Sex before marriage?

[Biseinen]

Do you agree or dissagree with this?

Me, personally don't agree that you should wait till after marriage to have sex. Sex is not something used just for a routine its about the passion within people and how two people can express it through love.

Like me and my girlfriend, this bond has only brought us closer together and more inlove.

Your opinions?

[Rachi]

If they want 2 have sex before marraige then thats there choice

[joeyjo21]

I think whenever your ready and mature enough and with somebody where there is mutual respect. I dont think it has to be when your in love, or after your married etc. And also in the case of religion, if thats what you believe, then i think thats great also and i admire people who do that.

[Eamonn]

Hmm this ones hard for me because my religion goes to not have sex before marriage but it can bring the 2 closer to then go on to get married tis a hard one..

[Biseinen]

I can understand waiting... But not for religion... I mean, you've got to wait for after marriage? Why?

It's an intimate bond which can be shared by two people and you have to wait for it? Marriages are expensive. (Well, good ones) No one wants a rubbish marriage. What if you can't fall in love and get married, are you doomed to never have sex in a relationship?

I think religion takes things too far.

[Georgia]

I think you should be allowed sex before marriage. People might not be ready for marriage :S

[Digital]

Erm before then after :D

[Col]

I personall think it's up to the people themselves, it's their body, their choice, I see nothing wrong with it.

[Grabbed]

If you are sure the girl is the one for you, then you should have sex before marriage, or if you know it will be a very long relationship.

[Squishybeamz]

I would have sex before marriage because i am quite mature but i need to wait until i was older to have it.

[Victimized]

Definitely sex before marriage. You wanna be experienced for that special night don't ya?

[Squishybeamz]

Definitely sex before marriage. You wanna be experienced for that special night don't ya?
I disagree, i agree with sex before marriage but you should only have sex when you're ready for it NOT TO BE EXPERIENCED!!!!!!!!

[HellyBelly]

My dads wgetting married saturfay and his missus and him allready have a chuld... :l

[Mentor]

I dont belive in marrage to start with, but i see no real reason to wait till after your marryed to have sex "/

[kaut]

let me put it this way... do you test drive a car before you buy it?

[Cavalier2]

Yeah, sex before marriage is fine :p
Kids before marriage..no (my opinion) :p

[kaut]

kids before marraige doesn't bother me either... I'm a result of such a thing and I was seven before my Dad admitted that I was his. Didnt' bother me much as I had my mom and she provided for everything I need.

And then my mom and stepdad had my little brother a year before they were married. As long as someone is around to take care of the kid then they'll be fine.

[Owen]

There aint a real point to marrage...
Share the same surname...
Big woop.

[Biseinen]

There aint a real point to marrage...
Share the same surname...
Big woop.

Trust you to think like that... ¬¬; Marriage bonds two people closer together, it's a commitment.

With your attitude, you'll probably die alone... Very alone... >_>

[Mentor]

Trust you to think like that... ¬¬; Marriage bonds two people closer together, it's a commitment.

With your attitude, you'll probably die alone... Very alone... >_>
Id dissagree to the first point, marrage doent bond u closer to gether at all, it has no ods to the relation ship, other than to make it legaly binding aka as u said a commitment, wich also means if one walks out they will have to gpo threw massive and exspnciuve devorces and loose half the stuff. Only point of marrage is if u dont trust the partner not to walk out, and if u dont do that why would u want to marry to start with "/
There are plenty of people who skip it compleaty these days and are pefectly happy, while in contrast those who marry these days tend to be unhappy and evently devorce "/

[Pulchritudinous]

I'm not sure, I just think your first time should be special, therefore not some drunken teenage thing.

My friend is 14 and has already been with 10 people. -_^

I don't know about marriage, maybe in a long term relationship, or the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with.

[crana.c]

I'm not sure, I just think your first time should be special, therefore not some drunken teenage thing.

My friend is 14 and has already been with 10 people. -_^
:confused_ I'm 13 :rolleyes: