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Empired
07-02-2016, 11:36 PM
Do you have any regrets in life? I should hope at this age none of us have massive regrets like committing murder lol (BUT YOU NEVER KNOW EH) but even teeny tiny things like not talking to a specific person at school more.

Samantha
07-02-2016, 11:38 PM
No not really, nothing major anyway. For example, for years I used to 'regret' not going home with my mum early when she came to talk to my teachers - our parents evening extended from the afternoon so if the meeting was early you could go home early too. I opted to stay with my friends, then I acted 'sick' because I really did want to go home and I ended up finishing 15 minutes before everyone else so it was pointless. I'm weird I know. Another, although not so much was not seeing my ex on his birthday when we were together, but he specifically told me it was fine and he was ok about it - if he was wanting to see me he shouldn't lie and say he is ok :P.

Cerys
07-02-2016, 11:46 PM
Nothing really, no :o or at least nothing jumps straight to mind

I'm sure I'll still have plenty of time to develop a number of regrets over the years :p

Empired
07-02-2016, 11:53 PM
I partially regret signing up to Habbo to be honest. Though I can't work it out - if I hadn't joined Habbo I like to imagine I'd be super happy and super popular and great but I have a feeling instead I would just have no friends instead of just having virtual ones lol rip me

dbgtz
08-02-2016, 12:07 AM
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In all seriousness, I regret not learning (or continuing with) more things like an instrument, especially the piano.

Kyle
08-02-2016, 04:54 AM
http://www.tattoofun.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000001/Add_A_NAME/NoRagrets.jpg

In all seriousness, I regret not learning (or continuing with) more things like an instrument, especially the piano.
If a regret involves not doing something then consider what stopped you and whether you have the capacity to change that. Not continuing with instruments is a regret that can be easily fixed, just save up for an instrument and take some lessons. You're never too old to learn new things!

This is probably a bit lame but also good in that I don't have any proper regrets, but my regrets generally involve allowing myself to drift away from people who were important to me online, I think it'd be nice if we were still able to talk regularly even if we do all have our own lives outside of this sphere now.

dbgtz
08-02-2016, 12:07 PM
If a regret involves not doing something then consider what stopped you and whether you have the capacity to change that. Not continuing with instruments is a regret that can be easily fixed, just save up for an instrument and take some lessons. You're never too old to learn new things!

This is probably a bit lame but also good in that I don't have any proper regrets, but my regrets generally involve allowing myself to drift away from people who were important to me online, I think it'd be nice if we were still able to talk regularly even if we do all have our own lives outside of this sphere now.

Oh I have every intention to, just don't really have the space of money for it right now. I was going to actually do it last summer as there's just a keyboard sitting in my house, but for various reasons I just didn't get around to it. The things I've been able to actually work on the last year or so have just been more accessible or necessary.

RuthOnToast
09-02-2016, 04:50 PM
Seems werid but first thing i thought of is i regret waiting to join the swim club. I insisted i got all my badges before i joined the club and didn't join till i was 11 where most people join at 8 or 9. Now i they ended up being faster than me but not to worry im pretty hard working and im starting to beat them.

Suppose i should regret all the times i was excluded from school even in primary school i was always getting sent home then in year 8 i was almost kicked out of school altogether and went to this little school that was basically for little shits who couldn't be controlled in a normal school but i never saw it as my own fault (that sounds abit rude but yh) and it may of lead me to leaving school with 2 GCSEs. But i honestly dont regret any of it.

MKR&*42
09-02-2016, 07:32 PM
I don't know, I perhaps regret not trying to learn a foreign language earlier and not eating healthier in the past, but they're not absolute major regrets. I don't like to get hung up on regretting what has been anymore.

Misawa
10-02-2016, 01:36 AM
If you're happy with who you are today then whatever path you've followed has led to that, so you shouldn't have any regrets.

If you're not happy then you're fucked.

FlyingJesus
10-02-2016, 02:35 AM
I regret a lot of who I was in the past and how I've made people feel, as Misawa said it all leads to this very moment so in a sense it should all be good since there are plenty of things I've extremely happy about in my life right now, but still got a lot of guilt

Matt
10-02-2016, 11:29 AM
I have one regret that comes to mind and it's to do with family but that's all I'll say!

Apart from that, nothing else strikes out as a massive regret.

Nick
10-02-2016, 12:17 PM
I have one regret that comes to mind and it's to do with family but that's all I'll say!

Apart from that, nothing else strikes out as a massive regret.

was it that time when u peed on the floor

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well i dont think i have any tbh.. probably playing habbo *sighs*



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lawrawrrr
10-02-2016, 01:50 PM
I try to stop myself regretting things. I'm the same as Misawa/FJ in that I believe everything that has happened made me into the person and gave me the things I have/am today and whether that's good or bad it's who I am so yeah.

Of course there are a few things that I wish hadn't happened and I love blaming myself and see things I could have done differently but meh, I don't dwell on the past. Just think about the present and possible future!


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thms
10-02-2016, 04:52 PM
I try to stop myself regretting things. I'm the same as Misawa/FJ in that I believe everything that has happened made me into the person and gave me the things I have/am today and whether that's good or bad it's who I am so yeah.

Of course there are a few things that I wish hadn't happened and I love blaming myself and see things I could have done differently but meh, I don't dwell on the past. Just think about the present and possible future!


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pretty much agree with this and i'm the same. i don't really regret anything and if i do i try to rectify those things, especially if it involves people i care about, but when it does come to regretting cutting some people out of my life etc i don't regret that

RyRy
10-02-2016, 10:18 PM
Yeah couple of things I regret, mostly relate to Habbox and Habbo actually but I've tried to correct what can be corrected, but some things that just isn't possible so I gotta live with that fact and hope I never do it again.

Biggest regret though, not making the most of my childhood and being a teenager, I was very shy, bullied and just let myself be walked all over by everyone. I didn't act like a kid I guess, and I missed out on a lot.

Wish I had a do over on plenty of things yano.

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