Could you be with a waster?

[sex]

I don't mean someone who like is in uni or finished uni and not working
I mean people who dont a-levels / do nothing all day other than sit around. would it annoy you? in the future if youre successful would you let them still sit around doing nothing and be with them???

just thought cause was watching benefit streets and guy dropped out college and just sat at home all day watching tv, drinking and thats it!!

thought?!?!?!!?!?!

what level of waster would you tollerate

[FlyingJesus]

Depends how hot they are

[buttons]

no cause am gonna be the waster

but nah don't think ive been attracted to someone who doesn't have the desire to learn or work for a living. don't think i ever will be and it would affect my relationship if they ended up that way.

[Yawn]

sounds like my kind of living

[Kardan]

I don't think I could be with someone that wasn't in education/work. Far too one sided.

[e5]

I'd get too pissed off if I was with a waster who wanted to do nothing with their life. I have dreams and aspirations and I wouldn't want them to hold me back!

[MKR&*42]

Depends how hot they are

tbf im actually gonna say this.

[sex]

I'd get too pissed off if I was with a waster who wanted to do nothing with their life. I have dreams and aspirations and I wouldn't want them to hold me back!

dw babe ur dreams are my dreams <3

[Kyle]

I couldn't be with someone with no aspirations, no goals or ambitions, no thoughts of what the future might hold. I understand putting life on hold, being 'in between jobs', etc. but not taking the piss and living off jsa or something and not even bothering to try to move forward and find something worthwhile to put their time into, sitting watching daytime tv when they could be doing something actually productive.

As much as I'd prefer an equal relationship where each party contributes the same, I don't think I'd really mind being the main breadwinner so long as my partner was still being productive and useful with their time and was happy doing whatever they chose 2 do.

[Absently]

probably not. i find it so exciting to hear about peoples aspirations and to hear my other half talk about that would make me fall even more in love with them, hearing about their plans in life or when they do get what they want in life hearing them talk about it!! it's such a lovely thing.

[Becca]

i had an ex who's bestmate was a waster and sometimes influenced him but that is all

[Zak]

Well according to your definition I couldn't be a waster because I have a degree? lol :S

I couldn't be a waster, I get bored too easily and enjoy the finer things in life. I like working to be honest and even when I'm not working.. I am.. If you know what I mean.

[iBlueBox]

No,

I like to have goals to aim for.

[Matt]

I'd get pissed off that I'd be the one having to do all the work and earn money for us to live off and they just do nothing. I'd want them to do something too. Maybe for a short period of time I could live with, but not for ages and ages.

[-Moniquee.]

No way. I need to be with someone who is going somewhere and has goals and expectations for themselves

[Sharon]

if i was with them whilst they still had education/a job and then they decided not to do anything anymore i don't think i would then go and leave them for it

but if i was getting to know someone and knew they didn't want to do anything with their life i would probs make an exit because i have my whole life planned out and wanna take a law career to the maximum so i don't think i could stick with some1 on the end of the scale

[Naturlee]

If they made no effort whatsoever then definitely not. If they had say been made redundant or something and were looking then yeah but I'd expect them to make some effort to do something productive if they were at home like cleaning or cooking!!

[Yawn]

for real tho i couldnt be a waster i'd get bored and depressed. need to keep busy with something

u cant enjoy lounging around doing nothing unless u have been working in the first place to contrast it with

[Sian]

I definitely couldn't be, they need to be ambitious, trying everything possible to get to where they want to be.

If they don't bother, don't care etc it won't be any fun.

[wiktoria]

No they are just lazy bobbas
also having no money sucks because you can't do anything or go anywhere, everything requires you to hav money so defo nOT

[Hannah]

I wouldn't tolerate a waster at all. OH HELL NAW!

[shiver]

BABE this is a good thread +rep for posting it.

i could NOT be with a waster. i need someone who has a career, a progressive one at that. I DON'T WANT NO SCRUB! i wanna live in a beautiful country house when i'm older and i ain't gonna be able to do that with some waster earning not over 20k a year. soz but it's the truth.

[Jssy]

nope, I've literally been with someone like that and it was awful. I'm really motivated and all he ever did was sit around until thursday when he'd get jsa and spend his money on beer and cocaine. It drags you down because its literally such a miserable life style.

[hairpins]

dunt won nobodi 2 hold mi bak!!!!!!!!!!! cba wiv a borin newb dowin nothin everydaii