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Aiden
26-03-2014, 09:23 PM
Are you a touchy (feely, physical) person?

I just realised I am. Yesterday I was told off like 5 times by my teacher because I was touching my friend so much. I just play with her hair, hold her hand, hug her, feel her cheeks, idk

Kardan
26-03-2014, 09:24 PM
No.

Cerys
26-03-2014, 09:24 PM
Is this the friend who said she wants me


Urm not really I HATE physical contact
I havent hugged my mum willingly in like 3 years,that's how bad it is hahaha


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Derrener
26-03-2014, 09:24 PM
Erm no, no i'm not

wixard
26-03-2014, 09:24 PM
not at all, unless i'm sleeping with them

Aiden
26-03-2014, 09:25 PM
Yeah - it's her.

Cerys
26-03-2014, 09:25 PM
Don't blame you for stroking her then

Wait um wot

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Aiden
26-03-2014, 09:26 PM
Are you crushing on my friend? Omg no I can't have a love triangle atm I'm not stable.

scottish
26-03-2014, 09:26 PM
Only with gf

Other than that no.

Kardan
26-03-2014, 09:26 PM
Is this the friend who said she wants me


Urm not really I HATE physical contact
I havent hugged my mum willingly in like 3 years,that's how bad it is hahaha


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Same here.

Cerys
26-03-2014, 09:27 PM
Are you crushing on my friend? Omg no I can't have a love triangle atm I'm not stable.

Wait love triangle
How
What
Why


Ot; if someone like brushes past me I wipe their dirt off hahaha

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scottish
26-03-2014, 09:28 PM
Same here.

Same with the exception of buttons

I never hugged anyone in god knows how many years lol.

Aiden
26-03-2014, 09:29 PM
How can you not hug anyone? Like has you never seen someone really sad and just had to hug them? :/

Brad
26-03-2014, 09:31 PM
I would have to say I am not, but it really depends on people I am with. Haha

Kardan
26-03-2014, 09:32 PM
I should probably mention that I'm not including Char in my answers - just talking about life in general :P

scottish
26-03-2014, 09:32 PM
How can you not hug anyone? Like has you never seen someone really sad and just had to hug them? :/

No, never.

Aiden
26-03-2014, 09:33 PM
No, never.

So if someone in your family died and you walked in to one of your close relative crying alone you wouldn't hug them? :S

scottish
26-03-2014, 09:34 PM
So if someone in your family died and you walked in to one of your close relative crying alone you wouldn't hug them? :S

No lol, I don't think anyone in my family would.

Kardan
26-03-2014, 09:34 PM
So if someone in your family died and you walked in to one of your close relative crying alone you wouldn't hug them? :S

No, I'm not close to my family.

Aiden
26-03-2014, 09:35 PM
That's crazy irl. What if it was one of your friends? Like I can't believe that. lmfao

karter
26-03-2014, 09:36 PM
oh god no

Kardan
26-03-2014, 09:37 PM
I'm not close enough to any of my friends to hug them. That would be so awkward.

Absently
26-03-2014, 09:38 PM
Only with gf

Other than that no.

Exact same as this, but with bf instead. Makes me feel so uncomfortable and edgy. Wouldn't even hug my closest of friends tbh unless I was drunk maybe

Aiden
26-03-2014, 09:39 PM
That's sad. :(

Don't get me wrong, I don't just touch everyone but I do touch people I'm close to (mainly one friend, omg I think I friend zoned her, anyways).

Well at least you have your girlfriend or boyfriend to touch. :)

Kardan
26-03-2014, 09:40 PM
To be fair, if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend - why would you feel the need to touch anyone else?

Kyle
26-03-2014, 09:47 PM
wow you heartless sons of bobbas how could you not hug a crying family member

I'm not really touchy feely person but I like hugs. always ask if they want to hug first though, dont wanna be crossing boundaries and make things weird. 1 of my friends used to play with my hair too, I loved it.

dbgtz
26-03-2014, 09:48 PM
To be fair, if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend - why would you feel the need to touch anyone else?

I think I can understand when it comes to parents (and perhaps siblings in some instances) but on the whole I agree with you.

Either way, I'm not in the slightest. I'm someone who likes to keep myself to myself in almost every respect with the main reason being I don't trust anybody. The most touchy thing I've done in recent memory was grab someones hand so I could take turn their arm to look at their tattoo lmao.

When it comes to hugging I'm basically guilt tripped by my mum and dad (though my dad does it for me to hug my mum 95% of the time).

GommeInc
26-03-2014, 09:50 PM
Nope but I tend to not mind being touched as in hair, neck, cheek (face) and back. Anything else is harassment.

Kardan
26-03-2014, 09:50 PM
I think I can understand when it comes to parents (and perhaps siblings in some instances) but on the whole I agree with you.

Either way, I'm not in the slightest. I'm someone who likes to keep myself to myself in almost every respect with the main reason being I don't trust anybody.

I wasn't really including family members when I said that, just friends :P Just seems odd to me to have constant physical contact with someone

dbgtz
26-03-2014, 09:51 PM
I wasn't really including family members when I said that, just friends :P Just seems odd to me to have constant physical contact with someone

Oh right then yeah I completely agree with what you're saying.

Shar
26-03-2014, 09:52 PM
I love hugs. When I'm out with the bestie or mum I always end up holding their hands or arm because idek I just do.
I hate awkward hello and goodbye kisses though, especially the goodbye ones I hate saying bye its just ugh.

sexpot
26-03-2014, 09:55 PM
I love hugs, I try to hug at least one person a day

buttons
26-03-2014, 10:00 PM
eh not really but im not against it and if anyone gives me a hug im kl with it. wish i had more cuddles in my life!!
drunk yes omg hug anyone hold their hand ask for piggy backs..

Kardan
26-03-2014, 10:01 PM
sort her out habbic

Jurv
26-03-2014, 10:08 PM
er yeah. i always hug my mum before i leave the house and when i feel like she needs one
i always hug and shake my dads hand after visiting him too, and hug my nanna everytime i visit her
oh i also hug my friend after walking her home (just as friends!!!!!) so yeah i'd say i am. hugging is gd!

i don't touch peoples faces or anything else though because that's just weird unless you're together

scottish
26-03-2014, 10:09 PM
sort her out habbic

how, I hug her plenty

FlyingJesus
26-03-2014, 10:10 PM
I like hugs and stuff yeah I'm not like stroking people's feet or anything though, lots of people here with intimacy issues obv ;|||||

Kardan
26-03-2014, 10:11 PM
shes holding hands with everyone!!11SHIFT

I suppose it's just a female thing.

wixard
26-03-2014, 11:06 PM
am i the opposite here then, like i'm not a touchy person but i would hug my friends upon greeting/leaving

family however, can't remember the last time i ever hugged ANYONE in my family
maybe my mum before i went to london for summer
we're just not like that

FlyingJesus
26-03-2014, 11:09 PM
I'd hug your cougar mum mmmmmmm

Empired
26-03-2014, 11:26 PM
I can hug my mum and that's it. I don't really make contact with anyone else if I can possibly avoid it, and I've actually lashed out at a friend once because three of them tried to pin me down to hug me for a 'joke' :(

Yawn
26-03-2014, 11:33 PM
generally no but when i rly like some1 (my bestest friends) i put my hand on their arms and squeeze them a bit :Innocent:
(for no reason btw)

oh and yh i hold hands A LOT when im drunk

Gina
27-03-2014, 01:09 AM
i like hugs and stufff but anything else nty
i only really hug my friend who i see every few months though and my dad
occasionally my mum if i go downstairs crying to her but that doesn't happen very often ;p only when im in an awfullllll state or in a lot of pain haha

MKR&*42
27-03-2014, 01:11 AM
no i hate contact with other people irl tbqh.

Rachel
27-03-2014, 02:31 AM
I do enjoy hugs but I wouldn't do that to strangers and no particular reason either. I do have a soft heart though so I do get touchy as hug when someone that I know is upset.

crystaldd0
27-03-2014, 09:24 AM
I don't touch people lol. I have little to no physical contact with anyone or anything. I also don't like being touched due to the lack of physical contact.

-Moniquee.
27-03-2014, 11:17 AM
Nope, especially when I was at school.

Charz777
27-03-2014, 02:16 PM
I should probably mention that I'm not including Char in my answers - just talking about life in general :P

I was wondering when you'd say this. I wonder if there are couples who have next to no physical contact :P

I'm not very touchy. I hug my mum, because she's my mum. And Aiden, because he's Aiden :P But that's it.

It's just awkward to hug other people. And I don't think there is any need for physical contact besides one's better half, it's just inappropriate :P I wouldn't like to hear Aiden has been stroking some girls hair and touching her cheeks (facial or otherwise)... That's just creepy :/

scottish
27-03-2014, 02:30 PM
I was wondering when you'd say this. I wonder if there are couples who have next to no physical contact :P

I'm not very touchy. I hug my mum, because she's my mum. And Aiden, because he's Aiden :P But that's it.

It's just awkward to hug other people. And I don't think there is any need for physical contact besides one's better half, it's just inappropriate :P I wouldn't like to hear Aiden has been stroking some girls hair and touching her cheeks (facial or otherwise)... That's just creepy :/

Kardan doing that to anyone would be creepy ;ll

but yeah I agree.

Charz777
27-03-2014, 02:59 PM
Kardan doing that to anyone would be creepy ;ll

but yeah I agree.

He's just so scary :P

-:Undertaker:-
27-03-2014, 09:20 PM
I'm very touchy as a drunk. Too touch infact. :P

GommeInc
27-03-2014, 09:28 PM
I'm very touchy as a drunk. Too touch infact. :P
I seem to run around asking all my friends if we've had sex and then sleep in the corner. Imagine what we'd be like :O

-:Undertaker:-
27-03-2014, 09:30 PM
I seem to run around asking all my friends if we've had sex and then sleep in the corner. Imagine what we'd be like :O

You free tommorow night?

Evanora
27-03-2014, 10:47 PM
touching other people makes me shudder

lemons
27-03-2014, 10:51 PM
a lot of people have a restraining order against me so no :s

Eric
28-03-2014, 10:54 AM
No but hugs are fine

I had a friend whos really touchy, he used one of his fingers to draw on my thigh once when we're listening to the announcement, it's so weird & awkward as i never really talked to him much so i was like whats up and he stopped lol

My classmates told me they're all touched by him at least once in some way so the girls pretty much avoid getting near him lol

Sharon
28-03-2014, 04:04 PM
errrrr im touchy only with my boo, first person ive ever actually had real feelings for n wanted to be touchy with. even when ive been in a relationship with ppl in the past i wouldn't go near them unless they asked me to hug/kiss them haaaaa

anyone else can **** off lol made my sister cry so many times because she always wants to kiss me goodnight but recently just started giving in cos it's rude when she's like 6 lol

would never ever go in to hug or even touch someone, or anything like that, unless it is him :S

Sian
29-03-2014, 09:01 AM
i do really enjoy hugging and being pretty touchy with some people.

dont actually like public display of affections though.

Succubus
29-03-2014, 09:29 AM
only to my partner tbh but i'd give the occasional hug to an extremely close friend but anything else nah

Jazz
29-03-2014, 09:48 AM
i like hugs, with friends and family. Not great with people kissing me or grabbing my cheeks and telling me how much ive grown in the last week, but hugs are nice

but not in public, i dont communicate with people at all when im in public.

Casanova
29-03-2014, 02:56 PM
Are you a touchy (feely, physical) person?

I just realised I am. Yesterday I was told off like 5 times by my teacher because I was touching my friend so much. I just play with her hair, hold her hand, hug her, feel her cheeks, idk
Yeah that's because you're indecently touching her - maybe you should consider your indecent behaviour? I'm embarrassed for you.

No more over the norm, unless I'm in a deeply close relationship such as my best friend(s). I hug friends though, never shake hands. Kiss female friends, not male friends.

Aiden
29-03-2014, 03:12 PM
Yeah that's because you're indecently touching her - maybe you should consider your indecent behaviour? I'm embarrassed for you.

No more over the norm, unless I'm in a deeply close relationship such as my best friend(s). I hug friends though, never shake hands. Kiss female friends, not male friends.

I do it to most people... I guess I need help. :L

Casanova
29-03-2014, 03:18 PM
I do it to most people... I guess I need help. :L

I doubt you do, I'm sure you're just doing it because you're immature and need attention. It sounds really ignorant and rude so I would respect your friends and remember your teacher could technically say you're sexually harassing your friend... maybe just realise feeling people isn't needed. Unless you've taken a lot of MDMA. No one would really care if that's the case.

Bankai90
01-04-2014, 05:23 AM
A touchy person? Emm no!

-Nick
03-04-2014, 08:45 PM
Some people say i am but idk

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