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HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 04:15 PM
If your best mate said he turned out to be gay/lesbian, would you disown them?
Just curious.
I wouldn't
What kind of mate would you be if you did that??
Answer: A very mean one.
Whooh i answerd my own Qs :P
joeyjo21
08-09-2005, 04:19 PM
No way, i have absolutly nothing wrong with gays or lesbians, although i choose not to be one myself. One of my really good friends is gay and i hardly think about it as its not really a big deal.
Jashmine
08-09-2005, 04:23 PM
Doesn't affect their personality o.O
I'm friends with people I get along with, being gay isn't going to stop us getting along?
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 04:23 PM
What kind of mate would you be if you did that??
Answer: A very mean one.
Whooh i answerd my own Qs :P
Your smart xD
No way, i have absolutly nothing wrong with gays or lesbians, although i choose not to be one myself. One of my really good friends is gay and i hardly think about it as its not really a big deal.
Exactly, the only thing that made me make this thread was I saw someone getting bullied by thier mates today because his mates said he was gay :(
Not all all -sigh at Jasmine- hmm.. being bi myself, I wouldn't. That's mean. The people who pick on people because they're; black, white, gay, lesbian, christian, hindu etc are just jealous fat pigs. :p
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 04:32 PM
Not all all -sigh at Jasmine- hmm.. being bi myself, I wouldn't. That's mean. The people who pick on people because they're; black, white, gay, lesbian, christian, hindu etc are just jealous fat pigs. :p
Same, thats how I feel, except I'm not bi.
Digital
08-09-2005, 04:32 PM
No way, i have absolutly nothing wrong with gays or lesbians, although i choose not to be one myself. One of my really good friends is gay and i hardly think about it as its not really a big deal.
What if he like like liked you ;\ i would
joeyjo21
08-09-2005, 04:35 PM
What if he like like liked you ;\ i would
My friends a he and im a she, so i dont rly get what ur saying :s
What if he like like liked you ;\ i would
If he liked you. You say you wouldn't be his friend. Ok that's selfish and hypocritical. I'm sure you've liked someone before and what if they turned around and said: "Sorry I don't wanna be your friend no more because you like me." that's pathetic. So what he likes you, he's not going to try anything if he knows you're not gay/bi or whatever.. same with a girl, or whatever they wouldn't try it if they know you wasn't urmm what's the words 'up for it yourself'.
Edit: I'm not saying any of your friends are gay/bi or whatever or that you have one, that's not for me to know but I'm saying if one of your friends were.
0verRide
08-09-2005, 04:38 PM
i would never do that u cant just say i not ur friend anymore coz ur gay/lesbian after u known them for so long..... BUT if it was my g/f then... i would be having doubts
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 04:39 PM
i would never do that u cant just say i not ur friend anymore coz ur gay/lesbian after u known them for so long..... BUT if it was my g/f then... i would be having doubts
Yeah, I can understand the last bit :rolleyes:
Some fr00bs have voted they would disown them.
Pfft.
Rachi
08-09-2005, 04:40 PM
no.
its sad if you would
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 04:40 PM
no.
its sad if you would
Exactly, especially if you have known your best mates all your life, as I have
Benji there's always one. Or in our case, there's always three.
Rachi
08-09-2005, 04:42 PM
Lmao wud i disown my mate ./
ERR NOOOOOOOOOO
I like my mates :)
Haha. I wouldn't, never even if they were straight, which most are. But that's not the point, anyway..
The only reason I'd disown a mate is if they wouldn't want to like be my mate anywhere which is fair enough I don't wanna beg for mates, then obviously w'ere gonna disown eachother.
Steven.
08-09-2005, 04:44 PM
no, this is a terible thing to do :|
Magnet
08-09-2005, 04:45 PM
Nope, I wouldn't. If my friend told me he was "gay" I would think he was lieing. Because he always pretends "I'm gay wid ya" to me so I wouldn't know. But if I knew he was serious I would just say "Ok then :)" and smile.
My cousin on the other hand, he hates gays and lesbians, (He hates gays more..) he'll skit a gay till the end :(
Steven
08-09-2005, 04:45 PM
If they liked you you'd tell them that thats fine but you're only wanting to be friends.
brunojrthechao
08-09-2005, 04:45 PM
Well yes.
Have you ever heared of a Gay Chav?
If they liked you you'd tell them that thats fine but you're only wanting to be friends.
Exactly what I was tryong to say, but mine was a bit longer.
You wouldn't disown them, that's selfish and hypocritical.
joeyjo21
08-09-2005, 04:47 PM
Exactly what I was tryong to say, but mine was a bit longer.
You wouldn't disown them, that's selfish and hypocritical.
Exactly, all you have to do is say "i dont like you in that way" the same as if it was a member of the opposite *** that you didnt want to be with either.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 04:47 PM
Well yes.
Have you ever heared of a Gay Chav?
Is that a yes you would disown them? :s
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 04:49 PM
I know its off topic, but my shop just got trashed on habbo :@
and I agree with all of you, except the gu with the long name that i cant remember, if he means what i thaught he did
He did mean it. "Have you ever heard of a gay chav" Haha. Have you ever heard of a decent chav, no, so shut up. Have you ever heard of remtarded chavs, yes, that's what they are.
Oh and: 118 118 999 118 - thanks for the bad rep, came up as grey though, better luck next time.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 04:56 PM
He did mean it. "Have you ever heard of a gay chav" Haha. Have you ever heard of a decent chav, no, so shut up. Have you ever heard of remtarded chavs, yes, that's what they are.
Oh and: 118 118 999 118 - thanks for the bad rep, came up as grey though, better luck next time.
Sad name
And, I thaught he ment that, pfft
Digital
08-09-2005, 05:03 PM
If he liked you. You say you wouldn't be his friend. Ok that's selfish and hypocritical. I'm sure you've liked someone before and what if they turned around and said: "Sorry I don't wanna be your friend no more because you like me." that's pathetic. So what he likes you, he's not going to try anything if he knows you're not gay/bi or whatever.. same with a girl, or whatever they wouldn't try it if they know you wasn't urmm what's the words 'up for it yourself'.
Edit: I'm not saying any of your friends are gay/bi or whatever or that you have one, that's not for me to know but I'm saying if one of your friends were.
So if your best m8 turns gay and kissed you would you run away? n00b ;\
Can you read?! NO I WOULDN'T. Because, if he did I wouldn't stop him unless I felt the same because if you can read I'm 'bi' myself. But if I was straight, I still wouldn't. I'd just say: "Hey hold on, I just wanna be friends"
And don't call me a noob, I'll think you find you're the noob. Homophobic ;/
Adam$
08-09-2005, 05:09 PM
Of course not. It's a personality that counts, not the gender they prefer.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 05:11 PM
Can you read?! NO I WOULDN'T. Because, if he did I wouldn't stop him unless I felt the same because if you can read I'm 'bi' myself. But if I was straight, I still wouldn't. I'd just say: "Hey hold on, I just wanna be friends"
And don't call me a noob, I'll think you find you're the noob. Homophobic ;/
I agree with Ross. Even though I dont think any of my mates WOULD do that, even if they did, I'd say somthing along the lines of what Ross posted.
Digital
08-09-2005, 05:14 PM
Can you read?! NO I WOULDN'T. Because, if he did I wouldn't stop him unless I felt the same because if you can read I'm 'bi' myself. But if I was straight, I still wouldn't. I'd just say: "Hey hold on, I just wanna be friends"
And don't call me a noob, I'll think you find you're the noob. Homophobic ;/
Shut up you gay dude ;\ go kiss your boyfriend ;]
Exactly this dude Crana has some serious issues with himself..
Oh and it's a common thing that people say: "Those who tease gay people usually end up to be gay themselves."
I'd remember that Crana. :)
Shut up you gay dude ;\ go kiss your boyfriend ;]
Ohh 'ouch' that really hurts :( Dude, you think I'm gonna care over some homophobic, selfish, hypocritical freak saying 'go kiss your boyfriend' come on.. I've been called worse. Oh and Crana the people who have gay/bi friends in here are going to love what you just said.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 05:15 PM
Exactly this dude Crana has some serious issues with himself..
Oh and it's a common thing that people say: "Those who tease gay people usually end up to be gay themselves."
I'd remember that Crana. :)
Rofl yeah,
And Crana, hes not gay, hes bi ;)
Digital
08-09-2005, 05:16 PM
Exactly this dude Crana has some serious issues with himself..
Oh and it's a common thing that people say: "Those who tease gay people usually end up to be gay themselves."
I'd remember that Crana. :)
No thats what gay ppl say i would never turn i love women unlike you ;|
Oh you love women -clap- I do too, dude hello. BI <- do you know the meaning of it?
Digital
08-09-2005, 05:19 PM
Oh you love women -clap- I do too, dude hello. BI <- do you know the meaning of it?
Erm
Goodgood, you are stupid after all.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 05:20 PM
Oh you love women -clap- I do too, dude hello. BI <- do you know the meaning of it?
Rofl, this is turning into a debate
:o:o:o
My P.S.H.E Homework is to get a debate together! ;)
I have to do an English debate on 'smoking' hmm, lol.
Carlos
08-09-2005, 05:22 PM
I'd accept it.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 05:22 PM
I have to do an English debate on 'smoking' hmm, lol.
Lol,
Crana's last comment didnt have much of a comeback eh?
I know, I wasn't really gonna argue with that little let's call him... H.F.H.S
Homophobic, Freak, Hypocritical, Selfish.
If that makes urm any sense.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 05:27 PM
I know, I wasn't really gonna argue with that little let's call him... H.F.H.S
Homophobic, Freak, Hypocritical, Selfish.
If that makes urm any sense.
0.o Sort of...
Lol
Anyone else have views on this thread?
Wouldnt be a problem for me. i suspect one of my mates is a lesbian but i aint said nothing. Its her choices. Why would it bother me? Shed still be the same person!
Lmao. I've like taken over this thread, sorry.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 05:30 PM
Wouldnt be a problem for me. i suspect one of my mates is a lesbian but i aint said nothing. Its her choices. Why would it bother me? Shed still be the same person!
Yuhuh!
I used to suspect one of my best mates being gay for various reasons, but I kept my mouth shut, and my suspisions went away "/
Omg I have that thing where I can't see pictures on Habbox, hmph. It's all x's.
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 05:37 PM
Omg I have that thing where I can't see pictures on Habbox, hmph. It's all x's.
Off topic but... 0.o
and your not taking over the thread, its in my pwnage ;) ;P
Eamonn
08-09-2005, 05:38 PM
Most likely not but if they kept making passes on me i would tell them straight if they did'nt stop i would have to end the friendship
-Soph-
08-09-2005, 06:47 PM
naa I wouldnt, they're still the same person :)
HellyBelly
08-09-2005, 07:13 PM
im glad people agree with me xD
Janumz
08-09-2005, 08:22 PM
I'd still be there mate.. I don't care whether someone is gay, lesbian, bi, black, white, or grreen. i'd still be there mate.. (okay, if they were green i'd get a bit worried :P but yeah..) it doesn't effect there personality
BlueTails
08-09-2005, 08:41 PM
Nooo, But If He Likes Me Alot Like YOu What What Then I Would Punch Him One
Bec1989.
09-09-2005, 09:29 AM
It wouldn't bother me seen as my best friend is bi, she's still the same person.
BLuweesH
09-09-2005, 09:38 AM
nope...I've got plenty of friends who prefer different types of people when it comes to love/partner. ;)
would be pathetic if you ended a friendship with some one because they prefer boys to girls/girls to boys
Stacey.
09-09-2005, 02:24 PM
I wouldn't. It doesn't matter to me! As it doesn't to most of you!
-Paul
09-09-2005, 03:14 PM
Woulden't disown them but i would be unhappy :(
Pulchritudinous
09-09-2005, 03:20 PM
Me and my friends are oddballs together anyway, we are all a 'reject' in our own right, but we're actually popular than those saddo's who reject people for silly reasons like sexuality.
You don't exactly get rejected for racial reasons, because all the schools in london are realllyy multicultural, no-one really cares, apart from some sad chavs.
I was walking along with my bisexual friend, and she was like staring at my butt, so I said 'what are you looking at' and she said my a.ss looked good my school trousers, I was like ewww, I said I had to go and get a drink from the canteen.
But I wouldn't disown her, I was just kinda freeked out, :P
NekkLe
09-09-2005, 06:08 PM
Having a Lesbien friend would make my friendship even closer! :p
I think some Gay people are funny too, so no, I wouldn't reject them.
Rachi
09-09-2005, 06:11 PM
Noooooo. It wud make our friend ship closer because they accually told me. Imagine how hard it wud be 2 tell someone you are gay tho. :P
NekkLe
09-09-2005, 06:14 PM
Noooooo. It wud make our friend ship closer because they accually told me. Imagine how hard it wud be 2 tell someone you are gay tho. :P
I'm Gay, Come on its not that difficult.
Happy! Happy! Joy! Joy! :p
Rachi
09-09-2005, 06:16 PM
Lolss.
Hows about tellin ya mom n grandparents?
NekkLe
09-09-2005, 06:23 PM
Lolss.
Hows about tellin ya mom n grandparents?
I was Happy by the way, just to settle things :p
Hmm, suppose you have to have the confidence.
Jõnathan
10-09-2005, 11:28 AM
I asked a lad out BY ACCIDENT cos he must've thort i wanted him as a gay pal, but I just wanted him as my friend. Idiot.
Not-Thrilled
10-09-2005, 01:10 PM
I'd wear steel boxers.
Pulchritudinous
10-09-2005, 09:46 PM
I'd wear steel boxers.
Hehe.
Victimized
10-09-2005, 09:50 PM
I said no. But in that position in real life, i really dont know.
No is the right answer, but i cant honestly say i would do that.
Dont have a go, im just telling the truth.
Pulchritudinous
10-09-2005, 09:57 PM
I said no. But in that position in real life, i really dont know.
No is the right answer, but i cant honestly say i would do that.
Dont have a go, im just telling the truth.
X]
Sorry if anyone feels insulted by this, but I'm not sure if I'd be like a bit uncomfortable having a lesbian friend, if you get what I mean. =/
Gay friend, that's cool, I made one in my German class.
Victimized
10-09-2005, 09:59 PM
Same as what i was trying to say, but without sounding horrible.
**1,000th post, sad i know but hey***
tasav
29-09-2005, 01:06 PM
I wouldnt disown them, I'd just try to avoid being alone with them :p
I wouldnt mind having a gay friend though. Gay guys are so cool! XD
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