn't allowed to defend myself against bullies and took me ages to begin defending myself) but she always gave me my freedom to do what I wanted, hang out with who i want, study what i want, go where i want etc as long as i was respectful and good.

still got my freedom but still punished in some fashion if I disagree with her ways of doing things but yh gotta try be civil whilst i live under her roof, her roof her rules

Mark
18-01-2014, 11:25 PM
Not at all, they allow me to make my own decisions and if it's the wrong one then I learn from my mistakes. When I was younger they were a bit and I'm glad for that.

dbgtz
18-01-2014, 11:42 PM
Urr my mum, not so much. My dad is a little more, trying to mold me how he wanted his kids to be. He always says he's proud of me and my brothers, which he might be, but that doesn't stop him wanting his desired "dream child" :P.

Zelda
19-01-2014, 12:23 AM
my mum was always vbery nncontriolling when i was pavery litlte nd tlike woulddd alwayts stop me throm growing ougt with so called frends but yea sh's got a lttle less and ctually wants me to soshalise now

-:Undertaker:-
19-01-2014, 12:24 AM
Depends.

They were pretty controlling when younger, but i'm an adult now so yeah.

Empired
19-01-2014, 12:28 AM
Wouldn't be aiming to go into law if they weren't

sex
19-01-2014, 12:32 AM
no its great they let me do what i want usually and dont have a problem if i go out all night or for a few days
they wont like worry or anything cause they trust me i guess

Daltron
19-01-2014, 01:00 AM
Nah not really but they do like to know if I am going to be home or not so I tell them where I am if I'm gone for a night or so

Cassiieee
19-01-2014, 03:12 AM
My dads' not. But my mum can be over protective sometimes.

Chris
19-01-2014, 12:38 PM
Not so much anymore since they let me get on with what I want to do, but they can still be quite intrusive at times.

lawrawrrr
19-01-2014, 12:45 PM
SO bad. Despite the fact I'm 20 when I'm home they want to know exactly what I'm doing every second of the day...

Shar
19-01-2014, 12:52 PM
It depends.

Eric
19-01-2014, 03:43 PM
Not really, just some norms they conform to

Zak
19-01-2014, 10:10 PM
Yes very much so.. It's normally their way or the highway.

crystaldd0
19-01-2014, 10:44 PM
Nope, not at all

Kardan
19-01-2014, 11:28 PM
Not at all.

Demi
19-01-2014, 11:38 PM
Not in the slightest :)

Sho
20-01-2014, 12:34 AM
Yeah they can be really overprotective and stuff too. I went away for a few days last summer to meet some people and they kept calling me every few hours to check what I was doing sigh


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wixard
20-01-2014, 01:26 AM
no, my mums quite lax about things but if she can see me constantly ******* up like when i kept getting really drunk and losing all m stuff she'll threaten to kick me out if i don't clean up my act

other than that we're totally fine, it's as if she's just a live in landlord as opposed to my mum

buttons
20-01-2014, 01:38 AM
Yeah they can be really overprotective and stuff too. I went away for a few days last summer to meet some people and they kept calling me every few hours to check what I was doing sigh


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oh my mum is the same, even tho iv travelled to my bfs like 8 times I have to text her as soon as he picks me up but after tht she just text me every few days ask how i am
same when im going anywhere even with friends got to txt her tell her i got there safely

Yawn
20-01-2014, 02:47 AM
no just let me get on with my life

Drunq
20-01-2014, 09:19 AM
they can be but i think they just worry sometimes i dont even get it half the time theres a big wide world out there though so i get that but im a bloody adult and i know when to get my own back irl but they just worry pisses me off

Charz777
20-01-2014, 02:40 PM
My mum used to be in the sense that she was overprotective. I wasn't even allowed to play on the green across the street (a 20 second walk away) because she couldn't see me from the living room window. And this was from the time I was old enough to play out to when I was about 13 and stopped playing out :P

Not anymore though, I'm an adult now :P But I am expected to respect them and the fact that I'm still living under their roof. And most importantly, I know never to lie. But no, absolutely no control now.

Phil
20-01-2014, 03:51 PM
They try to be lol

Metric1
21-01-2014, 06:54 AM
negative.

despect
22-01-2014, 01:43 PM
My mum isn't, my dad is for sure but I know its because he wants the best for me :P.

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