'Friends'

[Kimmy]

Rant time. I'm pissed.

My friend and I have been 'best' mates for almost 5 years now. He's always sort of liked me, but I only ever wanted to appreciate him as my friend because I'm prone to ruin relationships pretty damn well.

ANYWAY. Whenever I'm with someone, he stops speaking to me entirely. As soon as I'm out of a relationship, he comes back and tries to worm in and use the vulnerability of a breakup to woo me into whatever the **** he wants. The same happened previously, and we spoke and got on right up until I got with el Mattg. Then, he stopped talking and giving a so call damned flying ****.

I messaged him today asking why this is, because I actually enjoy talking to him. He's my mate, we have a laugh and I thought we were starting afresh. He says he feels like I betrayed him by getting with Matt because apparently David thought he had more of a 'chance', and tries harder than Matt does. ??!?!

I told him before I ever ended with the last dude that I'd never do long distance again, so because I got with someone who's in Manchester (I'm in Scotland) and not with him, who's ALSO IN BLOODY MANCHESTER, I lied to him.

He thinks that because Matt works during the day and I quote "sit around twiddling my thumbs" that he's Prince Charming and better for me. He thinks Matt's some monster who's a bad idea and all this **** blabla.

So now he won't talk to me because, again, I'm with someone and he can't get into my pants.

LIKE WHAT DO I DO
Sorry for the rant, probably makes no sense and there's heaps more stuff but he's messaging me right now and ugh bye

[Hannah]

I'd say just duck him off entirely. Totally not worth the drama he's making it into because of his jealousy.

[Kyle]

Oh my, what a white knight. Tell him that you don't ever want a relationship with him and that if that's all he talks to you for then there's no point being friends. complete mongoloid tbh

[wixard]

i have this problem with Kyle; i just tell him he's not good enough for me x

[buttons]

you say you don't want to ditch him because he's a good friend but obviously he isn't. and clearly he doesn't value your friendship when he's slagging off your boyfriend (when he should be happy for you) and will continue disrespecting you and trying to get into your pants. ditch him, you don't need that negativity gurl.

[Kimmy]

you say you don't want to ditch him because he's a good friend but obviously he isn't. and clearly he doesn't value your friendship when he's slagging off your boyfriend (when he should be happy for you) and will continue disrespecting you and trying to get into your pants. ditch him, you don't need that negativity gurl.

I got proper mad when he started saying stuff about xxMATTGxx because he's innocent and has never even breathed a WORD to him. But yeh, I think I'm ditching him for goods now cba

[Hannah]

Give him an ultimatum - say if he can't be happy for you and throws a little hissy fit every time you're with someone you actually want to be with, then he doesn't deserve you in his life at all and that you'll cut everything off.
If he's happy to be your friend and happy for you, he can stay in contact. :p

[Joe]

No true friend would do that to you - he's only being your friend to get with you, hence how much of a ******* idiot he's being.

[Phil]

Tell Matt to try harder so he has nothing to go off!

No seriously just tell him to **** off, he's not worth it and he's not going to get you AGM on Habbox. I think he's being really unfair to you and th being quite manipulative.

[Kimmy]

Give him an ultimatum - say if he can't be happy for you and throws a little hissy fit every time you're with someone you actually want to be with, then he doesn't deserve you in his life at all and that you'll cut everything off.
If he's happy to be your friend and happy for you, he can stay in contact. :p

I did this before and he stopped talking to me so I thought I'd done something wrong. I know now that he's obviously just trying to mess around because he's jealous and upset that I didn't choose him. Then he's all:

https://i.gyazo.com/84cc41755817279bdad3169499dbc144.png

:/// Then he says it was a bad idea to get with anyone in the first place yet I'm 100% sure that wouldn't be the case if I'd thrown myself at him and chose to ruin a 5 year relationship instead of actually want to be with someone I properly like?

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Tell Matt to try harder so he has nothing to go off!

No seriously just tell him to **** off, he's not worth it and he's not going to get you AGM on Habbox. I think he's being really unfair to you and th being quite manipulative.

LOL PHIL WTF
1) don't want agm
2) he is manipulative
3) i'm just here to steal matt's job tbh

no but really, Matt's doing fine. David doesn't even know him so he already has nothing to go off of!

[Hannah]

I did this before and he stopped talking to me so I thought I'd done something wrong. I know now that he's obviously just trying to mess around because he's jealous and upset that I didn't choose him. Then he's all:

https://i.gyazo.com/84cc41755817279bdad3169499dbc144.png

:/// Then he says it was a bad idea to get with anyone in the first place yet I'm 100% sure that wouldn't be the case if I'd thrown myself at him and chose to ruin a 5 year relationship instead of actually want to be with someone I properly like?



Ah then I wouldn't even tell him or say bye. Just block him on everything and have done with the sorry excuse of a guy. :)

[Phil]

Kimmy; If he's not happy that you're happy with Matt then he's not a real friend. He's looking past what you actually feel and just seeing that you're hot and super sound so he's like I wanna piece of that.

[Kimmy]

Kimmy; If he's not happy that you're happy with Matt then he's not a real friend. He's looking past what you actually feel and just seeing that you're hot and super sound so he's like I wanna piece of that.

Yass Phil. I told him to piss off anyway, Matt's too chill to have someone be jealous of him.

But tbh then there's xxMATTGxx; who's being mean to me right now and making my forum slow so er he's in the dog house too.

[dbgtz]

What kyle said + this is pretty childish behaviour. If I were you, I'd have stopped speaking to that person by now.

[Joe]

Ah then I wouldn't even tell him or say bye. Just block him on everything and have done with the sorry excuse of a guy. :)

Hannah you're ruthless, but yeah this.

[xxMATTGxx]

Like I said on Skype, he's a stupid ****.

[Samantha]

I had something like this with a person at work and although he spoke to me whilst I was with someone he was always pushing for something more and I'm not a cheater and he was always like, so we'll be together soon? How long? pretty much begging me. Anyway, when me and my boyfriend broke up he tried more than ever to talk to me, interact with me and he literally changed pretty much his whole 'shyness' and started going out with workmates as long as I was going too - he then tried it on, whilst the boyfriend I had just parted from was there and everything! Again he was still saying when are we going to go out and I told him no when he asked me out, he still didn't get the message - again when on a work's night out he tried something again. The day after, I got back with my boyfriend and actually told the guy even though it's nothing to do with him. He didn't understand what I meant and he later messaged me 3 weeks later saying "I thought we were friends, thanks for telling me." which I did lmao. Long story short though, it got too much - I was like you I wanted a friendship, but he wanted more and I just enjoyed talking to him as that's what it always was. I cut contact with him last July/August, and only ever spoke to him a couple of times for the picture of the rota at work, but of course he couldn't handle himself and started drunk texting me and the content was cut permanently on my behalf. He doesn't speak to me now, we only speak minimally in work, but it's just a professional relationship now, there's no feelings (on my behalf, as I'm pretty sure he still likes me lmao), and I think that is potentially the only way to stop him. However, I would just be weary that he isn't assuming Matt is going to be a 'rebound' so he'll be there to jump in yet again.

[Kimmy]

However, I would just be weary that he isn't assuming Matt is going to be a 'rebound' so he'll be there to jump in yet again.

Matt is 100% not going to be a rebound. I don't want to talk to David any more, so he'll not be there to jump in if ever anything did happen!

[David]

Like I said on Skype, he's a stupid ****.

fight him matt

[Hannah]

Hannah you're ruthless, but yeah this.

Sometimes it's the only way to be with this sort of person

[Brad]

Kimmy, you deserve friends that are a whole lot more supportive and actually want to be around you. Life is way too short for haters...

[Kyle]

hmu when you dump matt

[FlyingJesus]

Tell him to prove his love for you by buying me shoes I like shoes

[Kimmy]

Tell him to prove his love for you by buying me shoes I like shoes

Matt or David?

[Hannah]

Matt or David?

Both, they can each fund a foot.

[FlyingJesus]

Both sounds good to me

[j0rd]

sounds like an oddball why are you friends with an oddball

why doesn't matt fill him in if they're both in manchester

[FlyingJesus]

I think he's only meant to fill her in if they're together officially

[kfc]

naaaaa get rid of ur """friend""" you dont owe this boy a damn thing, how disgustin and RUDE of him to think there is something so terribly wrong with simply being friends

[welshcake]

tbh kimmy I looked him up and he has a bigger hair quiff than i do and that's saying something
not worth ur friendship

[Kimmy]

tbh kimmy I looked him up and he has a bigger hair quiff than i do and that's saying something
not worth ur friendship

Depends the David... But yeah, he looks like a weasel so na


naaaaa get rid of ur """friend""" you dont owe this boy a damn thing, how disgustin and RUDE of him to think there is something so terribly wrong with simply being friends

Ikr. He always wanted to chance his luck though!


I think he's only meant to fill her in if they're together officially

We are and he has.


sounds like an oddball why are you friends with an oddball

why doesn't matt fill him in if they're both in manchester

I think that means something other than what you mean where I live... Either way, don't think Garner's the type

[FlyingJesus]

Haha you did it with a boy that's so gay

[Richie]

Friend zone him even more than you already have. If he doesn't like it he knows where the log out button is :P. Or just make yourself unattractive, whatever he likes about you, **** on that parade.



Kimmy, you deserve friends that are a whole lot more supportive and actually want to be around you. Life is way too short for haters...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyubEwigfUY

[sadcore]

honey he is extra... get that ***** out ya life

[Empired]

Friend zone him even more than you already have. If he doesn't like it he knows where the log out button is :P. Or just make yourself unattractive, whatever he likes about you, **** on that parade.
YEAH start friend zoning this guy so hard just for a laugh

Here are some helpful hints to get u going x
"One day you're gonna make some woman so happy David :)"
"I feel like I can talk to you about anything" / "You're such a great listener!"
"You're such a nice guy!"
And of course keep trying to set him up with other girls

[buttons]

But he isn't a lovely person he's a butthole and he needs to be told straight so he bucks up his ideas

[Kimmy]

I love you guys hahaha
come on here and ***** bout someone, you got Habbox backing you up!

Anyway, he called me the c word because I told him I didn't want to talk about Matt and I any more and I'm like cool mate