How do you deal with people you don't like?

[Empired]

I thought of this over the weekend when I went away with a lot of friends and a few people I really can't stand. So how do you deal with people you don't like? Any particular experiences you want to share?

I tend to ignore them as much as I can and say as little as possible to them whenever I have to talk to them. I don't like confrontation so I try to stay away from arguments as much as I possibly can.

I find the people I 'don't like' are my friends who have hurt my feelings in some way. The first time this happened I confronted them, had a massive argument and was then friendless for a year or so at school. The second and third times I just got on and ignored it and we drifted apart naturally in the end.

[Alkaz]

Me and three friends literally do everything together but there is one who sometimes really get on my nerves. I just blank him out or ignore him if he is purposely trying to annoy me because we have the same love-hate relationship with one and other. The other two friends know that we don't really like each other and generally seem to side with me which makes me feel better. Other than that I don't really dislike many other people, or at least I'm not that close to those people.

[lemons]

report them

[Empired]

report them
don't forget to put them on Ignore too! :)

[kuzkasate]

I tend to just ignore them, like completely and utterly pretend like they do not exist even if they are right in front of me. If they start talking to me or start speaking in general I just give them my look which basically says I hate you, please shut the **** up, you're not funny, nobody cares, why are you even here

[FlyingJesus]

If I don't like someone why would I want to deal with them at all

[Shar]

I just try and stay out of their way.

[Chris]

I just try to keep my distance. I'll be civil with them unless they're deliberately getting in my face, in which case I'll make them very aware of my dislike for them.

[lawrawrrr]

It's way too much effort to hate people. If I'm in a group with someone that I don't particularly like I just won't directly engage them.

[Reality]

Shove them in a well and say sorry.

[Teabags]

deal with it and imagine garden gnomes.
wouldn't say anyone is particularly bad though

[Matt]

Yeah I just tend to ignore them and purposely stay out of their way so I don't have to deal with them.

[dbgtz]

I ignore those I hate. I'm civil to those I dislike. I'm friendly with those I'm indifferent.

Though, I'm civil to those I hate in a more formal/professional/work environment until I no longer need to be. If someone I hate/dislike is mentioned, like my dad constantly bringing up my neighbour, I will mentioned that it's nothing to do with them and they should stop going on.

[Jssy]

I'm not quite liking my best friend anymore shes 2 years younger than me but we were best friends and I guess I wasnt with her as much as I am now and I dislike her for her opinions especially as she wants to be a paramedic, proudly declaring in front of everyone that muslims should be out of our country as they are terrorists or that homosexuals are freaks. Honestly with people like that I'm not sure how to tolerate them because it makes me feel sick.

I make it known that I think people with views like that are disgusting. I guess I can be civil with them, but not happy when I'm around them.

[Inseriousity.]

I'm civil with people I dislike (which tbh aren't that many people. does every family have that creepy uncle that everyone hates? lolol) but I'll also speak up if something is brought up or, worse, they ask for your "honest opinion" (which usually translates to 'don't tell me the truth, comfort my insecurities' and I ignore that).

[-:Undertaker:-]

Don't really dislike/hate anyone who I come into contact with.

[buttons]

pretend they dont exist
or give them massive evils

[RyRy]

I tend to just avoid people I dislike. If I've got to talk to them, I'll grin and bear it and act normal. Once they walk off, I'll flip the bird at them because I'm just so mature like that.

If it's on Habbo I'll just ignore them Empired; lol)

[Empired]

I tend to just avoid people I dislike. If I've got to talk to them, I'll grin and bear it and act normal. Once they walk off, I'll flip the bird at them because I'm just so mature like that.

If it's on Habbo I'll just ignore them @Empired (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=80588); lol)
wow that really hurt my feelings pyroka :'(

tbh there aren't many people on Habbo I dislike at all. There are some people i don't always get on with but that's more of a difference in opinion rather than genuine dislike

[Rixion]

Keep away from them but if they go out to purposely annoy me I'd speak up.

[alilbitoflauren]

I ignore them

[Gina]

depends rly i just ***** about them and dont say anything lol
if it was yr 8 or 9 id prob stop talking to them
but its yr 11 so i jsut pretend to like them to get it out of the way lmao

there are like 2 people i cant not stand in my yr group and i have loads of reasons to want to hate them but i dont see a point in arguing when i dont have long left
im just planning on going to a different college/sixth form to them so i dont have to stay in contact lol

[Rachel]

Hating certain people will always happen in life and when it happens I simply ignore and they eventually stop annoying. I am not a type of person who would jump down their throat even if they get on my nerves.... because it just doesn't solve anything tbh...

[Zak]

Block them on social media and ignore them in real life. Works a treat.

[Hannah]

I do not have friends, I therefore do not have to deal with having unwanted company.

[Empired]

I do not have friends, I therefore do not have to deal with having unwanted company.
ouch :o

o/t I have a friend who has recently started REALLY bugging me like i feel like she's some kind of limpet. she sticks to me and won't stop talking about really boring things like she asks me empty questions all the time and I'm a terrible introvert and do not like small talk. I do not appreciate constantly being asked how I'm feeling and how I'm 'very quiet'. I do not like constantly being told how tall I am and I do not like her commenting on the fact I wear this shirt a lot (breaking news: empired owns a washing machine).

yeuch just makes me so grumpy. Dunno what to do about it tho. I was thinking about just avoiding her as much as I can so eventually we'll just naturally drift apart.