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Narnat,
03-07-2015, 07:36 PM
So I have been in a relationship for about two and a half years. I moved to the other side of the country to be with her, I moved in with her and her family. Recently (The past week) things haven't been great she's been sleeping at the other end of the bed for the past six nights, hardly speaks to me and she sits on the other couch claiming there is more room that way. I just don't feel like she can particularly be bothered with me. I have spoken to her and told her how I feel and she's said everything is fine but I know it's not! Any advice?

Jazz
13-07-2015, 03:57 PM
The only thing I could suggest is talk to her again and if not, try writing it out on paper

Empired
13-07-2015, 03:59 PM
Women say everything is fine but "everything is fine" can mean everything is fine and can also mean NOTHING IS FINE so be careful there.

Every time I give relationship advice (resident expert x jk) I always end up saying the same thing: communication is key. You should try asking her again, tell her why you're worried, maybe put a little more effort into your relationship than you normally do (take her out or something) and show her that you care.

Matt
14-07-2015, 08:32 AM
It get's incredibly difficult when she is the one not talking. I'm assuming you've pretty much set your life up in the area you live in now? Maybe take a break for the summer and go back to visit family or go somewhere for a weekend maybe? A change of scenery might do you both some good and might allow her to open up and talk a bit more?

I'm not too good with advice, sorry!

Inseriousity.
15-07-2015, 02:17 PM
Looks like it's the end of the road and she's just too cowardly to do it herself.
Although as you moved to the other side of the country, I understand it's not as easy to just walk away.

I would put your foot down and say you can't continue living like this. Ask her straight why she's suddenly distant towards you and don't accept any ****** "everything's fine" for an answer.

.HoloGal.
15-07-2015, 05:21 PM
Bake a cake or cookies, or even a romantic meal for two..food is always an awesome ice breaker =]

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