Have you ever lost a close friend?

[-:Undertaker:-]

Have you ever lost a close friend and for what reason?

I guess I have lost a few, although more so when younger. Mainly one moved to another school when primary ended and at the end of year 11 some of the group didn't bother coming out anymore despite being asked a few times and we gradually lost touch which is sad but we did try.

How about you?

[dbgtz]

Lost plenty. Some just due to changes of circumstance (school etc.), some because of separation of interests or some because of reasons I'm not sure of even to this day. Not fun to lose a close friend and I hope I would never again, but it's almost guaranteed to happen at some point.

[Cody]

Yes I have. I had an old bestfriend I knew for 6 years and he had a brain tumor and died from it.


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[Martin]

Yep, some people move on and find better friends haha

or I guess sometimes you perhaps weren't as close as you thought, or the other person didn't really see you as that close of a friend, I don't know. :(

It sucks because you get to know someone and like them and enjoy talking to them, which makes you happy and all of a sudden they might not want to talk to you anymore for whatever reason and it leaves a big gap.

[merier]

Yes my best friend moved to Switzerland with her parents a couple of months ago

[OldLoveSong]

never physically to death but ive lost many friends thruout the yrs mainly highshool friends i no longer keep in touch with

[Kimmy]

I've lost plenty through life changes... Really, there's no way to avoid that.

One of my best friends died almost three years ago now from cystic fibrosis. The different ways in which you can lose people is truly horrible.

[buttons]

yeah 1 cause i got addicted to the internet and never hung out with her outside school and 2 cause i rejected them (lame)

[Empired]

Personally I think I should put 'losing friends' under my hobbies & personal interests on my CV as it seems to be one of my main talents.

I lost my closest friend at primary school simply because her mother died and when we separated for secondary school she didn't want to be associated with anyone who remembered or reminded her of her grief. Which is fair enough. I heard she killed herself last year though so I guess cutting herself off didn't solve anything.

Then in Year 8 I got a new friend and we spent all our time together at school, like the boys used to ask us if we were lesbians.. But I would always ask her if she wanted to go to the cinema or come to my house or something after school (must've asked tens of times by the end of the year) and she would always say no for some reason or another.. Then at the end of the year she told everyone she was moving schools because, and I quote, "she didn't have any friends here". So that hurt pretty bad.

In Year 9 I got a group of 4 friends which was the first time I'd ever been part of a group. They were all kinda into Slipknot and Black Veil Brides and stuff though and I was just there like :) pokemon so I was always a bit of a third wheel. But then they just stopped talking to me so I confronted them after school and they got so angry at me and told me to kill myself and walked off. So I rang my mum and cried for a weekend straight lol.

Then I finally got some more friends at the beginning of Year 11 and had a closeish friend and a whole group of kind of semi-friends/semi-acquaintances. That was ok as we weren't really friends on a personal level so they couldn't see my awful personality x But the closeish friend came with me up to Sixth Form but dropped me when she found new people as I was apparently "embarrassing" and basically wasn't cool enough for her so :/

Now I have some new friends so I guess I'll just wait and see.

WHAT AN ESSAY. Hope you enjoyed the entire story of my life everyone x