cheating in a relationship

[Gina]

have you ever cheated on someone?
have you ever been cheated on?
did that person forgive you? did you forgive that person?
what do you think about people who cheat?
would you get with someone knowing they're in a relationship?
what do you consider as 'cheating'?

[Cerys]

no i would never cheat, thinking of cheating makes me feel sick and i think its the worst possible thing someone could do to someone

id give them the death sentence if they cheated on me :Innocent::angel:

[IzzyUhh]

I would never cheat on someone every
I've never been cheated on thank God
I think people cheat because they're bored of their relationship ship and it's a cowardly way to get out of it
I consider anything from a kiss, but depends how things are done, If I caught my boyfriend saying he loves someone and all that stuff I'd be annoyed and question it and talk
Im not scared of being cheated on, if they cheat on me they're gone, I'd never stay with a cheater I don't want that negativity in my life

One girl I know her boyfriend slept with anot her girl sent pictures and did it like 4 times they're so unhappy but they're dating like a year later

[takeapicture]

NEVER. just awful.

[Lucy]

Cheating is a horrible thing to do, if your heart is not in a relationship then grow up and end the relationship. To me the "what is cheating" is really soft to be honest, to me anything that can be construed as a "date" to me would be cheating. But I have been on the wrong end of it so probably why.

[Kyle]

I've never cheated or been cheated on and I consider intentional contact like passionate kissing as cheating but think casual flirting is just fine if everybody knows it's not going anywhere.

[Jake]

I really can't stand people who cheat on their partner over and over and the people who forgive them drive me insane aswell, like have some self respect and think better of yourself. No-one deserves to be cheated on.

[RyRy]

have you ever cheated on someone?
No

have you ever been cheated on?
Well if "oh but we knew the relationship was ending anyway so whats the big deal" counts then sure, plenty of times.

did that person forgive you? did you forgive that person?
not so much forgive, just didn't care anymore.

what do you think about people who cheat?
theyre just people who want to know whether the grass is greener on the other side... i don't condone it, just understand why they do it.

would you get with someone knowing they're in a relationship?
have done, ashamed of it but meh it was a half and half effort.

what do you consider as 'cheating'?
breaking your partners trust by doing stuff with another person (even worse if they deny it and they're lying).

[Becca]

have you ever cheated on someone?
have you ever been cheated on?
did that person forgive you? did you forgive that person?
what do you think about people who cheat?
would you get with someone knowing they're in a relationship?
what do you consider as 'cheating'?

no
yes lol
nope
whats the point just break up with them
no i wouldnt
cheating is anything from a kiss like nothing wrong with a cheeky cuddle but a kiss is v bad

[Barkseh]

I used to all the time, didn't care about anyone and was a ***. I then got cheated on and realised it isn't very nice. I would never do it again. I've been with my current girlfriend for 5 years and have not cheated once. I am now a good boy :)

[lawrawrrr]

have you ever cheated on someone? yes. well, kinda (see last question)


have you ever been cheated on? yes, also highly suspicious of another one


did that person forgive you? yes or they still don't know
did you forgive that person? didn't find out till after


what do you think about people who cheat? It's up to them? I don't really see the point in making such a huge deal when it's up to the person what they do and up to their partner to forgive. I just hate people who are like OMG HOW COULD YOU YOU'RE AWFUL or HOW COULD YOU FORGIVE HER SHE'S LITERALLY DISGUSTING when they don't know the full story.


would you get with someone knowing they're in a relationship? Depends. Sounds horrible... but if that person was willing and I really liked them - I've been in this situation before - then it's their decision.


what do you consider as 'cheating'? Well. I think I class anything as cheating but I think I'd go for mostly physical. HOWEVER having an emotional affair is worse for a relationship but I don't think you can help your emotions so it's not really fair to have a go at someone for it. But I do think if you're having serious feelings like that then you should really reconsider what you're doing in the other relationship.

Physical things are like, widely regarded as cheating but I think for me I could easily forgive a kiss (and that's the only thing I've really done) and don't think it's THAT big a deal as long as it's not leading to more.

I do think the majority of cheats - and it's definitely the case for me - do it at the very beginning of a relationship (before it's established) or during bad patches/close to a breakup... almost to test the waters yknow?

Obviously it's different for everyone and a big part of it is being open about it and having that mature discussion with your partner if anything does come up. End of the day we're humans and humans have urges we can't ALWAYS control, that's the way I see it anyway.