View Full Version : Do you ask for help or are you the helper?
IzzyUhh
26-01-2014, 06:52 PM
As nick said Are you the helpie or the helper?
I Personally hate asking for help and feel like within my group of friends I give help mainly in things i don't know :P
!x!dude!x!2
26-01-2014, 06:58 PM
I get scared to ask for help sometimes because i always think its going to be a stupid question but i always help people
Aiden
26-01-2014, 07:00 PM
Both or I would never learn.
crystaldd0
26-01-2014, 07:03 PM
People tend to come to me for help, I rarely ever go to anyone when I need help of my own though. I feel like if I go to anyone for help, they might make fun of what it is I need help for :$
Cassiieee
26-01-2014, 07:08 PM
Both, I give help and ask for help when I need it.
zebbadi
26-01-2014, 07:14 PM
I like helping all the time and I am quite stubborn with asking for help on certain stuff
Calum0812
26-01-2014, 07:14 PM
In school I tend to be the one who helps but everyone at Habbox knows that here, I am the one asking :(
buttons
26-01-2014, 10:54 PM
yea everyone comes to me for help n advice or for someone to listen
rarely ask anyone for personal help (feelings, relationships) because I know what to do lol, ask for help on uni, how to work things, health advice etc tho
MKR&*42
26-01-2014, 11:02 PM
a few people come to me yeah but i also go to other people tooooo this is emotion-wise
if its to do with general knowledge they come to me ik thats shocking but i am actually not dumb irl
Derrener
26-01-2014, 11:03 PM
ask for help
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i am also the helper
Sloths
26-01-2014, 11:55 PM
I hate asking for help even if it's to Iike open a jar let alone personal things. Quite a few people come to me for help I'm a great listener and try my best to help as best I can
Daltron
27-01-2014, 12:25 AM
I am usually the one giving help
OldLoveSong
27-01-2014, 12:26 AM
i think im the helper def
dbgtz
27-01-2014, 12:33 AM
I rarely ever ask for help, I'd rather crunch and grind at something for a while and figure things out that way.
Ekelektra
27-01-2014, 01:16 AM
If I need help I try to figure it out by myself first then ask, but I always try to help people as much as I can.
Shockwave.2CC
27-01-2014, 01:46 AM
I get scared to ask for help sometimes because i always think its going to be a stupid question but i always help people
This is me aswell
Drunq
27-01-2014, 01:48 AM
Depends I prefer asking because it's finding out things but if I offee help i'm dumb... Sounds about right really in that sense! Lol
always the one to ask for help
dont really mind asking for help though like it doesnt embarrass me or anything because i struggle with like everything whether its a math problem or situation thing but sometimes just get paranoid that im annoying the person (unless its a teacher at school then i dont really mind lol dont need to ask for help at school v often though)
obv if someone asked me for help i'd help them but it doesn't happen very often seeing as im idk not good with that stuff lol will happily listen to people though
Normally the helper but I would ask for help if I was in a situation that I couldn't handle alone
im usually the helper, but im not afraid to ask for help!
Don't ask for help much unless it's a very very very difficult and complicated maths question, otherwise i'd just figure things out myself, i love helping people
I don't like asking for help because I feel weak and stupid, but I realise that sometimes we need a little assistance and it's not so bad. :)
People generally come to me for help most of the time though.
I'm the helper but I'm not afraid to ask for help either.
-Moniquee.
29-01-2014, 01:30 AM
Both. I'm sure everyone has helped and been helped. It's the only way to learn.
I think I'm both. It does depend what the subject or topic is. If I know a lot about it and am confident that I'm right i'll be the helper as I don't like giving people wrong information but then other things i'm unsure about I'd be the one to ask for help.
Chris
29-01-2014, 05:57 PM
A bit of both really. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses so it's good to ask for and give help when you can.
lawrawrrr
29-01-2014, 06:00 PM
Rarely ask for help, I really don't like showing weaknesses in public, would rather show myself as being independent or w/e.
However if there's something I physically cannot do (carry heavy things, code a website etc) I will ask someone to do that, but hardly ever help with something I can do.
Helping though, I'll usually help other people as soon as they ask something of me and to the best of my ability!
I feel like the majority if the time I'm talking to people about their problems
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