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buttons
11-08-2015, 12:16 PM
ok so apparently I keep thinking people are gay when they say they aren't (in denial aren't you boys) and I was talking to Saurav yesterday and he thought sex; was straight and fancied Tara pmsl

so anyway, does anyone mistake your sexuality? people assume I'm straight, even when I was single and when I went to gay bars they'd ask why I was there because I "look" straight whatever that means. Never had any rumours about me in school either.

Kyle
11-08-2015, 12:20 PM
lmao not offline thankfully but on habbo where the default setting is raging homo some people seem to think im gay. no idea why tho hmm

FlyingJesus
11-08-2015, 12:23 PM
Yeah often, people make assumptions about everything so why not that :P

Hannah
11-08-2015, 12:42 PM
I've had a few people think I'm a lesbian because I'm not a girly-girl and can quite happily get under a dashboard and play around with fuses. To be fair, I'd quite happily be a mechanic. ;P

I wouldn't have thought I come across that way, but I've also been told that I come across as appearing promiscuous around men, despite not being like that at all.

dbgtz
11-08-2015, 02:24 PM
Yeah a lot of people thinking I'm gay and either ask if I am or say I am if anyone asks. Not exactly sure why :S

sex
11-08-2015, 02:27 PM
me and tara are dating saurav didnt you know
im glad i give off a masc vibe x

lawrawrrr
11-08-2015, 02:42 PM
Yeah, pretty much everyone assumes I'm straight...


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Zak
11-08-2015, 03:23 PM
no lmao

!:random!:!
11-08-2015, 03:39 PM
Yeah, pretty much everyone assumes I'm straight...


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I assumed you was straight :OOOO hi there and nope not that anyone has ever asked me but then again when am out, am always hand in hand with my boyfriend and pushing the pram soo...

Alysha
11-08-2015, 03:43 PM
Well no one in my family has question whether I am gay, so idk really.

lawrawrrr
11-08-2015, 05:00 PM
I assumed you was straight :OOOO hi there and nope not that anyone has ever asked me but then again when am out, am always hand in hand with my boyfriend and pushing the pram soo...
exactly!

I'm bisexual and (almost) completely out - I don't see a point to go round shouting about it or introduce myself as "Hello I'm Laura and I'm bisexual" so unless I happened to have a girlfriend I don't think many people would assume that. When I was with my ex gf people assumed I was lesbian. Bisexual is like the "invisible" sexuality in my experience...

Alysha
11-08-2015, 05:05 PM
exactly!

I'm bisexual and (almost) completely out - I don't see a point to go round shouting about it or introduce myself as "Hello I'm Laura and I'm bisexual" so unless I happened to have a girlfriend I don't think many people would assume that. When I was with my ex gf people assumed I was lesbian. Bisexual is like the "invisible" sexuality in my experience...

Gosh Laura, didn't you know? You can only be bisexual if you're single! People tend not to accept that you're bisexual if you're ever in a relationship, because you're obviously with that one gender and that one relationship has to define your entire sexuality.

Tom
11-08-2015, 05:08 PM
Yes, all the time. People get the impression I'm gay!

All jokes aside, people (before I happen to mention I'm gay) tend to think I'm straight. Then they do this whole thing where they say they already knew - when they were quite surprised when I told them.

lawrawrrr
11-08-2015, 05:26 PM
Gosh Laura, didn't you know? You can only be bisexual if you're single! People tend not to accept that you're bisexual if you're ever in a relationship, because you're obviously with that one gender and that one relationship has to define your entire sexuality.
sorry I forgot people are only bisexual if they want an excuse to sleep around or because it's a "phase" :( :( my bad my bad

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Yes, all the time. People get the impression I'm gay!

All jokes aside, people (before I happen to mention I'm gay) tend to think I'm straight. Then they do this whole thing where they say they already knew - when they were quite surprised when I told them.
You are like a stereotypical gay man though what what

Tom
11-08-2015, 05:27 PM
sorry I forgot people are only bisexual if they want an excuse to sleep around or because it's a "phase" :( :( my bad my bad

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You are like a stereotypical gay man though what what

I resent that comment, Laura! :( it's only because you know me, you pick out my "gay features"

xxMATTGxx
11-08-2015, 05:31 PM
I resent that comment, Laura! :( it's only because you know me, you pick out my "gay features"

Like you carrying that ladies handbag not that long ago - Suited you really well.

Tom
11-08-2015, 05:32 PM
Like you carrying that ladies handbag not that long ago - Suited you really well.

I never said I don't act camp around some people I like! Everything I said would be in an average situation okay guys?!

j0rd
11-08-2015, 05:49 PM
I've had a few people think I'm a lesbian because I'm not a girly-girl and can quite happily get under a dashboard and play around with fuses. To be fair, I'd quite happily be a mechanic. ;P

I wouldn't have thought I come across that way, but I've also been told that I come across as appearing promiscuous around men, despite not being like that at all.

how old are you and are you single

nah I've never been in the situation were someone's mistook my sexuality. which is probably quite surprising considering how me and my mates act, but it's all in humour

Hannah
11-08-2015, 05:53 PM
how old are you and are you single

nah I've never been in the situation were someone's mistook my sexuality. which is probably quite surprising considering how me and my mates act, but it's all in humour

I am 21, came out of a relationship not too long ago and currently seeing someone now haha


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j0rd
11-08-2015, 06:15 PM
GoldenMerc; look lets fight

Joe
11-08-2015, 06:25 PM
a lot of people thought i was gay when i was younger, alas i'm not

merier
11-08-2015, 06:48 PM
never which is good because i want other gays to clock me as being gay, i don't understand homos who try to act straight for the sake of breaking stereotypes

be urself u glittery piece of **** &+*_

onceawinner
11-08-2015, 07:14 PM
I guess so yeah ... though don't wanna say what etc though!

James
11-08-2015, 10:46 PM
People at work assume I'm straight.
I haven't told them either way, but they seem so sure that I am. It's quite funny really.

Martin
11-08-2015, 10:51 PM
Well I haven't come out to my family and most of the people at my old job didn't know (apart from two people), so I guess it can't be that obvious! :O It is sometimes awkward when family members say something like "got yourself a girlfriend yet?" but meh I'll tell them all one day xD

All of my friends know though and it's always good being able to be myself when around them and stuff.

abitoflauren
12-08-2015, 10:39 AM
Nope


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Nick
12-08-2015, 11:16 AM
lmao not offline thankfully but on habbo where the default setting is raging homo some people seem to think im gay. no idea why tho hmm

lol this 110%

Sho
12-08-2015, 12:21 PM
On here most people just assume I'm straight. I remember when the whole thing with Drew kicked off, quite a lot were surprised that I was bi. I don't really think much of it though.

Irl some people have guessed, but most people just think I'm straight too.


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Empired
12-08-2015, 02:08 PM
Tom; you are literally the ragingest raging homo I've ever seen stop lying

Yeah on habbo pretty much everyone assumes I am a lesbian (WHICH I AM NOT) but I'm ok with that especially as when people ask me I sometimes say yes. Plus I flirt with welshcake; Zealoux; lawrawrrr; and a LOT of other female habbos so I can see why ppl would assume im a lesbian :(

And in real life people auto assume I'm straight (i'm white and come from a middle class christian family so I guess everyone assumes that i must be straight) which is ok because I don't really know what I am yet. I guess have a feeling but not really prepared to make my mind up yet so I'd be surprised if other people could guess.

abc
12-08-2015, 04:59 PM
ok so apparently I keep thinking people are gay when they say they aren't (in denial aren't you boys) and I was talking to Saurav yesterday and he thought sex; was straight and fancied Tara pmsl

so anyway, does anyone mistake your sexuality? people assume I'm straight, even when I was single and when I went to gay bars they'd ask why I was there because I "look" straight whatever that means. Never had any rumours about me in school either.

this was after i hadn't spoken to them for five years!! and last I spoke to graham, he always used to be obsessed with tara so I just assumed lol


Well I haven't come out to my family and most of the people at my old job didn't know (apart from two people), so I guess it can't be that obvious! :O It is sometimes awkward when family members say something like "got yourself a girlfriend yet?" but meh I'll tell them all one day xD

All of my friends know though and it's always good being able to be myself when around them and stuff.

I didn't know you were gay till you posted last week saying you were. Then again we haven't spoken THAT much.


lmao not offline thankfully but on habbo where the default setting is raging homo some people seem to think im gay. no idea why tho hmm

Jen keeps telling me you are gay, now i am confused.

MotorStefan95
13-08-2015, 11:54 AM
No, people don't mistake my sexuality but my friend was always mistaken as being gay

Kimmy
13-08-2015, 04:51 PM
THIS MAKES ME RAGE.

People think xxMATTGxx; and I are a joke because he's somehow managed to convince people that he's a massive homo!

People assume that I'm straight too

Jazz
13-08-2015, 10:12 PM
people have always assumed im a lesbian and they're right

Matt
14-08-2015, 10:24 AM
@Tom (http://www.habboxforum.com/member.php?u=66909); you are literally the ragingest raging homo I've ever seen stop lying.

lmfao sucka



Yes people do mistaken my sexuality

Tom
14-08-2015, 10:27 AM
I hate you all. Especially Matt; Empired; and xxMATTGxx;

MDPORT. YOU ARE LIKE THE BIGGEST GAY - EVERYONE KNOWS, OKAY.

Matt
14-08-2015, 10:35 AM
MDPORT. YOU ARE LIKE THE BIGGEST GAY - EVERYONE KNOWS, OKAY.

Anyway you are wrong, where are you getting your information from lol......

buttons
14-08-2015, 10:39 AM
this thread isn't a "who is the campest/gayest person" go flirt somewhere else fs skynus u horny devil

Tom
14-08-2015, 10:50 AM
this thread isn't a "who is the campest/gayest person" go flirt somewhere else fs skynus u horny devil

Wow, don't be so rude!

On topic: People do think I'm straight, contrary to what you all think!

xxMATTGxx
14-08-2015, 11:16 AM
Wow, don't be so rude!

On topic: People do think I'm straight, contrary to what you all think!

We all know it's true, everyone has been saying it for weeks that you and mdport are getting it on.

On-Topic: As Kimmy says, everyone mistakes mine ;)

Nick
14-08-2015, 12:43 PM
WHO CARES ABOUT WHO IS THE GAYEST IT DOESSNT MATTER IF UR WHITE, BLACK, PURPLE, AFRICAN OR HAVE EBOLA LOVE IS LOVE. EQUALITY 4 EVERY 1

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/68/Gay_flag.svg/2000px-Gay_flag.svg.png

Samantha
16-08-2015, 07:40 AM
I don't think they do, but I think that might be because since 2011 I've been in a relationship with a little gap in 2012 and 2014.

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MKR&*42
16-08-2015, 09:28 AM
A lot of people won't believe me when I say this, but the majority of people I've met think I'm straight (irl) until somehow it comes out that I'm bisexual.

nini
16-08-2015, 11:58 AM
my family always assume i'm a lesbian when i'm asexual

Kyle
16-08-2015, 12:27 PM
A lot of people won't believe me when I say this, but the majority of people I've met think I'm straight (irl) until somehow it comes out that I'm bisexual.
i thought you were gay

MKR&*42
16-08-2015, 02:06 PM
i thought you were gay

Are you saying that on purpose 'cause I ranted about it the other day, or for serious.

Empired
17-08-2015, 08:49 AM
my family always assume i'm a lesbian when i'm asexual
ARE YOU REALLY i love it when i find people i could potentially be similar to wahey

I think my mum is secretly terrified that I'm a lesbian because I don't really show any interest in boys and, of course, not straight equals lesbian apparently!

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