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scottish
24-12-2014, 02:50 PM
will you tell your children that Santa is not real?

Ms.Aquamarine
24-12-2014, 03:14 PM
Neverrr haha. They'll find out themselves when they're older. :)

Absently
24-12-2014, 04:07 PM
I don't think I will, children seem to naturally find out through school and stuff. That's how I found out anyway.

Martin
24-12-2014, 04:32 PM
I think there's just a certain time in a child's life when they work it out themselves really, through their peers and stuff normally. I don't think I could ever just directly tell them that he's not real haha, want them to believe forever! :O

Phil
24-12-2014, 04:42 PM
Same as everyone else, I'm sure they'll figure it out themselves long before I need to tell them :P

Kyle
24-12-2014, 05:31 PM
i wont tell them he exists in the first place

MKR&*42
24-12-2014, 05:56 PM
i dont want children

+ if i had them i wouldnt even say santa claus was real, if they asked id just say believe what you want or something like that.

Matt
25-12-2014, 02:32 AM
I don't want kids.

I remember the day I was told he wasn't real. I will never forget that day, my whole perspective on life changed :(

Lewis
25-12-2014, 07:24 PM
i wont tell them he exists in the first place


i dont want children

+ if i had them i wouldnt even say santa claus was real, if they asked id just say believe what you want or something like that.


I don't want children, but if I did I'd do exactly the same as the above quotes.

Gina
25-12-2014, 08:33 PM
yeh id just let them figure it out themselves
let them believe n be jhappy lmao would rather people at school be the ones to wreck it rather than me

Futz
25-12-2014, 10:49 PM
I really don't know

Empired
25-12-2014, 11:29 PM
No need to tell them. They'll work it out on their own and if they come and ask me I'll just say "well what do you think?" and they can decide for themselves.

SandraDunca
26-12-2014, 08:08 AM
Now a days children are very intelligent, once they grow little they themself know about the reality of Santa Clause.

Jssy
26-12-2014, 01:13 PM
Well my auntie is a Christian and always told her kids from a young age that Santa wasn't real, and Christmas was a celebration of Christ. I wouldn't tell them about Santa I don't think but obviously I want Christmas to be magic so if they believe then they believe, however I will take them to church and highlight that the importance of Christmas is all about family, not presents

Red
26-12-2014, 02:04 PM
If they haven't found out themselves then before they go to secondary school!

Chris
26-12-2014, 02:38 PM
I would leave them to find out themselves. I would want that magic to last as long as possible.

IzzyUhh
26-12-2014, 04:26 PM
do what happened to me
send off a letter to santa that will get 'posted' by my mum the next day
recieve a letter back within hours of posting!! in my dads handwriting!!

Cow
26-12-2014, 10:29 PM
do what happened to me
send off a letter to santa that will get 'posted' by my mum the next day
recieve a letter back within hours of posting!! in my dads handwriting!!

Omg howling so hard.

Mine was similar I found my letter on top of the fridge.

Zak
05-01-2015, 03:29 PM
I figured it out when I realised it wasn't physically possible to visit that many homes in the time available.

A
05-01-2015, 03:52 PM
I would not tell them, I would let them naturally find out but of course if they still believe in him after the age of like 16 then clearly something would need to be said.

Hannah
05-01-2015, 04:20 PM
Personally I wouldn't make out presents to be from Santa. I wouldn't give them the belief that there is a Santa, or that he is real.
As soon as they were old enough to understand I'd explain that it is just a lie which seems to make Santa seem like someone who has favourites with the most expensive toys while others are stuck with little - and that they can feel free to tell all the children at their school that Santa is actually their parents.

I don't really want kids, though.

Richie
05-01-2015, 04:38 PM
I was devastated when I found, genuinely gutted, wanted to cry after the argument but my wife showed me comfort.


i don't think i will but then again all jokes aside it is heartbreaking

Gina
05-01-2015, 05:17 PM
I figured it out when I realised it wasn't physically possible to visit that many homes in the time available.
thats because it was MAGIC
anything is possible u just hv to believe x

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Personally I wouldn't make out presents to be from Santa. I wouldn't give them the belief that there is a Santa, or that he is real.
As soon as they were old enough to understand I'd explain that it is just a lie which seems to make Santa seem like someone who has favourites with the most expensive toys while others are stuck with little - and that they can feel free to tell all the children at their school that Santa is actually their parents.

I don't really want kids, though.

thats so harsh! it is something for them to really enjoy though like at christmas fates and carrots and milk and cookies! it gives christmas that magical edge to it like omg santas coming tonight!
if u dont want them to have that themself then obv thats fine but shouldn't spoil it for other kids too!

Hannah
05-01-2015, 07:58 PM
thats because it was MAGIC
anything is possible u just hv to believe x

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thats so harsh! it is something for them to really enjoy though like at christmas fates and carrots and milk and cookies! it gives christmas that magical edge to it like omg santas coming tonight!
if u dont want them to have that themself then obv thats fine but shouldn't spoil it for other kids too!

I wouldn't actually do it paha - ruining Christmas isn't really one of my fortes.
Though children find out and ruin it for other children all of the time as soon as they find out, whether you tell them to or not. :rolleyes:

Nick
05-01-2015, 10:14 PM
Santa isn't real ??? :(

Prob 12

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