Are you happy with yourself now?

[Empired]

Just thought this would be an interesting question. Are you happy with yourself/your life now? If not, are you trying to do something about it?

I'd say I'm not unhappy but it could certainly be a lot better. I'm not really doing anything about it at the moment though, just biding my time..

[MKR&*42]

I think ive come far in life but i am still very unhappy with myself and my life. I am sort of doing something to change it but yeah :P

[IzzyUhh]

It's quite sad but nope. I'm unhappy with myself I try and think I could do better I just don't :P

[buttons]

yea am happy w/ myself, try not to compare myself to others or follow the crowd or hold myself bk so yh sure

[despect]

I'd say there's certain aspects of my life that i'm happy with but some that i'm not, still to find something to actually do about the things i'm not happy with haha.

[Drewar]

I am very happy with where I am right now in my life.

2013 was an incredible year for me, and so far 2014 has been off to a great start.

I think that focusing on the positives and not letting the negatives get to you is key.

[Cerys]

I'm ridiculously unhappy with myself and my life, so much that I'm having to see a professional about it.

I'm told I should try to stop being so self judgmental but that's easier said than done. There's so much about myself/my life which I dislike but I'd like to think I'm trying to change it. Slowly, but definitely some progress has been made since the incident in December.
Hopefully this progress will continue til I'm super happy yey but who knows how long that will take

[Aiden]

Not happy but I don't try to do anything really.

[Shar]

I've come a long way since 2009 so I am really happy. I am really happy with where I am in life at the moment. When I have off days or weeks or months I try my best to get out of it even when I'm feeling low. I'm finding this year much better than last which is great because I found last year quite good too and I hope it stays great.

[Kyle]

hmm yes i am definitely content with where i am right now. agree with buttons that it's much easier to be happy when not measuring self up to standards of others. looking at myself and how far i feel i have progressed as a person has made me a much better person, only compare myself to who i was before. slowly but surely crafting my life exactly how i want it to be with the people i want in it. happiness takes work.

[dirrty]

yes everything is going great thanks for asking

[Rachel]

My life is great so far :3

[Futz]

not really but I think it's the happiest I'll ever be & I'm think I need to accept I wont live a typical life

[Charz777]

Happy with the progress I've made in all aspects of my life but I wish I didn't have so much work all the time :(

[-Moniquee.]

I'm in the middle - there are some things I'm focusing on changing but I think I'm a lot happier with my self than other people.

[Inseriousity.]

Yes I'm happy, I wish I could find a job and wasn't so nervous in interviews all the time but I know I'm taking steps towards improving that so it's nothing I'm getting depressed about.

[Sharon]

I'm the happiest I've been in past few years right now, but even still I think I'm just coping still. I'm happy with someone so my happiness is depending on one person, which is really sad because that means it can gomomentarily

[Daltron]

I am very happy

[ihatehash]

I'm happy with my life at this moment in time, final year of uni and a lot of good things have happened and will be happening soon. However I sometimes worry that I set my expectations to high and maybe later in life I may not be able to reach the goals I have set for myself.

Reading this thread has made me slightly sad to see how many of you are not satisfied with yourself currently, If you anybody ever wants a bit of advice or just someone to talk to feel free to flick my a pm. Sometimes it's just nice to have somebody listen.

[Matt]

I reckon i could have a better social life lol but because its so hot and i hate the heat + year 12 homework every single weekend, it makes it hard. I reckon once I finish year 12 i'll be out a lot more. But yeah apart from that, which tbf doesn't phase me that much because I know everyone else in my year is in the same position, I am pretty satisfied with my life at the moment.

[Zelda]

no i absolutely hate my life more then i ever did at the present moment. I'm so unhappy with my appearance and everything, i just see fat everywhere on me even though my friends tell me i'm really skinny already and i keep comparing myself to anyone who is even slightly lighter then me and i just get so jealous of them, and i also just always see a hideous monster whenever i look in a mirror anyway, like i hate all my features other then my eyebrows completely, yet i live with mirrors in line of view wherever i sit so i always do have to look at myself.

if anything i do just generally seem to get jealous of everything these days though, like i am so jealous of all my mates being so artistic and amazing at drawing and stuff like that when i am completely useless, i get jealous of like people being better looking then me, stronger, taller, smaller, people doing different subjects then me i also seem to get jealous of, and god knows what else tbh.

i also have like massive trust issues with everyone, and can't believe that anyone actually likes me in the slightest, and i just have streams of delusional fantasies and ideas passing through my head constantly that make me so scared because it basically just forces me to believe all sorts of horrible stuff that people think about me etc.

i've basically got to the point where i hate myself so much that i literally want to kill myself so much, but i actually hate myself so much that i also want to not kill myself so i can suffer more, and it's not just myself that i seem to get a kick out of seeing suffer either, like i always find myself being cheered up by watching people failing or suffering and all sorts of stuff tbh

[Phil]

I'm pretty happy with my life right now. Work is going good although I'm not getting a fantastic amount of hours I'm getting more than I used to. Hanging out with friends a lot and my relationship is going fab. Have two holidays to look forward to this summer and I've decided to go back to college in September. Can't complain really :)

[God]

Im happy with how my life is going, all the opportunity I've been able to take, all the wonderful people I've meet.
Now On my body, I'm not so happy on my looks and I could stand to lose like 1 million bagillion thousand pounds.
But I wouldn't go out and Kill myself over it, nowhere near that.

[-:Undertaker:-]

Kind of but not at the same time.

I can't complain though.

[wixard]

no. the older i get the less happy i become

life just constantly feels like one big pity party right now, definitely making it out worse than it actually is

[geo]

i am okay!!! working my way to being happy with who i am, and happy with where i am.

think a lil while ago, was so happy with what i had that i forgot about myself and then upon losing what i had, i kinda saw every single problem that i ignored or didnt see. have a HELL OF A LOT to work on, but i'm actually kinda excited to become the person i wanna be. definitely need to become more self aware before i work on anything, so that's my first step. identifying the problem, then how am i gonna overcome it.

i actually feel pretty damn good that i've even got to this stage. used to wallow quite a bit but now i'm actually working on it, and for myself. it's a shame i had to lose someone v important to me to see this, but i'll see where life takes me!

[Gina]

im quite happy with my life obv there are things i would change but yeh i'm happy with it :P not so much myself but yno

[Zak]

I wouldn't say happy, I think I will be happy when I accomplish everything I want to do. Which will be never.

[Chris]

I'm perfectly happy with my life right now. A lot has changed for the better over the past few months. :D

[Shar]

I'm really sad to see do many people so unhappy. If anyone ever wants to talk please drop me a pm xxx

[Jurv]

er i don't really know i find it hard to talk about myself and care more about how other people are feeling

i think i'm kinda happy though, much more than i have been in the past and just hoping to get the next few months out the way

im not happy with this staff colour though can someone sell or donate vip pls x

[Cassiieee]

I'm not happy with myself. I have tried to do stuff about it, but there's always something that puts me back.