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Bloop
16-07-2015, 12:53 PM
what makes u?

Lewis
16-07-2015, 12:54 PM
Very shy and I won't really talk to other people unless I need to reply to them.

Samantha
16-07-2015, 12:55 PM
I've always been shy, even at work to begin with I was the small, quiet person on tills, when I got a bigger contract I got more confident and I would say I'm a little outgoing now, especially if I know you and I'm used to you.

Empired
16-07-2015, 01:25 PM
I've always been shy but recently I've become a lot more confident. People are always shocked when I confess to being shy and say they never would have guessed.

Sho
16-07-2015, 04:26 PM
people seem to think i'm shy when really i'm just quiet. like in group convos i tend to be the quiet one and i'll contribute every now and again if i have something to say, but if i don't have anything to say i'll just sit there because conversations aren't something i'm good at, especially when it's based on topics i've no interest in.

Stephen
16-07-2015, 04:59 PM
im shy online and irl

not outgoing at all

Phil
16-07-2015, 05:14 PM
Nope so pointless being shy. I used to be but I've snapped myself out of it. I like to think I am pretty outgoing

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people seem to think i'm shy when really i'm just quiet. like in group convos i tend to be the quiet one and i'll contribute every now and again if i have something to say, but if i don't have anything to say i'll just sit there because conversations aren't something i'm good at, especially when it's based on topics i've no interest in.

You seem shy irl but really you're just sitting back and waiting to make a sarcastic comment or a clever did at someone :l

Sho
16-07-2015, 06:16 PM
You seem shy irl but really you're just sitting back and waiting to make a sarcastic comment or a clever did at someone :l

it's great isn't it. sometimes i come out with something and people look at me like ???? because they always think of me as this really shy person who never speaks hahaha.
i'm actually getting better at conversing now i think though. when i met the crew to go to london last month i spoke a lot more and stuff. we need to meet again!

lawrawrrr
16-07-2015, 06:30 PM
I wouldn't characterise myself as either TBH - my anxiety sort of makes me "shy" I guess but I'm really outgoing when it comes to work-related things or around people I know reaaaally well (there's only like or 5 people in this category though).

Joe
16-07-2015, 06:41 PM
Super outgoing its borderline annoying

Martin
16-07-2015, 07:31 PM
I used to be EXTREMELY shy, had anxiety issues and suffered with my confidence lots etc. I like to think that over the last couple of years that's changed a lot and particularly going back to college this past year has helped reduce my shyness a lot!

I'm also a lot more outgoing when I'm drunk apparently! My college friends said I turned into a 'wild party animal'. hmm.


I am still pretty quiet and stuff though and I'm initially nervous around people until I get to know them then I'm fine. :D

Jurv
16-07-2015, 09:21 PM
i'm not either i'm sort of in the middle i think? i used to be realllllly shy when i was younger but that changed in college and i came out of my shell completely in uni. i'm still quite shy around new people though, but i think that's because i keep my guard up until i get to know people more

buttons
16-07-2015, 10:38 PM
shy if uncomfortable, otherwise I'm sociable but I wouldn't say outgoing?? I only go out with people every so often lol

Bloop
16-07-2015, 10:43 PM
i am reallyyyyy shy but this few days i have forced myself to talk more, interact more LOL. people keep talking to me, but most of the times i just ignore them and only talk my friends and the people i generally like which is the reason why im antisocial ;llllll

Absently
16-07-2015, 10:46 PM
yeah i think im quite outgoing and a confident little bean. when i was younger, i was incredibly shy unless i was around people i was very familiar with but as i've gotten older i've gotten a lot of confidence!

Matt
17-07-2015, 03:05 AM
Shy if in a new environment or with lots of people that I don't know. If I'm in an environment with people I know and that I'm familiar with, then I probably come across as outgoing. I would say neither though.

Tom
17-07-2015, 09:09 PM
I'm quite an outgoing person. I try to be open and enthusiastic when I meet or speak to new people. Sometimes I can be shy though and awkward.

More times than not, I'm sociable.

jojohnny
18-07-2015, 04:27 PM
I'm not shy anymore because i always was around people who don't really like shy people LOL

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Cody
20-07-2015, 10:58 AM
Very outgoing because I've moved around so much because I have a military dad. I've been to 15 different schools and lived in 5 different states including Florida.


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Ekelektra
20-07-2015, 01:45 PM
I'm painfully shy, always have been but it's become worse since leaving high school.

onceawinner
20-07-2015, 07:48 PM
Both (but the first when am on my own - though it takes a bit for me to be as so with friends etc) = why I am shy too!

James
20-07-2015, 07:55 PM
I'm a shy person, but I am capable of acting outgoing, but it's not naturally me.
eg. in job interviews I won't just be quiet in a corner. I won't be obnoxious either though.

Elegance
25-07-2015, 01:17 AM
i am mostly shy however i sometimes have random outbursts where i am outgoing for a short period of time. i'm shy mostly because i lack a lot of self confidence and find it really easy to feel awkward and discomforted around other people.

VaCcAr0
02-08-2015, 08:38 PM
I'm introverted.

I'm certainly not outgoing. But I'm not shy either. I love talking about topics that I'm very interested in but I hate small talk. If I'm with a small group of people I'm fine but in a large group, I cannot handle it unless I have alcohol.

Nick
02-08-2015, 11:23 PM
I dunno but when I think about it I think if the person is a serious person I am prone to be shy, less talkative, as if the person was talkative and had humour and wasn't so serious all the time, I would be more outgoing

abitoflauren
12-08-2015, 10:39 AM
Shy


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