when you're in a relationship

[Sharon]

when ur in a relationship with someone/like someone do u want to talk to them all the time? as in textin them or w.e

peesonally i do cos i don't like being apart from him at all n the longest we will go without speaking is like an hour or two if somethin came up lol. the longest i have ever gone without talkin to him is like 18 hours or somethin stupid lol n that was because he went camping and left his phone in the car accidentally so it couldn't have been helped n i wasn't even coping well (tweeted bout 100 times that day on about how angry i was cos i had no idea why he wasn't replyin god I'm clingy...) we just both enjoy each other's company n there's no point trying to play hard to get as if we both have rly busy lives. i also know where he is all the time and what he's doin lol not even that i care or am super jealous we just speak that much that i kno where he is all the time

however i was in a relationship once when he was constantly texting me alllll the time even when i was basically so ill i was dead n he wouldn't leave me alone so i got ****** off and ended the relationship lol

i know some couples rly like space tho and have their own lives a lot so just depends rly

[Derrener]

yes oml im rly bad lmao

[Futz]

nah not really, usually text throughout the day if i'm into a girl but not constantly

think it's good to give each other space

you start to realise when you stop how much time you've put into texting

[Kardan]

Currently I'm living at my house half the week, and Char's for the other half of the week because of Uni at the moment, so I guess I'll answer as if I was at my house...

We have the occasional text/FB message throughout the day, checking up on each other, at night we'll ring each other. Some nights you'll have a 2 hour conversation about what happened that day, other times you'll have a quick 'Love you and good night' because both of you have literally done nothing all day. If we're doing work together, we'll be chatting on FB all day.

[buttons]

in past relationships yes, for a month or so. same as how when i like someone it's usually intense and talk all day for a month then it fades out and they begin to annoy me.
havent hit that stage after 2 years of non-stop talking, longest we've went is a few days when i was on holiday. probably helps that we don't see each other everyday. i don't *need* to talk to him or have an overwhelming desire to but when i wake up or go to bed first thing i do is text him. & we will be doing our own things but msg each other every half hour or something just as a way to let them know you're thinking of them i spose. or sometimes we will put on skype and not actually talk, it's just nice to know they're there. or when we're together and im doing uni work i go over every 40 mins or so to cuddle him

how long have u been together? it might subside and if it doesn't and you're both happy to continue the amount you talk then good!!

[Becca]

it depends who with, i was with someone for 2 and a half years and i had a better year and a half when they moved away and i saw them once a week than i did when he lived near me, guys understand i'm not really a texting person but i wouldn't go a day without a 'how's work been' etc the average talk but we wouldn't force each other to make a conversation

you value your time a lot more when you haven't really spoke/seen each other from my past experiences
the relationship i'm in at the moment is really good though because i don't feel like he's irritating me when we're together for ages, there is a limit though... but being able to get my head down for exams now is going to be good without him

he's looking for a place for us at the minute though so to be fair if that happens, i'll be on the news for murder when he's not at work

[rnix]

if im busy i wud text them less. if im bored i would text them loads. calls in the evening usually.
thats how i usually am

[David]

only read the first line but no i need space for myself too, cant handle 24/7 contact

[wixard]

haven't had a relationship in years but we texted throughout the day and SKYPED at night and like 3-4 days a week id meet him after school or whatever to hang out

with other people I've been SEEING over the years I just adapt to what that persons like, if they wanna talk all the time I will but if they only like the odd text each day im fine with that too. really though im super clingy and would love to talk non stop all day every day but im just good at hiding it

[Samantha]

I'll talk about a couple of experiences as they're so different, but I know which I prefer even though it annoys me sometimes!

When I was with my ex Scott, we used to text a lot throughout the day, but we had college at the time so we knew we couldn't be constantly doing it. It was all going great then it sort of changed. Basically, I'd finish college or he would and he wouldn't really text me, so I'd text him in the evening asking him what he was doing and everything, how was college, the usual. We'd text for like 5 minutes and he'd text 'brb' 5 hours later he would still not text back so I ask him what he's doing again and he says going to bed? That was the basic of it every day for ages, it really went to about a week before thought it's enough talk to me already. He told me that couples manage fine with not talking to each other every day... yes couples who see each other more often than once every couple of weeks. It wasn't too long after that we broke up. However, sometimes he wouldn't text and I didn't know why - 31 hours went by when I got a text off him, I was so worried and his excuse was no signal; he didn't think to ask his sister to message me as she got signal. Another was when he finished college or work about 10pm and didn't text me back, I thought something had happened to him and apparently he just went to sleep, he could have text on the bus home or as soon as he finished and it was safe to do so.

My ex Max and I have text from day one and have never stopped, literally we kept texting for 13 hours the first night and although we don't constantly text every hour of the day it's been nice having someone to talk to there. There's only been one day I think when we couldn't text as his phone was broke, but we were on Facebook and stuff instead so it didn't really matter! I've enjoyed texting him everyday and it's not too overbearing. Even when we broke up he said I'm just worried we won't text each other everyday anymore :P.

[Inseriousity.]

some days we talk for hours and just get lost in the flow of the conversation, other days its a bit more scattered. recently she had to be away for the whole day and I was bored out of my mind, it's cheesy but she does brighten up my day. despite that dont want to be clingy so even though it's less fun I can still manage!

[Samantha]

some days we talk for hours and just get lost in the flow of the conversation, other days its a bit more scattered. recently she had to be away for the whole day and I was bored out of my mind, it's cheesy but she does brighten up my day. despite that dont want to be clingy so even though it's less fun I can still manage!

Me and my friend are like that now, we literally talk for say 10 hours plus near enough every day and we don't even realise until we hang up. Either that or we see it's something like 3am so we need to sleep :P.

[Absently]

it really depends for me. we've lived together for 3 years now so we see each other all night in the morning and for the whole weekend so we don't really have like the whole waiting to see each other type thing so texting really isn't that important for us. if i've done something or whatever ill text him and we might casually text during day, but we won't necessarily do that all the time.

[geo]

i love talking basically all the time. me and the ex did rly, only the odd breaks if she had work! never thought it was annoying either, just loved speaking to her. whenever she went out though i'd always ask if she'd wanna speak after/later/when she's done but she usually said that we'd still talk. called every few days after college and went to each others houses on weekends or whenever we could rly.

[Rachel]

My fiancé and I text each other constantly. We do not live together at the moment. The only time we are not texting is when we go to bed or working. We do have some space, he does what he wants and I do what I want. I am not saying that he is allowed to flirt with other girls and me flirting with other guys...no not that kind of do what you want :P. But yeah we text too much xD

[wixard]

My fiancé and I text each other constantly. We do not live together at the moment. The only time we are not texting is when we go to bed or working. We do have some space, he does what he wants and I do what I want. I am not saying that he is allowed to flirt with other girls and me flirting with other guys...no not that kind of do what you want :P. But yeah we text too much xD


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[Rachel]

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Ya that was just for fun lol gosh

[LiquidLuck.]

in past relationships yes, for a month or so. same as how when i like someone it's usually intense and talk all day for a month then it fades out and they begin to annoy me.

sums it up for me ^ love the ''they begin to annoy me'' because that's exactly how i feel, and i feel so mean for feeling that but its true

[Kardan]

Ya that was just for fun lol gosh

That's what they all say

[Rachel]

That's what they all say

Believe me Matt lives a bit too far for me being in his bed lol

[Kardan]

Believe me Matt lives a bit too far for me being in his bed lol

Stranger things have happened on this forum

[Rachel]

Stranger things have happened on this forum

Lol sadly I am not in Matt's bed so that means Mattg location is in Administrator Control Panel ? Well.....lol

[xxMATTGxx]

Stranger things have happened on this forum


Lol sadly I am not in Matt's bed so that means Mattg location is in Administrator Control Panel ? Well.....lol

She isn't allowed in my bed as it's taken already.... By me!

[Rachel]

She isn't allowed in my bed as it's taken already.... By me!

Lool I can't stop laughing at this ROFL MATTG shhhhh you're spoiling the fun xD

[lemons]

She isn't allowed in my bed as it's taken already.... By me!

oh plz ive seen ur twitter and ive seen all the pussi u get

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[!x!dude!x!2]

Ya. I'm really bad for that . even when i'm busy doing something I still try my best and text them

[Matt]

I don't know what I'd be like but I'm really bad at replying and when I'm not in the mood I tend to just ignore peoples texts for about a week until I remember they actually texted me, I'd probably drive some people crazy lmao

[Brad]

I am a person who love his personal space. But also, I love to hang out with my girlfriend. It's one of those things where when we realize we need space, we do it immediately. Haha. :)


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[xxMATTGxx]

oh plz ive seen ur twitter and ive seen all the pussi u get

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Haha, love it +Rep for sure.

[Yawn]

if u bounce off each other and the conversation is gd then why not but i guess it just depends on the person cos some text convos and some ppl can be so boring to text zzZzZz

for the most part i find it boring and i think its kinda ....unhealthy?? (not literally) to text too much but if i was super into someone and the texting was gd then yh cool

[Spuds]

I can not stand overly clingy. Sure, there's periods when you'll be talking a lot but then there'll be times when either one of you will want to spend time with your friends and not want to be checked up on every five minutes. Then again, that attitude is probably why my ex managed to keep it a secret for a few months that she drove an hour just to **** some guy, ha.

[Liva]

I'm super clingy, him not-so much. :P I lack attention from other sources like family, friends, and so I kind of demand it all from him. It's all good though, even though it sucks, I just have to get over when he's not talking to me. :P


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[Adam]

preferably not

[Joshirin]

I text quite a lot to my girlfriend, but when I'm doing something to enjoy, say music festival, playing rugby then I won't be, either I don't have time/can't or that I don't want to be glued to the phone 24/7

I like my own space and being with friends a lot, saying this I text my GF at least once an hour (scaling to over 100) which is a lot tbh

[Evanora]

I text quite a lot to my girlfriend, but when I'm doing something to enjoy, say music festival, playing rugby then I won't be, either I don't have time/can't or that I don't want to be glued to the phone 24/7

I like my own space and being with friends a lot, saying this I text my GF at least once an hour (scaling to over 100) which is a lot tbh

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[Sho]

I either speak to Drew via Kik or Skype when we can. I think we pretty much speak all day apart from when I'm working/he's busy or when we're sleeping :P Idk if I'm clingy but I probably am (A) Drew;

[james,]

yeah, it caused me to break up with my bf because of it lol