View Full Version : are you more of a talker or a listener?
some people just love to talk and tell other peoples their problems, where others are their for support to the person that is talking to them. What are you? Do you like to let off some steam to the people who listen and are there to support you, or do you prefer to listen to other people and try and help them.
Personally, i'm more of a listener and i will try and go that extra mile to make them feel good if something bad has happened, plus i'm always good for someone to vent too haha!
Absently
02-04-2016, 10:41 PM
i am a massive chatterbox and could talk for hours, but i am a good listener too and would like to think im good when someone is need and will listen then chatter my head off with advice :)
-:Undertaker:-
02-04-2016, 10:59 PM
a talker by miles
Empired
03-04-2016, 07:34 AM
Online I'm definitely a talker (sorry to every1 who has been subjected to my endless chatter) but in real life I don't speak all that much at all.
Sad story time when I was younger I was bullied about a fluorosis patch on my teeth so I basically didn't open my mouth in years 7, 8 and some of 9
I'd say I'm a listener. I'd much rather listen to someone talk than have someone listening to me. I find there's a lot of people who don't have listening skills and want everything to be about them and their life and the people they know. Listening to someone can also help a lot depending on what it's about and what they're going through.
Chris
03-04-2016, 10:03 AM
A listener I think! I don't tend to talk too much about my problems, so I find it easier to try and help others.
scottish
03-04-2016, 01:28 PM
Neither tbh
dbgtz
03-04-2016, 01:28 PM
In a more serious/formal sense, almost certainly a listener. I don't tend to talk about my problems unless I'm just that livid or a bit drunk.
More informally, I can chat absolute shit from time to time but still more of a listener.
David
03-04-2016, 01:40 PM
listening to talkers makes me thirsty (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWiAxF6VAj8)
neither, i'm terrible at advice and i don't tell people my problems it's not their business
OldLoveSong
04-04-2016, 04:23 AM
listener deff. bein a introvert most likely plays into that aswell.
buttons
04-04-2016, 07:06 AM
a listener, only cause im not assertive enough and everyone just talks over me! i tend to speak when spoken to rather than make convo but that's just my natural state rather than being awks or anything.
Empired
04-04-2016, 09:06 AM
a listener, only cause im not assertive enough and everyone just talks over me! i tend to speak when spoken to rather than make convo but that's just my natural state rather than being awks or anything.
Ugh same at not being assertive enough to get a word in.
It's so bad though because sometimes I can be in the middle of a sentence, someone else interrupts and starts talking over me, and I am the one to stop and apologise. I'm so stupid :/
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