friends with benefits

[Sharon]

what's your opinion on having friends with benefits??? do you think they can work without one person feeling something for the other?

have u had fwb and did it work for u? would you ever?

i don't think they work from my personal opinion i don't think i would ever be able to have sex with someone and not develop feelings, plus i have too much of an idealistic view on how i expect it to turn out from watching FWB and no strings attached, love both of those

[Gina]

i personally wouldnt because id just end up getting attached lol
i know alvi (lol) had a fwb in yr7 and they spent most their time in a park so can prob guess how that ended ;l pretty gross
dunno i dont think id be able to do it

im not allowed to do anything til am like 50 anyway
am under urs n toms rules

[FlyingJesus]

IN YEAR SEVEN WHAT

[buttons]

these q's are annoying cause there are people who are adamant they don't work because it goes against their beliefs
same when people say ldr never work

they can work
i've had a few
one of them started to like me and i rejected him but we stayed friends and got over it. another i liked, he said we should stop seeing each other, did hurt but its not the end of the world
probably wouldn't consider it in future but was fun whilst it lasted

[MKR&*42]

yr7 wtf gina isnt that age 12???

[Gina]

IN YEAR SEVEN WHAT
have i never told you the stories bout her from year7-8
they are rather interesting
and def not ok for a like 11 yrold ;l

does make me laugh though doesnt surprise me that much lmao

[lawrawrrr]

Yeah I've done it, never too long-term though. One neither of has feelings for each other but we get on (although we don't really have much sex, more petting), one I honestly didn't even like that much and one I fell totally in love with - tbf none of them involved much (or any in some cases) sex as casual sex isn't really my deal. So yeah, it's possible, but I don't really enjoy it. Prefer meaningful relationships.

[Matt]

I reckon in these situations there's always one person who has stronger feelings for the other person and they hope things will progress into something more. I'm not sure if it would be something i'd do, I could see it happening by mistake. I'd prefer to have a proper relationship instead of using someone whenever I feel the need to have sex :)

[Kimmy]

I much prefer it to mean something. Things like that are special, I guess.

[Empired]

Definitely couldn't have a relationship like that long term. Perhaps a few weeks but not longer because a) they'd develop feelings for me, b) I'd develop feelings for them, or c) one of us would find someone else they want to enter a romantic relationship with so we'd have to end.

[Zak]

I'm all for friends with benefits.

Although if they're truly your friend and you enjoy spending time with them watch out that feelings do not get involved.

[Futz]

I don't think I like them because I always end up

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[Judas]

it's really hard to say cos i'm in a long term relationship atm but i don't think i could cos i tend to get attached quite quickly. works for some but probs not for me.

[Indesition]

I did that, and well, I can't just don't get to feel something, I don't like sex with someone just for pleasure, that might be one night drunk or something, but friends with benefits? I don't think so XD

[Brad]

Sexual interactions with people cause an emotional, and literal physical connection between the two people... Even though the two parties will try to convince themselves that they do not have feelings, or any sort of remorse afterwards are falsely led wrong.

Sexual intentions were meant for marriage only because it brings the two people into unity...

This is why I chose that I have not wanted one because I could, and would never ruin a woman's life with simple pleasures.

[Andii]

Lol well me and my ex (whos now my best mate) would still be like friends with benefits quite alot since we live together lol ;) but i don't know sometimes i feel like he still likes me and other times i think he doesnt so honestly i dont know how people feel with the whole idea of it. we still care big time about each other and treat each other the same as we used to just different lol

[velvet]

never had a specific friends with benefits relationship, but on the rare occasion i wanna sleep with someone i have options