Could you date a smoker?

[Aiden]

Could you date a smoker?

Personally, no! I'm really paranoid of being smoked around lmfao. :P

[Hannah]

I'm a smoker myself, so of course.

If I were trying to quit, I'd rather not though.

[Absently]

ye my bf is a smoker, wish he didn't tho cus i hate the smell of stale smoke.

[wixard]

have no problem with it

[mrwoooooooo]

nope its vile

[Drewar]

I probably could, but it would annoy me a lot because I hate the smell of it and I am not a smoker.

Also I have a feeling that I would nag them to death and beg them to quit every day, so the relationship would probably be doomed.

[Empired]

Probably not. I don't mind the smell of smoking while their smoking but I'd get sick of it hanging round for hours afterwards... Plus, as said above, I'd probably just nag 'em to quit all the time.

[karter]

i could although i dont like the smell of smoke...

[Kardan]

No. Their breath would smell, their hair would smell, their clothes would smell. The house would smell. Uck.

[MKR&*42]

Depends how often they smoke. If they're gonna be lighting one up every 10 mins then no, but otherwise I wouldn't mind (wasnt serious about 10 mins but hey).

[Ailurus]

Nope, also asdsfgsjdjyfsjfuja Hayden. ;u;.

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[Mark]

Yeah as long as they don't smell of smoke or have disgusting breath/teeth

[Absently]

No. Their breath would smell, their hair would smell, their clothes would smell. The house would smell. Uck.minus breath unless they've eaten, but i don't find my boyfriends hair or clothes smell and our house doesn't at all smell of smoke. if you wash your hands after you smoke and eat gum the smell normally doesn't stick

[Cassiieee]

Yeah. I don't really see a problem with it.

[HarrySX]

what sort of smoker? lol

[Jurv]

yeah as long as they didn't smoke inside and smell of it too much

[Matthew]

depends how often they smoked

most likely no though.

[-:Undertaker:-]

Yes because i'm not one of these over the top anti-smoking nazis.

And for the record again, i've never even tried a cigarette.

[Chippiewill]

Yes because i'm not one of these over the top anti-smoking nazis.
And you say denier is too harsh of a term for people who don't believe in climate change?

[Red]

100% no. Hate smoke so much!

[Zelda]

definitely not, if they started smoking at some point in our relationship i'd probably dump them if they didn't immediately stop too, i just can't stand it in the slightest

[-:Undertaker:-]

And you say denier is too harsh of a term for people who don't believe in climate change?

In debate and that, yeah. Nazi only came to my head because of the famous Jon Gaunt radio interview.

But your right, I shouldn't have said that. Anti-smoking control freaks*

[!x!dude!x!2]

Nope. i couldn't, the smell and everything just ew :(

[Kardan]

minus breath unless they've eaten, but i don't find my boyfriends hair or clothes smell and our house doesn't at all smell of smoke. if you wash your hands after you smoke and eat gum the smell normally doesn't stick

Maybe I'm just very sensitive to smoke then :P

[buttons]

used to not like it despite being one but tbh don't rly mind as long as they don't feel they need to smoke, do it inside or spend all their money on i when they can't afford it. occasional smoker would be fine.

[Chris]

I don't think I could, the smell alone makes me feel ill.

[Yawn]

yh providing they werent smoking that much and it wasnt indoors (at least out a window)

[Futz]

i could date a social smoker

but when they smoke 'cause they're addicted it's nasty as hell

[Sharon]

doesn't really put me off if the lad i liked now was suddenly a smoker/had secretly been smoking all along, if i met someone new n they told me idk if it would make me feel any diff

[Brad]

I couldn't date/marry a smoker, because I know that I wouldn't want my future children to have to deal with parents who smoke (like I had to growing up) which really causes a lot of damage.
If it was a person who was quitting, and attempting to quit, it may be a different story.

[e5]

I smoke, so aslong as they didnt have yellow teeth etc then ye

[efq]

Nope. It's all disgusting no matter how careful they are avoiding yellow fingers and bad teeth. Never enough to stop it completely and clothes and breath stink.

[Mikey]

No thanks, Dad smokes and it's disgusting.

[Liva]

Nope, it's bad enough living with a mother who smokes. I smell like smoke, she smokes in the car, I cant breathe.
I hate it.

[Metric1]

I think it's hot when girls smoke.

[Daltron]

Hell to the no. Smoking is disgusting and the smell is a total turn off

[Landon]

I couldn't deal with it in my house. The smell sticks every where. Just like cars. The smell will almost always be there.
Considering, my family doesn't smoke :)

[Matt]

Nah, because everything would stink and it would always be in my house, yuk

[despect]

My ex was a heavy smoker literally he'd finish one and have another one 2 minutes later. However, If I liked the person enough I don't see why not :P.

[Jake]

Wow just wow..

This is probably one of the most shallowest threads ever.

Your all completely wrong.. If you like someone enough then you can and would date them whatever their habits. You may not like it but to say you wouldnt date someone just means you never really liked them enough to give them a chance..

Yes i would and i currently am


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[Kardan]

Wow just wow..

This is probably one of the most shallowest threads ever.

Your all completely wrong.. If you like someone enough then you can and would date them whatever their habits. You may not like it but to say you wouldnt date someone just means you never really liked them enough to give them a chance..

Yes i would and i currently am


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So you know our feelings better than ourselves then? :P And people take habits into account when deciding who to date... It'd be silly to say people didn't.

[GrandpaJoe63]

Not really. Don't really like being around smokers. Puts me in a bad mood. Just can't stand the smell.

[Brad]

So you know our feelings better than ourselves then? :P And people take habits into account when deciding who to date... It'd be silly to say people didn't.

Yup, and I feel that once a person in a relationship and that person starts smoking, I would have to question why that person was starting to smoke in the first place.. if it's because they are being stressed out, or just doing it- Then you need to get them help, so that they can stop smoking- but if you originally went into the relationship with them saying, "we are not going to get into smoking," and then it happens, the person who started smoking sort of lied to you saying they weren't going to smoke...
But then again, with this attribute in a relationship it'll all come differently to everyone and not everyone is the same. So I see where, if I was a smoker- and the person I liked didn't smoke, I'd make an effort not to smoke to please them. But that's just me.

[Lewis]

Definitely not. Not just the worry of their health (e.g. cancer), but also how they'd smell etc. Of course it really all depends, though.

It wouldn't be impossible for me but extremely unlikely - I couldn't begin to like a person if I knew they smoked, so I'd have to find out afterwards.

[Martin]

Nope haha :(

Absolutely hate it!

[-Amyy]

No I don't think so, I can't stand the smell

[Charz777]

Nope! It's disgusting. Everything would stink.

Also, I don't know why, but I think a man smoking is more unattractive than a woman smoking...

But regardless, no, I wouldn't.

To the posts saying, 'if you truly love someone you wouldn't care if they smoke...' I'd never get close enough to be in love someone who smokes. You have to be attracted to someone you'd consider going around with which would then turn into love. I'd never be attracted in the first place, so it wouldn't be possible for me to fall in love with them...

[lawrawrrr]

For those saying it would stink, it's actually not that hard to cover it up and take care of yourself after it. I did this for years (although I was never on more than 5 a day) and my eagle eyed strict mum never noticed!!!

I don't think I could date someone who was addicted to anything, but a social smoker is fine.


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[OldLoveSong]

nope deff not it would bother me too much

[Shar]

I am a non-smoker, I hate everything about smoking, the smell alone makes me feel sick. Having said that it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world, I'd deal with it and probably encourage my partner to try and stop and support them in doing so. I'd also make it very clear not to smoke around me!

[Jake]

So basically your all saying that none of your close friends smoke.. And if they did youd tell them you werent going to see them or have contact with them anymore.. Thats junk. And tbh most relationships stem from friendships now if you dont have friends who smoke then your either all 11-14 or you honestly dont have many friends. In all truthfulness i wasnt trying to sound harsh but its the way it is, most relationships lead from friendships and 1/6th of the people in the uk smoke, so every 1 in 6 people smoke, now no matter where you go, either walking through town or starting a new job your going to make friends who smoke.. Therefore most likely leading to relationships. And believe me you cannot 'choose' who your attracted to.


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[Judas]

I'm genuinely surprised at the people that are adamantly saying no

[Kardan]

So basically your all saying that none of your close friends smoke.. And if they did youd tell them you werent going to see them or have contact with them anymore.. Thats junk. And tbh most relationships stem from friendships now if you dont have friends who smoke then your either all 11-14 or you honestly dont have many friends. In all truthfulness i wasnt trying to sound harsh but its the way it is, most relationships lead from friendships and 1/6th of the people in the uk smoke, so every 1 in 6 people smoke, now no matter where you go, either walking through town or starting a new job your going to make friends who smoke.. Therefore most likely leading to relationships. And believe me you cannot 'choose' who your attracted to.


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None of my friends smoke :P But it all depends who you hang around with I guess, I have no friends that smoke, but I'm sure there's certain people that have nearly all of their friends that smoke.

[Jake]

None of my friends smoke :P But it all depends who you hang around with I guess, I have no friends that smoke, but I'm sure there's certain people that have nearly all of their friends that smoke.

But that doesnt mean that you will never have friends that smoke..


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[Kardan]

But that doesnt mean that you will never have friends that smoke..


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Certainly doesn't :)

[Jake]

Certainly doesn't :)

Which could potentially lead to a relationship.. ;)


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[Kardan]

Which could potentially lead to a relationship.. ;)


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Not for me :)

[Zak]

I think I could but I wouldn't like it. I don't think it would last long if I did.