How to tell a girl you like her...

[MilksAreUs]

Not really had much experience, but there is this girl in my form who i've been close friends with for a while. She had a boyfriend through the time I knew her, but only a few days ago they split up. I've liked her for a while now, but now she's split up with her boyfriend, how do I approach telling her that I like her? Any suggestions? :s :/

[Kardan]

Do you want to hang out?

[MKR&*42]

I'd wait before approaching tbh haha, if she's only just split up then give it a few weeks at least or you'll be the rebound.

Why not just approach her and ask hey do you wanna do x together sometime and then see if feeling gets mutual and ask her mmh

[Empired]

Honesty is key. Go up to her and just tell her how you feel. You'll be embarrassed and you'd do better to show it than try and hide it.You lot never seem to understand just how much we like it when you tell us the truth about how you feel. Just even a "hey I really like you" is cute as heck.

Just thinking it's better to tell her than try asking her out without stating your feelings 'cause otherwise she might think u just wanna hang out as friends. Like it may be obvious to u that ur asking her on a date but sometimes it's reaaaallly not. (Thinking of Ted + Stella in How I Met Your Mother lol)

And if she says no (I hate to put a downer on this but it could happen so yh), take it nicely. If you don't wanna be around her after that's ok, but u gotta respect her opinion. I'm sure u would anyway but I thought I'd say just in case.

[Sharon]

er give it a bit first it's likely theyre not completely done yet and could still be speaking and one of them/both of them could want to get back together which will make u look bad if u come out so soon bout having feelings for her because even if she did have some feeling for u it's unlikely she will return the feelings so soon after her relationship. unless it was her who ended it and tbh even if she did she won't be completely over it yet

right now you should just be supportive and speak to her more and see if she gives anything away about where her and the ex are at. mayb suggest hanging out but dont expect anything from it unless she makes first move

[MilksAreUs]

er give it a bit first it's likely theyre not completely done yet and could still be speaking and one of them/both of them could want to get back together which will make u look bad if u come out so soon bout having feelings for her because even if she did have some feeling for u it's unlikely she will return the feelings so soon after her relationship. unless it was her who ended it and tbh even if she did she won't be completely over it yet

right now you should just be supportive and speak to her more and see if she gives anything away about where her and the ex are at. mayb suggest hanging out but dont expect anything from it unless she makes first move

I've been supportive with her, she is always saying "love you loads you know" and "thanks for everything" which is nice, but think she means as a friend or she could be hinting something, doubt it though.

[Empired]

I've been supportive with her, she is always saying "love you loads you know" and "thanks for everything" which is nice, but think she means as a friend or she could be hinting something, doubt it though.
Can i just say as a girl who has said this before: she means she values your help and your friendship. Try not to overthink things cos that's the worst

[MilksAreUs]

Can i just say as a girl who has said this before: she means she values your help and your friendship. Try not to overthink things cos that's the worst

exactly but cant help but think these things

[Inseriousity.]

If it's a few days ago, just stay friends for now. I'd say wait a month or two then tell her that you like her as more than a friend

[AgnesIO]

You lot never seem to understand just how much we like it when you tell us the truth about how you feel. Just even a "hey I really like you" is cute as heck.


Eurgh, gender lines.

[Bloop]

Funfacrt I confessed to a girl and she ignored me for 1 year before we were all streamed to another school lmfao *****

Anyways lemme tell u rl examples frm my two gal friends boyfriends lul

One proposed to my friend proposal-esque, getting down on one knee and asking her to be his girlfriend lol yawns

Another one wrote on pieces of papers words and during classtime, he just appeared outside the window and flipped thru the papers from the window

Another funfact both of them have broken up since then laughs

Just b honest, perhaps tell her casually thru messages and stuff that like she's rlly pretty and all the other mushy stuff blah blah

Rlly, just b honest

Good luck ;)

[MilksAreUs]

she just asked me who I like... what do I do? :/

[Richie]

she just asked me who I like... what do I do? :/

whip out the lad

[MilksAreUs]

whip out the lad
Thanks for the good advice 😂

[A4R0N]

tell her and don't be disheartened if she says no there's plenty of fish in the sea and around 49.6% of them are female

[Phil]

she just asked me who I like... what do I do? :/

Well she just opened your opportunity lol
Did you tell her then?

[lemons]

she just asked me who I like... what do I do? :/

SAY YOU SAY IT SAY IT

[Kyle]

Do not tell her unless she asks u directly. If she hasn't considered it it'll just weird her out. As she has asked u just say her and bone her right there and then


~~from phone

[MilksAreUs]

So I don't tell her then?..


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[Kardan]

If she asks 'Who do you like', you say 'You', wait for response, if it's bad go for the classic 'JK LOL'.

[Inseriousity.]

Ignore kyle. he's wrong. very few people ask directly.
if she's given you the opportunity to come clean then grab it with both hands otherwise you'll have to awkwardly bring it up yourself.

[MilksAreUs]

What happens if it wrecks the friendship though?

[Ahnime]

You should probably give her some time first, once she's over him, you could just ask her if she has a moment. Just tell her how you honestly feel and if she feels the same way, that's great! (Sorry I'm not the best on advice!)

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What happens if it wrecks the friendship though?
It won't, it might be awkward at first but if both of you want to be friends one way or another one of you will make it happen. If you truly value your friendship, you guys will stay strong. :)